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JJohnson79 @JJohnson79 (301) • United States 14 Jun 11

Guys and Gals...would you leave your mate if he/she couldn't perform? I mean that in every way. Like cooking, cleaning and other duties that a mate is suppose to do or help out with in a relationship? I know some people(like...

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JJohnson79 Yes there is a huge difference. I'm glad I don't have to go thru that with my man. He does alot, if not more than me. He cooks, cleans, caters to me and everything else that a good man is suppose to do. If im not feeling well, he takes care of all that I...

20 Jun 11

JJohnson79 @JJohnson79 (301) • United States 14 Jun 11

Guys and Gals...would you leave your mate if he/she couldn't perform? I mean that in every way. Like cooking, cleaning and other duties that a mate is suppose to do or help out with in a relationship? I know some people(like...

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JJohnson79 Yeah it's only fair to have a relationship that's equal. Like if she cooks, you help with the cleaning. But if the mate totally will not pitch in and thinks it's completely your responsibility to cook, clean, pay bills etc...that's a huge NO NO

20 Jun 11

JJohnson79 @JJohnson79 (301) • United States 14 Jun 11

I never understood why a partner would cheat, especially if they have it good at home. I've never had it happen to me but it has happened to friends of mine and it sucks. I know there is always two sides to every story but of...

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JJohnson79 It's too bad that most cheating ends up in heartache and/or another child being conceived. I don't judge the cheater either because I never judge anyone at anything they do. It's their choice and only they know the real reason behind it

20 Jun 11

JJohnson79 @JJohnson79 (301) • United States 14 Jun 11

I never understood why a partner would cheat, especially if they have it good at home. I've never had it happen to me but it has happened to friends of mine and it sucks. I know there is always two sides to every story but of...

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JJohnson79 You made two good points..."trust" and "selfish". If there's no trust or a lost of trust, it makes it kind of hard to keep that spark in the relationship. And I too agree that most cheat because of their own selfish ways

20 Jun 11

JJohnson79 @JJohnson79 (301) • United States 14 Jun 11

I never understood why a partner would cheat, especially if they have it good at home. I've never had it happen to me but it has happened to friends of mine and it sucks. I know there is always two sides to every story but of...

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JJohnson79 Yeah that's easier said than done...for some odd reason, a man has a problem with the word we call "honesty". They fail to realize that we can deal with the truth better rather than finding out the hard way. But even still they like to build lie after lie. I...

20 Jun 11

JJohnson79 @JJohnson79 (301) • United States 14 Jun 11

I never understood why a partner would cheat, especially if they have it good at home. I've never had it happen to me but it has happened to friends of mine and it sucks. I know there is always two sides to every story but of...

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JJohnson79 Wonderfully said...like Beyonce said "To the left To the left" everything you own in the box to the left. There is definitely no reason to continue the relationship because if you let them back then they'll do it again

20 Jun 11

JJohnson79 @JJohnson79 (301) • United States 14 Jun 11

I never understood why a partner would cheat, especially if they have it good at home. I've never had it happen to me but it has happened to friends of mine and it sucks. I know there is always two sides to every story but of...

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JJohnson79 I love it!!! You have made a wonderful point and you are very strong minded. I admire that in you and alot of women find it hard to kick their mate to the curb. You are definitely a woman with morals and self respect. There is no way I can look at my man with...

20 Jun 11

JJohnson79 @JJohnson79 (301) • United States 14 Jun 11

I never understood why a partner would cheat, especially if they have it good at home. I've never had it happen to me but it has happened to friends of mine and it sucks. I know there is always two sides to every story but of...

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JJohnson79 Oh my goodness I am so sorry that you had to go thru that. I think its the selfishness in people that leads them to cheat. I hear some excuses like "they don't do what their suppose to do", "he/she is always putting me down", "he/she don't give me the time I...

20 Jun 11

JJohnson79 @JJohnson79 (301) • United States 14 Jun 11

I never understood why a partner would cheat, especially if they have it good at home. I've never had it happen to me but it has happened to friends of mine and it sucks. I know there is always two sides to every story but of...

