Are you the most important one?

I am not rank 1 as well in the heart of my bf. And he knows that I don't like being just number 2 or 3. But I can't force him to put me as number 1 for now since he also have to fulfill his goals and dreams first. And I understand him now since I can say that there are also times that I can't have him as number one priority. Anyway we are still young so I guess we have to fulfill something at one point for now before we have each other as number one. Although it would be nice to fulfill those dream together, but in our situation, it just hard. So I will have to be contented with being rank 2 or 3. :)

Hi dream, I feel he is my no.1 and so as am in heart. Though we use to fight for that number saying am i not 1, but many times our actions prove they are number1 to each other. Its comes out of true love and we like to be number1.

personally I don't see it important # 1, # 2, 100 etc as long as I am in my lover's heart and he is in mine the most important thing to me is that he reciprocates if I keep my promise, he keeps his if I am loyal, he is loyal if he makes mistakes and I forgive him, then he should be able to forgive my mistakes if he can't do this, well he can go find someone else LOL the first and foremost is love yourself nobody else can do this better than yourself. Why? you will always be your # 1 in fact if you are not already, it's time to start

Sad to say I am not number 1 in his heart though he is in mine. As much as I don't want to compete with this family. There are times wherein I demand his time to spend it with me which are, most of the cases, the cause of our misunderstandings. Don't worry dream, you are not alone in this one and I know someday we'll see the light on why we can't be number 1 yet in our boyfriend's hearts. I love my family, too, but I always make it to a point to give him enough time so that misunderstandings can be avoided yet he is the one who doesn't give me enough time at all.

Importance is depending upon that how much love we are giving. We have to give our true feel and do anything for our loved ones. Then only they will give full importance for us. and we also think about them, how we can make them happy. We have to feel the responsibility, then only they will give importance to us.

I do not know how people rate me. But I think I am the kind of person that is nice to all person. I try to be honest and to be good to members of my family and my friend. I do not have a girlfriend. I am kind of a shy person.

I'm willing to accept that. I think our children are ranked number 1 in my partners heart.. I'm fine with that. I'm not sure about your specific situation so I can't comment on how you should feel... I don't think you are asking to much though.. A relationship should consist of unconditional love. I don't think you should worry to much if he loves you, I don't think there should really be a ranking system. I understand what you mean though. Who do you believe is his number one? How long have you been together?

if that person is not my husband yet, i can accept it, but not totally. i'm a bit selfish, but i want to be his priority. if he can't make it, then however it hurts, i need to call it off. i'm pretty sure that there will be someone out there that will make me his princess and i'll be his world. but if he's already my husband, its ok if he prioritize his work over me. because i know that its for our future. but again, he doesn't need to overdo it.

hello, Actully, it really doesnt matter to me if I will not rank as number 1 as long as he loves me and I love him, I understand. Well, you are not asking for too much you just loving so much from one person and you are expecting what you also feel to him. It is natural if you are loving a person and you are asking for more but if you think you are not the number 1 maybe dont ask him at all,

dream_ozn...do not except anything but #1 in your boyfriends heart. I fear that you are looking for heartbreak. When you love,you should be #1 in each others lives and hearts. Just one man's opinion...

Well,That's a difficult question!I think that the love can not be ranked!I always hear that many girls will ask their boyfriends a question: if your mother and me dropped into a river but neither she nor I can swim ,and that you can save only one,then who will you save? Actually,this question is the same with yours!I insist that love is the same in many cases!

I think it's not too much to ask to be the most important in the person that you have a relationship with. I am sure that he is the most important one in your life and that is normal. So I think you should be his number one and only one person in your life.