i am stupid...waiting for his text message....

Hi asliah. Yeah, it's stupid. Keep yourself busy. Hit the gym. Learn a new language. Write. Go with your friends. Take guitar lessons, or violin, or piano. Sign up in a civic organization. Everything your heart desires, except waiting for his text, do it. This is just a phase, eventually you will forget him. The best way to do it faster is to keep yourself busy and surround yourself with people who truly love you. I was like you before, and I thanked God that I overcome it. Now, I have a new happier and healthier relationship. In every ending, there's a new beginning. Keep that in mind asliah.

Hi,asliah, you are not alone. I have also experienced the same things. It is very hard to let it go when the love ends. Though we know it is meaningless and can't go back to the past days, but it always hurts. And it needs time to heal the wounds. You can try to move your heart and mind to other things, and try let the time to cure the pain little by little. Wish you can walk out of the shadow of the love as soon as possible.

it takes time to get over the love, I don't think you are stupid just its real heart breaking to see you sad. we all go through such things when emotions are concerned but its time for you to move on, shut that door and look beyond. How strange human relations are. when its over for one its over for the other too without a choice. sometimes heart does wonder what is happening int heir life, and wishes to catch a glimpse of their present, but then you have to be mature and move on.

I call myself stupid as well because I am also waiting. I understand how your feeling. I really wish everyday that my ex-lover will text me. That he will lower down his pride and be the first one to say sorry and ask for my hand again. We act stupid because we love the person. You're not alone, so don't be ashamed of being stupid.

Well, it is normal phenomenon, I guess. Maybe you still not get over him yet, and you still thinking, maybe you wait a bit longer, or you might be able to be with him again. Don't blame on yourself. As man, I also had done something stupid like that. Sometimes, love just blind your rationality. Even though you knew the result, you still attempt to change it. Moving on, as I advised.

Hey dont be so hard on yourself. It's normal =) I've been through that sooo many times I cannot even remember. What I do when I feel that way is listen to feel good songs that boosts my morale. Try me myself and I by beyonce, or irreplaceable. =)Sing with it and make it your anthem, and next thing you know, you already believe in the meaning of it. =)

I know that it is stupid because I have been in that situation. When your cellphone beeps you tell yourself that it isn't him but you're still wishing that it's him. I've been even more stupid as to "wrong send" a text message to him. Sometimes I would erase his number but I know his number by heart. Yes, my friend, Asliah, it is stupid. But no matter how stupid it is, you are not alone in that situation.

You are not stupid at all, that is really normal for someone who still having feeling for someone, although you may say that you don't love him anymore, but I actually you still love him, that is why you keep waiting for his message. That is really normal and not stupid. If you really want to forget him, just try to make yourself busy with other things, and you will definitely forget about him. Cheer up and be happy.

hi Asliah, don't have to feel sad about the way you feel. I'm sorry to be blunt, but yes, it's really stupid. But you need to know that everybody pass through this stage and I have been stupid like this before. few years ago, my ex boyfriend dump me and i was always waiting for his call or for him to SMS me. I kept harbouring hopes that he will just call me one day. Even knowing that this will not happen, i still lied to myself and wanted to wait. Hoping that he will have a change of his heart and realised his mistake for not wanting me. It took me about a year to really forget him and not to think about him. however, i really advise you to move forward soon because this should not affect your living. you should be able to do things happily and lead a happy life. You have to show him that you can live better without him and not worse off. Good luck and I hope you forget him asps.

i don't think it's stupidity..i also experienced that and for me, it's just not losing hope that someday, we'll still be together.. i think that's what they call "martyrdom"! =D

Do not be too hard on yourself, asliah! I understand how upset you might have been for feeling duped by waiting for something that did not materialized. Just calm down..gather your bearings and breathe slowly. In due time you would get to move past this issue..whatever it is that you are struggling right now, I hope that you would overcome. Feel free to vent your feelings here. We are always available when you need someone to air your grievances to. Have a blessed day!

It is normal my dear it happens to many until they get over that relationship, take heart it will go

Well you may not be stupid but you could think about what you are doing and decide for yourself what is mor important in yourlife....I know you still love him but what if he loves you in return and they after sometime leaves you then it will be very difficult to get life back on track and trust me you will feel miserable....give time to yourself and think properly and make a good decision that you will not have to regret in future......all the best and good luck....

well i had never felt like that and i dont wanna feel that xD! so i recommend you to avoid that, if you cut with your girlfriend or your boyfriend you have really good reasons dont wait until he or she call you if you wanna be again with that person just call it yourself... i hope you earn money XD! see ya

hi asliah not from an ex lover but from my son, so far I have sent two emails and waiting for a reply yet., I am not feeling stupid just lonely to see my son.Dear if he is an ex then I would forget him and go find yourself a good man who will love you and keep in touch with you you sound like a nice person who deserves a nice guy who will text you a lot.Don't hate yourself,you are not the one who is letting yourself down he did. go find Mr right and be happy again.

Love can strike us differently and sometimes after a break up it takes time to heal. The time is different for everyone as it is dependent on how much one loved their partner. Do not down yourself for loving someone, simply try your best to either move on and or accept. Sorry to hear that your ex is not responding and do hope that life looks up for you.