Too many responses, lazy to reply,yay!
By mtrguanlao
@mtrguanlao (5522)
Philippines
June 15, 2011 1:44am CST
Hi friends and mylotters!
I admit,having many responses is good in your posted discussion but sometimes too many responses makes me lazy to reply,argghh! Especially when I have limited time online and my net is not doing pretty fine,grrrr! And when I see that my friends also started a discussion,I usually respond to it first before responding to my respondents,oh my! I guess,I'm satisfied with 10 responses,haha! But if I have more,it's fine too,it'll also be my credit here. Can't fully reply at once to all my respondents but as much as possible I wanted a back and forth responses,haha!
Do you also feel the same way,being lazy to reply? How do you manage to comment on others and reply to your post at the same day?
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24 responses
@Bebs08 (10681)
• United States
16 Jun 11
yes, we all do felt lazy responding to more than 50 responders in a day.. that's too much in a day. Of course we want to have lots of responders but it is truly tiresome to give back the comments but we should to it because most responders are waiting for our comments too and at the same time you still can earn doing this,
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
20 Jun 11
te trick to that is to watch and when you have just two or three comment back and check often and just do the few that have responded as usually not all of those fifty would respond in one day so just a few minutes for a few response comments and you would keep up nicely.
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@mtrguanlao (5522)
• Philippines
16 Jun 11
Oh my,50 respondents! I don't think I can really make it in one day,haha! I know a friend who can do it and she's really great in it,she does not reply in one sentence but in a quality comment so she's really great!
See yah!
@beingwell (3625)
• Thailand
15 Jun 11
Hi there mtr! I know what you mean. There is just so little time to answer everything. Try replying one response at a time. Don't rush it. You'll be able to finish all of them at one point. Just enjoy as you go along!
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@mtrguanlao (5522)
• Philippines
15 Jun 11
Hello friend!
Yeah,lots of responses but few time for it,lol! But it's alright,am enjoying it on the other hand especially when my close friends replied. I wont rush,thanks!
See yah!
@beingwell (3625)
• Thailand
16 Jun 11
That's the way to go! Me too, I get excited when I know the person who replied to my posts. But still, I reply to everyone to keep my discussion rolling!
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@mtrguanlao (5522)
• Philippines
16 Jun 11
Oh yes friend,and as much as possible I am more excited in a back and forth replies but can't seem to do that 'cause sometimes I have to go offline at once,ngek!
@lkbooi (16070)
• Malaysia
30 Aug 11
Hi mtrguanlao, I'm sure I will be elated if my discussion having many responses. I would try to make full use of my limited time to comment back as many as I could. In case I'm really busy I will comment back when I'm free. Responding one or two posts written by friends or from my interests while doing the commenting back just like adding delicious flavoring to make our dishes tastier. Yeah, I like doing so to get refreshed
From the comments added to all the responses I can see that you are not lazy as what you mention but quite diligent and responsible in your posting work I enjoy commenting back and forth as well if we still have lots to share with. It doesn't matter this is not done in the same day for most of us log in here when we have free time only.
Happy posting
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@lkbooi (16070)
• Malaysia
5 Sep 11
My laptop was blackout in an instant four days back. No matter how I tried I still couldn't get it switched on again. No other choice and I had to send it to the computer shop for repairing. It's restored as usual again the following day but sadly that it's quite slow in loading. It's really annoying that I have to waste extra time for every loading. Really unbearable Thus, this makes my pace posting sluggish for sure And it's sure that I can't post as many posts before on account of this. Really glad to know that you enjoy back and forth comment to learn more from our friends with the same interests as well
It's doesn't matter to comment back rather belated for we usually do our posts here when we have free time. Moreover we have to face the unpredictable internet connection or computer problem sometimes.
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@mtrguanlao (5522)
• Philippines
1 Sep 11
Hi lkbooi!
Yes,sometimes seeing the response of our friends here in mylot motivates us to reply at once 'cause it's really fun and you get to know each other more. I also enjoy the back and forth responses! That is why,as much as possible,I wanted to make a reply at once so the back and forth responses will be more enjoyable. By the way,sorry for my delayed reply,my net connection was out again,grrr!!
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@mtrguanlao (5522)
• Philippines
7 Sep 11
Oh,that has always been my major problem online,my net connection and the server. Whenever it rains in our place,for sure my net is out,grrr!
