How make a girl my friend

India
June 24, 2011 11:29pm CST
I am a boy who is very frank in speaking to boys so i have many male friends but i feel shame while speaking to girls so i do not have any female friends. Can you help me in making one or to be frank while talking to girls
3 responses
@Near2011 (155)
• United States
25 Jun 11
I have the same issue, because I guess i expect them to tease me for my hobbies that include watching anime and playing games and other things considered childish. They key to it is to just be you. believe it or not, that works. Just calm down and stop trying so hard to impress. talk to girls like you'd talk to anyone else, but throw in the occasional flirt. like compliment something about her that you like, or say something that you think will make her smile. Women are good listeners by and large,and want to know what's on your mind, so just tell them.
@swtpareek (650)
• United States
25 Jun 11
It happens, specially when you haven't ever talked with girls then you are bound to feel shy infront of them. I used to feel shy with boys as well earlier but now since I have many friends who are guys I am quite frank with everyone. Initially though it requires an ice-breaker but eventually I sail through fine. You will be over your shyness soon. Try interacting with people more, so that you don't feel shy anymore.
• United States
25 Jun 11
Why do you feel shame while speaking to girls? I have more male friends than female friends because a lot of them don't like me where I live. Guys have less problems with me on a friend basis.