do you fall in love easily?^^

cute innocent love - a girl and a boy holding hands in a sweet way ^^
Portugal
June 14, 2011 3:39pm CST
hi guys do you fall in love easily? i used to but right now i think i found a guy that wont be possible to forget. i really love him. but i used to fall in love very easy. im a dreamy girl so if a guy is just so so sweet its like i used to fall very fast ahah^^ im still a dreamy person but i guess i found a guy that i wont forget ever. i guess its bcs he really is in my heart. what about you guys? do you also fall easily?
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• India
15 Jun 11
Hi... I the deep love and trust which you have for your first love can't come again second and third time. Whatever even if you find true person and good person then even the first time dedication is possible to make again for most of girls and boys. That magic disappears after first love.Second time either compromise. I think only few people can give that dedication to second love. But ya I don't use to fall in love very easily.
• Portugal
15 Jun 11
yes its very hard to just fall in love after you love someone deeply. right now, i dont think i can love other guy. i really love this one, its so hard for me to just accept that maybe he will give up on being with me someday. i wanted to tell him please dont give me up but i just cant. i have to let him decide his own life. i think he wants to let me go. i dont want to let him go but if he wants to let me.. how can i stop him? i just wish someday i can meet him near^^
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• India
16 Jun 11
Hey, well i think whatever you did is right. Because you should not bound your love. If its your true love he or she will never leave you alone. Love can't happen forcefully. Its natural feeling. If you didn't stopped him you did right thing. I wish you all happiness and wish that your love reach to destination. All the best to you and thank you for your response.
@stanley777 (9402)
• Philippines
15 Jun 11
No I'm the kind of guy who don't fall easily to a girl.During my HS years maybe but I consider that crush/infatuation only because after our graduation it just fade maybe because we part ways and I seldom see her anymore.For me falling in love takes time, you have to know more about the guy and vice versa before you can say you love her/him.
• Philippines
16 Jun 11
Why is that so, do you mean you really is obsessed and deeply love him but he is not certain about his feelings towards you because the way you said you think it's just a dream.For me soulmates sometimes makes us believe we have found the right guy but I guess knowing him/her more is the key to have a long lasting relationship.
• Portugal
15 Jun 11
yes we need to know the person well to love^^ but i think that sometimes we can fall easily. i think it can happen when we find our soulmate. this guy i love, he was the only guy i loved that i didnt fall easily. but i can say that i really have deep feelings for him. it will be very hard for me to forget him. sometimes i feel i wont forget him at all. you know, my only wish was that he said he loves me and will come to see me for us to be together forever. sadly i think that that is just a dream :(
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
15 Jun 11
hello cat, No my dear sis,i don't fall in love easily. I am always afraid to fall in love and get hurts again,that's maybe the reason why i don't easily fall inlove. But i did fall in love...i felt this is very strange. Strange because I was caught unguarded,I feel in love before i realized I was falling deep in love with someone
• Portugal
15 Jun 11
i understand^^ its very normal that you are afraid of falling in love. i think i wont fall in love ever again. i really love this guy and i just cant understand why this is happening to me. i dont think i deserve to be so much hurt. im not a bad person. i dont wish bad to others but still whenever im happy, always something bad ends to happen. im really sad for my life right now. i wish i could just be happy with the guy i love without being always tested :( its like life is testing me all the time. cant i just be happy for once?
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• Philippines
15 Jun 11
Hello sweetie, the last time i fell in love was about around highschool, but that's because we were at a boys school and then attended an eye ball conference with the all girls school. after that event, this girl approach me and have been talking to her ever since. then, she became my JS prom partner but it was some what a disaster because she thinks i was weird and stupid.well, i was and i wish i could take it all back
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• Portugal
15 Jun 11
im sorry that she thought that about you.. i guess you really got heartbroken. about me im really sad right now. i wish i could had done something to avoid that the guy i love met this new girl. but i guess its only destiny punishing me like always you know, sometimes i feel i will never be happy. im not a bad person, but somewhat bad things always happen when i think that something good is happening to me. anyway i will just wait that someday i can be happy.