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JJohnson79 I don't condone it or believe in it either. It angers me when I hear about people cheating. I will never understand why a person does it. I guess everyone has their reasons and in the case of a friend, that could be a tricky one because it can turn out to be...

20 Jun 11

JJohnson79 @JJohnson79 (301) • United States 14 Jun 11

I never understood why a partner would cheat, especially if they have it good at home. I've never had it happen to me but it has happened to friends of mine and it sucks. I know there is always two sides to every story but of...

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JJohnson79 I agree it makes things complicated if you involve yourself by getting in the middle. But it is hard to see your friend go thru the pain from the situation. It's a hard choice to make

20 Jun 11

JJohnson79 @JJohnson79 (301) • United States 14 Jun 11

I never understood why a partner would cheat, especially if they have it good at home. I've never had it happen to me but it has happened to friends of mine and it sucks. I know there is always two sides to every story but of...

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JJohnson79 This has not happened to me but i've seen a friend go thru it. From the looks of what she went thru, it's nothing nice and brings alot of heartache

20 Jun 11

JJohnson79 @JJohnson79 (301) • United States 14 Jun 11

I never understood why a partner would cheat, especially if they have it good at home. I've never had it happen to me but it has happened to friends of mine and it sucks. I know there is always two sides to every story but of...

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JJohnson79 That's true and I also believe that it has to do with communication

20 Jun 11

JJohnson79 @JJohnson79 (301) • United States 14 Jun 11

I never understood why a partner would cheat, especially if they have it good at home. I've never had it happen to me but it has happened to friends of mine and it sucks. I know there is always two sides to every story but of...

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JJohnson79 Oooooh Mr. ptower very very well said. I love myself too much to sit back and allow that bull to happen to me. But some people that do allow it makes excuses and to me, excuses is just another word for denial. I can't lie to others so i'm surely not gonna lie...

20 Jun 11

JJohnson79 @JJohnson79 (301) • United States 14 Jun 11

I never understood why a partner would cheat, especially if they have it good at home. I've never had it happen to me but it has happened to friends of mine and it sucks. I know there is always two sides to every story but of...

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JJohnson79 I never thought of it that way...I like the way you look at things

20 Jun 11

JJohnson79 @JJohnson79 (301) • United States 14 Jun 11

I never understood why a partner would cheat, especially if they have it good at home. I've never had it happen to me but it has happened to friends of mine and it sucks. I know there is always two sides to every story but of...

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JJohnson79 Very good point...I would imagine that's also the best thing to do. For anyone to continue to be with a cheater has no morals or self respect. I really don't have much to say about this because i've never been thru it.

20 Jun 11

JJohnson79 @JJohnson79 (301) • United States 14 Jun 11

I never understood why a partner would cheat, especially if they have it good at home. I've never had it happen to me but it has happened to friends of mine and it sucks. I know there is always two sides to every story but of...

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JJohnson79 I clearly said that it has never happened to me. I only know friends that it has happened to. My man and I have a WONDERFUL relationship and are very open with eachother. We hold no secrets and have a high trust level. But overall I like the points that you...

20 Jun 11

JJohnson79 @JJohnson79 (301) • United States 14 Jun 11

I never understood why a partner would cheat, especially if they have it good at home. I've never had it happen to me but it has happened to friends of mine and it sucks. I know there is always two sides to every story but of...

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JJohnson79 You made a really good point and I agree with you completely. It's good that you guys have that agreement and understanding. Alot of couples say they have understanding but they really don't. I think you guys have a good relationship and I hope it continues...

20 Jun 11

JJohnson79 @JJohnson79 (301) • United States 14 Jun 11

Guys and Gals...would you leave your mate if he/she couldn't perform? I mean that in every way. Like cooking, cleaning and other duties that a mate is suppose to do or help out with in a relationship? I know some people(like...

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JJohnson79 That is a beautiful relationship you have and nothing wrong with a man that is more domestic than his wife. My man is the same way. He loves to cook and clean and all that good stuff. Im not sure if he does it to take the pressure off me or he really loves...

16 Jun 11

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