Do you really need permission to kiss your girlfriend?

India
May 25, 2011 2:43pm CST
The matter is serious. One of my friend falls in love with a girl for just 3 months. They both are very sensitive and serious with relationship, but my friend want to make a easy environment to make it more healthier. When he asked me how to do it, I suggest him to kiss his girlfriend. But he is very nervous, if the relation will ended with it. Now, How to get rid off this problem, any idea guru?
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6 responses
• Romania
26 May 11
Dear friend, don't wait kiss her!!! This works all the time to me.For example I talk with a nice girl, than I invite her somewhere , I talk about me , than she talk about she , and when the moment comes, kiss.. do not stay days to kiss her.And friend, do not love so much a girl at if you are a 16-20 years boy,because many girls when they boored, they go to another boy..The teeneger relationship is very nice , but if you love someone will be a big big problem for you in future.I don't say to make someone feel bad, but this is the truth.
• India
26 May 11
I already kissed my girlfriends. But my friend has it for first time. I can't understand how this two fools will build such kind of relationship. I think I should tell my friend to take a risk.
• Philippines
26 May 11
I am not a guru, but I am a girl so I have pretty much idea on your problem. First, don't ask permission. That is very AWKWARD! It puts the girl in a bad situation, he might slap you for saying it. On first date, don't kiss her. It would send her a signal that you are serious with her and you are not dating her just to get laid. On the following dates, take cues on her actions. If she stays longer at the doorstep, after saying goodbyes, then she is waiting for you to kiss her. The first kiss should be sweet and nice.
• India
26 May 11
I know that. This is not my problem. If i am in his position i would not take to much time. I believe what will happen should happen now! Thanks a lot for providing such a information about girl. It will sure help my friend to understand his girlfriend.
@cream97 (29086)
• United States
25 May 11
Hi. Roopjyoti. Welcome to myLot! I think that your friend should take his time and ignite the feelings within his girlfriend. If he feels very comfortable around her, he should kiss her if he feels that she will be accepting of him kissing her. They both have to feel comfortable kissing each other though.
• India
26 May 11
If he will not going to take advantage in the right time, i will going to convince the girl to kiss him. Thanks for your suggestion!
@bdance22 (86)
• Philippines
25 May 11
I think the first kiss should just fall into place. you know, just like in the movies where they'll suddenly caught each others gaze and then time seems to stop and a love song playing in the back ground. something like that.
@RamRes (1723)
• Argentina
27 May 11
As a rule of thumb, NEVER, EVER ask for permission for a kiss. If you want it, take it, and take the risk of being rejected. No boyfriend/girlfriend will ask for permission for such a primitive act of every couple, a kiss is the very first step to become boyfriends, so take it seriously, take all the time you both need and simply kiss her when you feel confident. I know, anyone is nervous about the first kiss, may it be the end of the relation, or may it be the beginning of the relation? No one knows, but you could try looking at her, often girls show some "signs" of liking or not to you. One trick I know to test if she's ready: Take her hand between both your hands, hold it for a moment, and stare at her eyes. If she pulls her hand of, wait. If she stays and maybe put her other hand, go ahead!!. A very simple trick showing how small behaviors are indications of her feelings. I've put it in practice myself once, and with good results
@cmuayman (30)
27 May 11
You must should take the permission from your girl friend . Because in this relationship the time will say when it is the right time to kiss her. Every person have a different personality. If you do the right work it will increase your personality in front of your girlfriend.