would the friendship still the same if your friend turns his back on you once?

I haven't been in this situation yet. I think it will already be hard to bring back the strong relationship after so may years. I may have truly missed the friend around but not missed him/her for the friend I know him/her before. I trusted him/her to act as a friend to me inside and out. But after being deserted, I don't think I can trust that person anymore. Trust is so hard to put back together after it has already been broken to pieces.

It's up to you, if you want them again back in your life. But if you do, be careful with them next time, because I think they are only there to consume fun and other than that, well you know it already. There are few people around that is different and true to their intentions to be friends with others, if you have them there's no any kind of treasure that you can compare to them, sometimes they can also lay there own life for the sake of what we called friendship. Like the anime "One Piece"! =)

Yes I strongly feel that the relationship will be in the same state but compared to earlier there will be chances of having less affection towards your friend. In earlier stage your friend may be with you on all your problems and occasion but now since it is a matter of time passed, there could be less affection towards you and your friend, but this could also be sort out by keeping the communication line touched. So no need to worry on this matter, There will be just little space created between you and your friend, but rest will be just fine.

For me if you feel not good with your friend last year then you find not good in them for the rest of your life.

If a friend turns out to be a traitor that will be the end of my friendship with that person. I can put up with any meanness from a friend but certainly not when that friend becomes a traitor.

its up to you. in my opinion when your trust is broken nothing can ever bring it back. true friends will always be there whenever you need them, no matter how hard the situation they'll always figure out ways to help you out. if in you darkest hour they are absent maybe you can consider still them as friend, not-so-true friends.

It takes a great deal of time and trust and emotions to build up a relation woth someone. And when that someone desserts us right at our time of need it nothing but natural to have all our trust boken. Betrayal carries a lot of anguish with itself. And even if the person has healed his wounds with time and is in a position to forgive his/her friend, still a good relation is not possible cause we would be afraid that he would break our trust again. "He has broken my trust once. He might just do it again...!" In a relationship however things could be made up and with effort things can be put back to place again. But still one would have that feeling of 'i might be betrayed once again. i must be careful.' which cannot allow him/her to trust his partner blindly.

true friends will always be there through your ups and down.they will accept you w/o whys w/o buts.

Friendships take so many twists and turns. A friendship sahould not change over one incident unless it is one that can not push us forward. You have to take the friendships as they come. what you do with them is up to you,

Though at times we truly want the friendships to be the same, somehow though friendly I cannot say in my own experience that we were able to go back to what once it was. I have had this happen to me more then once actually, though we are friends but more like distance friends we cannot go back to what it once was.

I would be lying if I told you that everything will stay the same after a major disagreement with a friend. I am someone who puts too much trust in a friend and the friendship, when that friend abuse that trust, I will be greatly disappointed. I had a recent experience with a friend who did just that. She destroyed the trust that I have given her and it was painful. I wouldn't have to elaborate further for it is such a long story. Anyway, we remain in contact but the interaction was civil. I cannot bring myself to trust her again after what she did. I had come into terms of forgiving her. We are still talking but I can no longer give to her the kind of friendship that I shared at the past.