Yes,you are right about it,we can always reply anytime we are free and that's what I've been doing now. I really enjoy back and forth replies at an instant but my time sometimes really doesn't permit me to,sad. But it's alright,for as long as there are still replies,there are still discussions going on.
@myfb2009 (8296)
• Malaysia
15 Jun 11
Yes, i understand about your situation. I ever came across same problem like you, that's why before i seldom visit Mylot, due to slow internet problem, too. Now, my internet connection is fast, so i take my time to comment on some discussions. I will comment more, when i have more time in my hand. Don't worry, take your time to reply to all the responses.
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@mtrguanlao (5522)
• Philippines
20 Jun 11
Oh my net connections are okay now my friend,yahu! But it is sometimes on and off,grrr! But it's fine,at least now I can do my works online,hehe!
See yah friend!
@mtrguanlao (5522)
• Philippines
15 Jun 11
Namaste my friend!
So you also had a slow connections,so bad,right?
I missed all of your posted discussions my friend,I saw in my email that you did some discussions but I was too busy that time. Anyways,I can always reply to your new ones.
Yes,I just have to take my time to reply,no pressure,it's just that I'm quite shy to my respondents when I did not reply to them at once,hehe!
See yah friend!
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
2 Sep 11
Wow! what a lovely profile photo and I love this child give kissi from my side. Friend who is she your daughter I like you word grrrrrr hahahh... I am laughing.. you are right friend many responses is very hard i also feel such because now due to continues seating my backbone problem is arise so I want to rest... and daily join mylot only for 2 to 3 hours not more
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@mtrguanlao (5522)
• Philippines
4 Sep 11
Haha,I'm glad I made you laughed surekha! New avatar of yours,right?!
Yes,my avatar is my cute little daughter,she is mad at that picture,lol!
Oh,so we feel the same with our backbone,ouch! I think I'm getting old,that's why,huhu!
Yes,sometimes I feel lazy to reply especially when I see many responses,don't know where to star,lol!
See yah my friend!
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@surekharathi (14146)
• India
4 Sep 11
Hahhah I am also when see your sweet daughter if god gives me wings then I will be there and take lots of kissi to your daughter because her chick is like tomato but you take lots of kissi on my side and tell your aunty is giving.. today I am upset friend 4 months before discussion delete today that was my marriage anniversary..
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@mtrguanlao (5522)
• Philippines
4 Sep 11
Hello surekha! Oh,thanks for all the compliments on my daughter friend! She really is cute,lol! I will kiss her for you,lots oif kisses,lol!
What?! Your discussion was deleted and it was 4 months ago,oh my! I didn't know even old discdussions can still be deleted.
@mtrguanlao (5522)
• Philippines
16 Jun 11
Hello there!
Agree with you,it's really nice to see many respondents in your own discussion 'cause that only means your post is interesting to them. It's just hard sometimes to respond at once to all of them but as what they said,I should just take time in commenting to all,no pressure!
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@mtrguanlao (5522)
• Philippines
17 Jun 11
Oh no my friend,you should try to respond to all of them,you owe them that. It's okay to be late,just do respond okay! Responding to them can build a friendship here,you'll have some sort of bondings with them.
@shibham (16977)
• India
16 Jun 11
Hmm... so my amiga is on big trouble.
Well, i never start a discussion without commenting back to my previous discussions. if i get tons of responses and get bored or tired, then i leave for some hours and concentrate in responding to other's discussion, then i come back again. But the most vital point is here that most often the comments required similar wordings... which is more problematic to me.
By the way take care amiga.
@mtrguanlao (5522)
• Philippines
16 Jun 11
Namaste my amigo!
Haha,oh no amigo,I'm just fine,I'm not in a trouble,just having some pressures maybe that leads to laziness,haha!
I should do what you do,don't start a discussions without finishing commenting on my older ones. But sometimes amigo can't help start one especially when I feel like sharing it at once to my friends here,lol! Some mylotters start a discussion with 2-4 posts and they're really great! Wish I could also do that,lol! I don't think so,haha! Got lots of things to do other than mylotting,hehe!
Take care too amigo!
@gaiza12 (4884)
• Philippines
2 Sep 11
That is actually one of the reasons why I can't get to post new discussions here because either I am too lazy to respond to all my friends discussions or I don't have time to respond to it. I want to respond to my friend's discussions first for they are already flooding in my email. I have topics in mind that I can't post because for sure it will be hard for me to respond to the responders right away. Which I don't want it to happen because I want my responders to know that their responses are very important to me.