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15 Jun 11
Hi sweetloveforeve, I guess in ways i do fall in love to easily. I do like to get to know a person and to spend as much time as possible, to experience different things, if everything is working well then i become truly close and so in love, but later on things change and i suffer like i have many times by having my heart broken, to make it worse with me being in love means it hurts a million times over, to have the person you love walk out and not come back, to not be a part of your life anymore, it really is so very very scary. I guess oyu can meet someone else, you can fall in love again, but this has happened to me and agin i have suffered by being hurt, it makes me sometimes wish that i never fell in love as i don't want to suffer so much again, yet i hold on to the thought that there is someone out there, someone decent that will love me for me as i will love her for her. Whether she is in my country or another doesn't matter, to be in love will bring us together, it is just keeping holld of that and the way we feel for eachother. All i need now is for her to want me, guess i need to start searching.
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• Portugal
15 Jun 11
craigy^^ you are a good guy. im sure you will find a great girl for you so soon^^ i wish that the guy i love thought like you. i guess he changed now you are right, its so scary to see the person we love walking away. but i have to let him decide what he wants for his life. i cant just say i love him bcs now he is with someone. i cant do that.. i cant understand why he cant wait me without being with someone. he just seems someone else now, it hurts me bcs i thought he was the only guy i could trust and be sure he wouldnt cheat on me. he hurt me so much that neither my words can explain.. i truly love him and i just wish that someday he can see that
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• India
15 Jun 11
In my past yes as I used to believe in love at first sight and would get attracted to the person very quickly and very soon develop feelings. But as for now I am with a girl for the last 1 year and the two of us are very happy with eachother. Even with her I developed feelings very quickly and within a month we were commited to each other. As for now things are going good and hope it continues to be the same. May be falling in love quickly is not all that bad. good luck.
• Portugal
15 Jun 11
im very happy for you its just great that you found your soulmate. its really hard to have the luck to find someone that really loves us. about me, i thought i found it, but i just lost it i think i feel so sad bcs there is nothing i can do i did all i could but i ended being so sad and wanting to cry :( life is unfair sometimes. i just wish that someday i can meet this guy i love near me and he can see how i love him :( i will fight for that.
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• India
15 Jun 11
Hie its good that you have fallen in love but falling in love easily may show up the sign that a person was committed before and because of failure of first love it is the tendency of person to be hunger of love. Sorry but iam offending against your decision its is just the truth i have experienced this and have heard about this. Normally what does happen is that when we are single for the first time we choose wisely our love but when that love fails being in habbit of love we tend to find someone quick to love us because of our emotional state that we cannot live without love. So i guess its good that you have found someone to love i hope you guys understand each other all the best for your future. Have a mutual understanding and always give the first preference to prayer in your life.
• Mexico
19 Jun 11
Hi sweet love forever: I don't think that I can fall in love easily because for me, love is a complex process but what I can tell you is that I am very idealistic. For example if I meet a girl and she gave me a really nice impression, I will think about her all the day. If we keep watching each other, I'll create an image of her as the perfect girl and I'll get a crush. To have a crush on someone is different from being in love. To be in love you need to know a person deep inside. ALVARO
@gaiza12 (4884)
• Philippines
29 Aug 11
I can't say I fall in love so easily, but I can say I can like a guy from his small and simple sweet thoughtfulness that he's showing me. It's hard to fall in love so fast these days when we know how it already feels like to be hurt.
@junrapmian (2169)
• Philippines
20 Jun 11
I think every one does, we fall in love easily when we see some admirable traits from a person. But the feeling easily goes away as days passed by. I still believe that when you found someone whom you feel complement all the characteristics that you are looking for and someone who can make you feel great, it is true love and true love only happened once in our life.
• Philippines
14 Jun 11
When I am young yes, BUT now that I am already grown up not anymore. We look differently about love when we are already in our mid thirties, we became more realistic, we forgot about fairy tales. We look for a perfect guy when we are young, but now we tend to accept someone as they are because there is no prince charming really.
