learning from the things that hurt us most....

We get our strength from ourselves and from God above. He gives us challenges in life that makes us sane and strong and have confidence in our selves. We get hurt in order for us to learn and to be mature.

I agree. I know that we go through this life learning every single day. I remember when I was young. I used to think I knew it all, but as we age and go through life, we learn different things. No we are not made to take everything and continue like there's nothing wrong. We are strong creatures, we are very resilient animals. We are intelligent. That is how we can cope with lots of issues. We all have been hurt at some point in our life, we become stronger, smarter and wiser as a result. I also know that it could take us down, depending on what it is. I should know. I was hit hard with lots of bad in the last 3 years and it's keeping me down. I find it hard to bounce back. I hope everyday that things will get better. Maybe for me this time it will take lots of time.

Hie asliah happiness and sorrows these are such things that every common man faces and the more we face today is hurt, trouble sorrow. I will give a brief detail of my life i have gone through such situation and even experiencing now and iam sure every one is also. In my life i had lot of friends i love but due to some reason they back stabbed me i dont know how such things occurred but these got me lot in depression but no sooner later as time passed i learned to live my life also there are lot of problems me and my lover is facing but i know that as time passes everything is been healed by God. I have just cast down all my worries to him. From this i have learned many things for example to be self control, how to talk with others and such things. Every day i come up with some conclusion with the problems i face everyday it is all upto us how we see the hardships from the learning prospective or from worrying point of view there are many things we can learn if we see things clearly in our life.

the best lessons in life are what we've learned from the things that have hurt us in the past, it either breaks or makes us, it keep us going to prove something or tend to stop us to do so, it propel us to do more or do less, it give us liability to choose what we want out of life.

Oh how I wish at times I could truly close my eyes and not feel any pain. But when the heart is involved it still feels causing the eyes to concentrate on what is before them. Therefore, moving forward is definitely advisable but it does take time to let go at times.

for me my family and friends are the most important in my life. so i treasure every moments we shared together. and everyone has a dream, i want to achieve all my dreams in life because it keeps me alive and fight till i succeed.

Yeah we are not made to handle everything at the best but we can be the best and we can try to choose to be the best. we always feel that, being sad , angry, mad at someone, feel hurt so much but keep in our mind, heart and soul that we can choose to feel the other feeling. If only we know that thing we can not see is God and from Him we are seeking guidance and directions. So every time we get despair to life think of Him and He will guide you. Without all the pains and hurt feelings we will forget Him and we will not learn anything as because we were preoccupied with the excitement He gave to us till we forgot to praise Him~

yah i agree with you.aside from that it keep our faith in God so strong and deep. and because of our mistake of our past it keep us going on, and be brave to another trial in life that we need to face it. and one thing i love most is, i do believe that every trial or difficulty i encounter i know that there is an end and i learned from it. That's why i love to see sunset because it means that sun will come out and it's new beginning.

I agree with it. In all the ups and downs of my life it made me stronger and better person i guess. I may be stumble many times but i was able to stand up and face every challenges i will be facing in the future. Just never forget to pray for guidance and protection, and HE will be there to embrace us when we fall again.