my wife is shy

If you'll find for her any loss-weight program she will think for you she is fat, is better if you'll let her do that in her own way, and you should tell her all the time how beatiful she is for you

It's not about losing weight faster, it's about letting her know how much you love her and that you love her the way she is. Buy her flowers and stuff. And if she accepts, ask her if she would like to do sports/gym with you. That way you guys could spend some time together.

words will only go so far in convincing a woman that she's not fat here's something you can do get into your jogging pants and take your time it getting them on until your wife asks you where you're going tell her you're gonna go out to exercise and in an offhand manner ask her if she wants to join you make sure you ask her in a nice way if she declines, tell her you'd really appreciate her company and off you go jogging with her in a couple of days or weeks, whether she really is fat or not, she will feel better and not think too much about being fat

Your so sweet to your wife she so lucky with you :) about losing weight i would advice to your wife reduced eating of rice because rice has a lot of calories much better she eat one cup of rice if she want to lose her weight make it habitually if she feel still hungry eat vegetables and fruits then drink fresh pineapple juice, its effective on me thats why i suggest my dieting procedure... good luck :)

I perfectly understand your wife. The same happened to me . After I had my child I ended with 30 pound over weight. My husband used to tell me all the time sweet things like you did and uses to cry like she did. The point is that if she doesn't believes and feel pretty, her self esteem is going to fall and she is not going to think that you still find her pretty and sexy. Thank God I have lost 24 of those 30 extra pounds I had. How? Very easy. I will add you as a friend to send you a private message. I will be glad to help somebody else in my same position.

just make her understand that you love her the way she is....make her feel that...

Hi, comment_please. Welcome to myLot! That is so very sweet of you to still love, desire and adore your wife, regardless of her body size. The fact of the matter is not about her losing weight, it is more about your true love for her and her true love for you. I think that if she really is ready to lose weight, then she should lose weight, when she feels that it is something that she should do, not something that she feels that is expected of her to be beautiful in your eyes.

I was in the same position as your wife when me and my boyfriend, now my husband, got married. I was a bit ashamed of how I look that I want lights off during such moments. But my husband always made me feel sexy as he always tells me that no matter how I look or how fat I become, he'd always love me. He also encourages me whenever I tell or suggest that I want to lose wait. We've been steady for 9 years before we got married and I had always felt beautiful when I'm with him. I think your love for her and how you make her special will be more than enough to make her feel beautiful and desirable.

First of all, I do think that it is important for a person to feel comfortable in their skin no matter what. I am admittedly a bigger girl and it was something that made me quite insecure when I was younger. However, as I've gotten older, I have become much more comfortable with my self. Now, if she does want to lose weight there are many different things that you can do to lose weight. The first suggestion that I would make to your wife is to increase her physical activity. Another suggestion that I can give to her is to watch what she eats and try to moderate it.

Dear comment_please , it will be hard if the actual person is not motivated to loose weight. Being fit is a choice and is something that the person should realize. i suggest buy a copy of the biggest looser series and watch it together. The life changing stories should be good enough to motivate her that if she continues on this path she might end up like that ones you watched. Then try to join her for long walks or Jogs.

Hi there, Continue to remind her how beautiful she is to you. Suggest some outdoorsy activities you both can do on a very consistent basis. Like walking around in the park and or the neighborhood. No matter how tired at the end of the day you may be make it where you both enjoy the continual exercise. Tell her that you love her dearly and though you are happy with how she looks you too want her to be happy, therefore suggest some lighter meals the both of you can enjoy. Good luck, sounds like you are a wonderful husband and will continue to boost her self esteem.

you're really sweet. just continue to help her boost her self esteem. she'll realize later that she is pretty an sexy and that someone admires her no matter what. Should she decide to go on a diet or do sports or exercise later, just continue to be supportive by not eating yummy high calorie food in front of her or by joining her when she exercise or do sports :)

Hi comment_please , you do not need to find about losing her weight faster because maybe your wife will be more frustrated, and more emotional will come out, you just need to show her that you really love her , and it can be also more helpful if you will not open a topic about being fat, or being sexy.

Hi, Your wife has inferiority complex by her fatness. You should behave with her with very soft and loving words and try to make her happy. By balancing diet and going to gym would be useful for her to lose the weight. This is the response to your one year old discussion. Now how is your wife? I she managed to lose her weight or not?

losing weight is a constant ritual. your support is important too for her to gain the confidence.

Eat Lots of Fruits and Vegetables. Avoid Breads and any Cooked Fried Foods or Snacks with Oil. Drink Lots of Water as Their is an 8 Glass a Day Diet and a Grape Fruit Diet that does Work Wonders.

try to exercise and eat a normal healthy diet..