My child broke my lap top. I almost cry.
By jameygc
@jameygc (452)
United States
May 30, 2011 10:33pm CST
Yesterday my child broke my computer. He broke the screen. When I saw what he did, honestly, I wanted to cry. Right now we are passing for a hard economic situation. My phone went cut, so the only way I have to communicate with my family is the computer. I am already depress because I pass a lot of time in the apartment with nobody to talk. The computer is the only way I interact with people right now. I don't know people here. It was so frustrating when I saw the screen all cracked. I felt like I wanted to beat him up, really. But I controlled myself, I know was an accident. So I took a bath, and when I was more relaxed I try to talk with him (he is 3yrs. old). Now I have to reduce my internet screen a lot to see what I am doing. Patience My Lord!
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@lajonez (477)
• Poland
31 May 11
omg you're so poor, for sure your son is feeling bad because he made you upset! Children are so sensitive.
I'm in the same sittuation as you, but now my husband is more time at home not as before. so at least for now I have my perfect company. I hope you'll find some friends!
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@jameygc (452)
• United States
31 May 11
No, he is perfectly fine. I didn't demonstrate nothing to him. I just went directly to the bathroom. He doesn't even noticed I was mad. You know, I am not going to make a show with him knowing he is so little and in some way wasn't his fault. You are right, I feel like I need friends.
@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
31 May 11
Yes, have more patience. Specially with a 3 year old child.
A 3 year old child cannot discern yet if what he is doing is right or wrong. So, leaving him alone with your laptop, would surely be a risk of having it broken or mishandled.
Have it repaired, and never ever leave your laptop with your 3 year old son.
@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
31 May 11
A okay, if that's the case. As parents, we cannot blame our kids when they do something like that. 
@toniganzon (72517)
• Philippines
31 May 11
I'm sorry to hear that. It's too bad that your computer screen is broken. I'm glad that you were able to control yourself and you didn't shout at him or even reprimanded him for the accident that happened. We could never blame a three year old kid for what has happened.
I had experienced buying an expensive toy for my son and to,d him to take care of it but each time he would be so careless. In fact when I bought his iPad it was less than a week old when a deep scratch was left on the screen as he refused to use the case. Thatbmade me mad because he is already seven and I told him several times to take care of it. But then I would feel guilty right after and I would explain to him in a calm voice why I got mad and he would understand. I don't even let him touch my iPad 2 without my supervision as it's lighter and more delicate than his own iPad.
@maximus1985 (55)
• Romania
31 May 11
I know how that is. My little brother when he was 3 years old broke the new bought VCR(1 DAY) and scratched the new SAMSUNG TV(2 weeks) with a screwdriver. My parents were upset but did not beat him. He's only a child. I know you are going to roght times but you must hold on, keep strong and take care of your child. Bye! :)
@worthelle (15)
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31 May 11
yes, we really need patience. Especially with kids that age. I have also a 3 year old cousin, who always makes me irritated. But when I see him smile or laugh, I can't resist but forget what he did.
And about your situation there, I'll pray for you. ^_^ Just think that this situation [economic] will make you a stronger person for the future. ^^
@yoyo1198 (3641)
• United States
31 May 11
Why was the computer even anywhere close to where a 3 yr.old could get to it? This is one thing that should be considered when child-proofing a home. Get everything out of the child's reach. Perhaps this will help you think of other things that need to be placed where he can't get to them.
@jameygc (452)
• United States
31 May 11
Hi Yoyo! I was working in my computer but a friend came. I went to attend her and when I came back I found the computer on the floor. It seems like he was trying to close it for me. That is why I say it was an accident. But you are right maybe I should be more carefully.
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
31 May 11
Hijameygc, 
I am so sorry you are feeling blue and having so many financial hardships right now. You are right to be patient as your 3 year old accidentally broke it and you did right in gaining control You will be blesses some dear as we do go quite a lot but someday you can look back and count your blessings.
I wish there some easier route for you and am wishing and praying life gets a bit better for you.
I am so sorry you are feeling blue and having so many financial hardships right now. You are right to be patient as your 3 year old accidentally broke it and you did right in gaining control You will be blesses some dear as we do go quite a lot but someday you can look back and count your blessings.
I wish there some easier route for you and am wishing and praying life gets a bit better for you. 
@infatuatedbby (94914)
• United States
31 May 11
I am sorry to hear that your child broke your laptop :( He is only 3, accidents happen. I hope everything will be alright in the future..