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@mtrguanlao (5522)
• Philippines
2 Sep 11
Hi gaiza!
What you've said are all true enough! I for one feels very responsible for my own posts that I shouldn't left mylotters who responded in my discussion,they deserve to be replied. That's why I decided not to start a discussion if I don't feel like answering to all of them. As much as possible,I wanted to reply at once if time permits me to.
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
16 Jun 11
Hi my sweet friend.
I do enjoy commenting back to the great many I do receive and at times, yes it can be way too much. Basically do what you have done until now and that is do what you can and get back to them at another time. I have found sometimes that when I get so many that I need to get up for a bit and refresh the coffee pot and brain to recharge again. lol
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@mtrguanlao (5522)
• Philippines
16 Jun 11
Hello my dear dear friend!
Were you absent for days here my friend? Seems you were not here for 2 days I guess,hehe!
That's what I can't do my dear friend,haha! I envy you for being consistent in replying to your respondents even if they are soooo many,haha! And you can still handle it even you are working not online.
I believe one reason for my laziness is I have my baby who is interrupting me,haha! But of course that is very much fine with me,my kids are my priority. It's just that I can't do the back and forth replies at once,I can usually reply back after hours or even a day,yay!
@RamRes (1723)
• Argentina
22 Jun 11
I feel the same sometimes, most often when a discussion gets too many responses and my email inbox gets crowed with notifications. I'm not a big fan of starting my own discussions, but from time to time I made a post or two on my own and sometimes those get a good number of responses.
I just leave the browser window open and go scroll from the first and responding one by one until the last one. But that can take days. My last one got 29 responses until now, and it took me almost 4/5 days to comment the last responder since he posted his opinion.
what I do is to comment a few every day, say 5 or a whole page at a time, then leave and do something else in the site or somewhere else. The next day I continue.
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@mtrguanlao (5522)
• Philippines
22 Jun 11
Hi Ramres!
Haha,we both have the same doings in replying,it also takes me days to reply to all of my respondents and sometimes there'll be another reply as days go by like now that you just made a reply,lol! But since I'm here and you're just one,I should reply at once so it would be easy,hehe!
Yeah,I also seldom start a discussion 'cause I can't reply to all of them at once,as much as possible I wanted a back and forth reply at once just like having a chat 'cause that's more enjoyable to post a reply but I really can't do it due to some interruptions at home. Sometimes I start a discussion when I don't find any discussion to reply with( out of my interest ).
But since respondents told me I could take time in replying,I guess I can start some discussions then( if I feel like starting one,lol! )
Replying 5 posts from my discussion is also my technique Ramres especially when I have friends that also started a discussion and needs my reply.
See yah!
@david15923 (119)
• Portugal
15 Jun 11
i guess money moves montains :) lol but i really think that each reply is about 1 cent, and ill try to respond has many has i can. i also quite a "newbie" because i havent passed 30 replys :S
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@mtrguanlao (5522)
• Philippines
16 Jun 11
Hi david! Welcome here!
Well,all of us are here to earn but when you have friends already david,sometimes the money is not already the first that matters,you will understand this as you get along here. May I suggest you read the discussions guidelines first so you will know the rules of mylot.
Enjoy mylotting david!
@jimmytai (204)
• Malaysia
13 Jul 11
yes, sometime i also lazy to reply because too many response. But i will try to reply all, i feel not reply them is very bad. There is discussion forum and not question & answer, so must try to reply and make discussion. So sometime i feel lazy, i no post new discussion.
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@mtrguanlao (5522)
• Philippines
14 Jul 11
Hi jimmy!
Yeah,if I feel lazy,I don't start a discussion too as it is not good not to respond to all your respondents,they deserve a reply from the starter of the discussion. But if I'm too lazy,I just reply the next day but don't leave them hanging.
Happy mylotting!
@enigma13 (372)
• Philippines
29 Aug 11
Hey mtrguanlao! You're not alone dear. =) I also have the same sickness sometimes. Although having a lot of responses to your discussions is good, I sometimes feel lazy and I don't reply immediately specially when all I can think of as a response is "thank you".
@mtrguanlao (5522)
• Philippines
1 Sep 11
Hi enigma! Sorry for my delayed reply,was lazy with it,lol! Haha,that's just a joke! It was my net connection,out again due to rain,grrr! Anyways,now I'm here and I'm happy to know I'm not alone with my laziness,lol!