• Portugal
15 Jun 11
i understand what you mean^^ but there is a prince for everyone^^ even sure there is no one perfect. but actually i dont think we would be happy with someone that is perfect. we all have flaws and that is necessary for us to be in love. no one can love someone without flaws. if someone is just too too perfect you will lose interest in this person. sure i guess that when we are younger we are more dreamy than when we are in 30's but still i feel that we never really stop dreaming^^ we need dreams to keep our life happy.
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@sjvg1976 (41281)
• Delhi, India
15 Jun 11
Hi sweet, Its nice to hear that you are in love with a guy but i never easily fall in love.But sweet you have mentioned that you used to fall in love easily if the guy was sweet before meeting this guy but i think that is not the love you call it. I would say this is attaraction which we all have whenever we see beautiful people aroud us.I think you need to understand what is love????
• Portugal
15 Jun 11
i know what love is. and it isnt about attraction. they werent really so handsome. i just fell for them bcs they were so sweet. if a guy is romantic, caring and sweet to you how will you not end by falling for him? i mean its really hard. if a guy is so cute to you how will you not fall? thats what i mean by falling if a guy is so sweet. im not talking about a guy being handsome or not. beauty doesnt really matter that much. this last guy i love yes he is handsome for me^^ but i dont love him bcs of that. i love him bcs he always said he loves me for who i am. and he always said he was proud of me^^ thats why^^
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• United States
14 Jun 11
I don't think you were in love. It sounds much more like infatuation. Love is something that takes time to develop. Someone being sweet and nice to you doesn't give you a reason to love them.
• Portugal
15 Jun 11
yes sure it doesnt give a reason to love. but what i mean is that we all need to receive care to be interested in someone. how can you love someone that isnt caring to you? we all need someone caring that is always there for us when we need comfort. its not easy to just be with someone that doesnt give us attention. thats what i mean by being in love with a guy that is so sweet^^ sweet guys usually atract me and i fall usually for them later on^^
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@dyeni23 (128)
14 Jun 11
i agree. more of an infatuation. ;) love is something more deeper. beyond superficial...
• Portugal
15 Jun 11
love is deep sure^^ but what i mean is that first before you fall in love, you have interest on that person. and i fall usually for guys that are so sweet to me. we all feel happy when someone gives us a lot of attention. if someone just ignores us or despise us we will stop loving that person. or wont even like him in the first place. thats what i mean by falling easily. it takes time to love someone but there is love at first sight too^^ i think it just depends of how the person feels like^^
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@r0ck_r0ck (1952)
• India
15 Jun 11
Yup! i so use to fall for girls real easily till i got my dreams and hopes crushed over and over and i don't even care anymore! beware! this world is a mean place, with lots of meanieheads in it!
@choybel (5042)
• Philippines
15 Jun 11
Yup, it's infatuation alright. It's probably natural, as most if not all experience it too. It's good to know that you are truly inlove right now. Hope everything goes well between you two. As for me, naturally, it did and will always happen. It's just a matter of self-control, I guess.
@sid556 (30960)
• United States
15 Jun 11
Is this the guy that is with another woman? From all I've read, I would suggest you give up on that one. He is long distance and hooked up with another woman and didn't have the respect to tell you. Now he is telling you that he loves you but he is still with her. I know this isn't what you want to hear but it is how I see your situation from the outside. I'm not going to tell you what you want to hear just to make you feel good when I don't think it is the truth. I'm sorry sweetlove but he sounds like a typical player. How long have you been with him?
@ebuscat (5935)
• Philippines
15 Jun 11
For me yes i will be good to love at first site like what my husband now I feel it before we get boyfriend and girlfriend.
@nezavisima (7408)
• Bulgaria
15 Jun 11
I think for you it's just a fad.Love is shown over time.But I can say that there is love at first sight.Maybe yours is. My advice is to not hurry wait time will tell whether this is love. Have a nice day!
• United States
15 Jun 11
No.. I don't fall in love easily. I don't really think I have ever fallen or stumbled into love... I have grown in love with someone but never fallen. To fall suggests I have no control in who I choose to love... anyway... i try to think with my head and not my heart. My head is smarter than my heart.