How would you handle your partner cheating on you?

I believe that if a partner does not have the decency and respect to inform their partner that they are not happy and end the relationship, they don't truly love the other and therefore should be kicked to curb. Like you, I have not had that happen to me but I early in life that if my partner would ever cheat I would end it immediately, kick the dust off my shoes, and move on.

I hope if my husband is cheating he should do it smart. I don't approve of cheating but I don't judge the cheaters as well. Sometimes with the time people change, life becomes a habit or whatever reason is there and at that point the people may slip. But whatever they decide to do they should do it smart. Otherwise everybody will suffer and especially the kids (if there are any). If this happens to my friend I wouldn't tell her even if I love her very much. First, because it will break my heart to see her sad and second, most probably I will lose our friendship after that because she will always connect me with her cheating husband.

I would not or really i might not give him another chance. For me xheating is a big nono. And if incase he nees his freedom all he has to say is he wants his freedom and he wants to break up with me. So i guess thete is no need to cheat on me.

I guess it depends whether your love him or her , if your love your partner your another chance and if not love then better brake off, however, it is usually not that simple when family are involved especiallly with children and such.Sometime trust are destroyed and bad speech are given. People cheat because many reasons are all those reasons are sometime selfish.

Bye, Bye Baby! This is a deal breaker for me. I would pack his stuff and he would finding it on the front porch. Change the locks on the house and garage. He would be looking for a new home or down on the corner begging for money for all I care. He would be gone gone gone Best Wishes!

I hope if my husband is cheating he should do it smart. I don't approve of cheating but I don't judge the cheaters as well. Sometimes with the time people change, life becomes a habit or whatever reason is there and at that point people may slip. But whatever they decide to do they should do it smart. Otherwise everybody will suffer and especially the kids (if there are any). If this happens to my friend I wouldn't tell her even if I love her very much. First, because it will break my heart to see her sad and second, if I do this most probably I'll lose her as a friend because she will always connect me with her cheating husband.

Cheating is, in my opinion, is break a sacred oath that you will be faith, even if it is unspoken or the couple is not married.When you become involve with another person,especially for sometime, it is just expected that you will be loyal to one another. However, people do get bored with one another and want a change, we are all human, so if this happens I say just let go of one you are bore with and find yourself some excitementusually you find that you had a good thing and you let it go. For me, there is no going back, no forgiving,no second chances.no excuses. If you cheat on me, you are basely saying that I am not good enough for you and that I no longer can give you what you want, so goodbye!! I know me, and I just couldn't move on with that cheater and pretend that and outside affair never happened. Every time I am with that person, the visions of him with another person would be in my mind. So people can forget, forgive, and forge on in the relationship, so just cannot forget, or forgive, I am one of them.

There is no way to handle it than to let go and move on. For me, I wouldnt give another chance anymore. Once is enough. Should your someone find another person to love, he or she should just be honest and tell their partners or just break up before going into another relationship. If my friend is the cheater, I will talk to the person. I will try to enlighten them.

Might be your husband is boring and want to have some fun. According to me sorry if i mistake or make your mood getting bad you should not hold it too tight.

I believe they cheat because of some reason. First, they were unsatisfied to their partner, You know what i mean in doing to make them satisfied(i would not rather say it, to prevent mature content). Second, they were looking of something to their partner that she/he doesn't have so what he/she does was to cheat her/his partner, looking for someone who have what he/she look for. third, he/she don't value what relationship she/he has. Forth, He/she was not serious to his/her partner. Fifth, he/she don't love her/his partner. If you trully love someone. You will not cheat her/him. So if your partner cheated you, maybe one of those thing i mentioned above is the reason why you are cheated. So if you love him/her and don't want her/him to lose. Then work for it. There are other way to make your relationship work out.

I dont support cheating in a relationship and if i found out my parter was cheating on me then i would definately leave him.In the case of my friend I would let them find out on their own to avoid any misunderstanding.

I wasn't going to tell his/her mate, I mean it's a friend of mine and even if he/her is doing something wrong, it's not going to be me who's going to ruin the relationship. And if he/her tells you about the cheat it's because he/her trust you.

honestly we humans forget we are animals and all animals have a primal instinct and we sometimes forget our biological dna

In my experience and observation in other couples, if you really love your partner you can learn how to adopt or handle the situation.

There are reasons why a partner cheats and one of them is he or she is tired of his partner or he saw someone more interesting. Anyway, I don't want to be cheated, I rather want it that you tell me you have found someone else, it is better to part ways than hurting each other.