In my experience,when I was a newbie,I always think of just saying thank you but I know that's not fair. And when I get along and had some friends here,my replies got longer since I feel I'm just chatting with them and I'm getting to know them more. For sure you will experience this too!
Enjoy mylotting!
@mtrguanlao (5522)
• Philippines
16 Jun 11
Hi bingskee!
Oh I agree with you with the excitement thing,lol! I also feel that way when I see in my emails that I already got responses. It was only now that I realized the reason for my laziness is I got limited time online and my net is too slow,argghh! And sometimes I am already tired of so many interruptions at home so lots of responses makes me feel lazy then,hehe! But I still see to it binsgkee that every respondent gets my reply.
See yah!
@allknowing (137781)
• India
15 Jun 11
You should not create any more topics until you have finished commenting on all the responses received to your topics. There is no deadline as such and so you can take your time and do it. There is no sense in getting worked up as this site is meant for relaxation. My discussions are few and far between and whatever responses I get I comment on them promptly.
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@mtrguanlao (5522)
• Philippines
15 Jun 11
Hello there!
Yes,I should do that,I should finish my old posts first before making another discussion,but there are times that I do want to start a discussion at once 'cause I have that thought in mind that I wanted to share at once to my friends here and mylotters like this post of mine now,lol! I would want to reply promptly to my respondents but there are other circumstances at home that I shoul do,so many interruptions,haha! Sometimes I'd be able to answer 3 discussions and then do some chores again at home so I guess my laziness in replying is just that I'm already tired at all the things I do. So when I see so many responses,I look at it as a task to reply,haha! Anyways,I enjoy it here,much!
See yah!
@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
15 Jun 11
Hi Mtr
I am not that regular here these few weeks and I am missing out of most of the fun on discussions.
I realized that I have at least 3 discussions of mine that need so much of attention and I really need to respond back to all those great lotters who responded to them. Normally, it doesnt happen but this time I am at fault. I need a few days more before I get back here.
I stay awake a lot longer during the night and that helps me respond to those who commented on my discussions. But these days, the medicines are playing on me and I am sleeping like a polar bear... you wouldnt believe - 18+ hrs a day and that is not me, I normally sleep only 5-6 hrs a day.
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@mtrguanlao (5522)
• Philippines
15 Jun 11
Namaste Sids!
Oh yes Sids and I am also missing you out here,happy to see your reply in my post.
Oh don't worry much about those discussion of yours that you haven't replied yet,am sure they'll understand.
Wow,you are sleeping like a baby Sids,haha! But I'm happy for you,at least you are now having a complete rest.
Take care always my friend!
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
15 Jun 11
hi mtrguanlao,
I understand this kind of feelings I also feel this sometimes specially if my connection is not so good .
Take your time what important is you will comment back to them
happy mylotting
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@mtrguanlao (5522)
• Philippines
16 Jun 11
Hi bhaby!
Oh yes,slow connections and limited time online makes me feel so lazy to reply friend but I do reply to them even if I'm already a day late,hehe! You all deserved a reply from the starter and I really try my best to give it,better late than never.
See yah!
@tiina05 (2317)
• Philippines
15 Jun 11
hello,
That is absolutely true, I also experience those kind of laziness and I can help myself. That is why i just comment to others and never start a new topic because I am really lazy replying to all those response. ha ha! Sometimes when I have more than 10 replies I just choose the one that is the best and reply to it to others.. ohhh? sorry!
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@mtrguanlao (5522)
• Philippines
16 Jun 11
Oh my tiina you owe them a response,hehe!
I think you should read the response of Mr. Owlwwings here in my post so you will be enlightened. It's okay to reply to them late but please do reply to them. I guess that's the right thing for you to do,don't start a discussion if you will just leave it unreplied. In my case,I feel lazy sometimes especially when I got lots of it but I still see to it that I reply 'cause they deserve to be replied,after all,this is a discussion site,it wont be a discussion if no replies will be done.
See yah tiina! Enjoy mylotting!
@redvakaurvaki (4216)
• Indonesia
15 Jun 11
Sometime I feel the same.When I received new response I will response the discussion but when it comes too many, the most important is read friend response then replay it if it truly interisting and I have time, hahahah, but honestly having many response is kind of happiness.
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@mtrguanlao (5522)
• Philippines
15 Jun 11
Hi there!
Haha,so we both feel the same and we both do the same(reading our friends' replies first),lol!
Oh yes,having many responses would mean that your discussion is interesting.
See yah!