love without ever get hurt.. would you like it?^^
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
Portugal
July 6, 2011 12:16pm CST
hi guys^^
i was just thinking how would be a relationship where you never argue so much.. argue a bit is normal but like almost never argue. wouldnt that be so great? i know that i live a bit in fantasy world like people always say to me but i know that love is also about peace^^ if in a relation there are always arguements it gets destroyed.. i think that things are so simple sometimes but people complicate it a lot.. like if you love someone so so much why do you give it up? sometimes people do that bcs they are afraid.. well im poor and i can say that for sure any guy can find a girl better than me but i believe that we can be faithful and sweet and not just complicate things all the time like some people do.. dont you think that love should be a simple thing? ^^
guys please share your point of views^^
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@gaiza12 (4884)
• Philippines
7 Nov 11
I agree, it would really be great if relationships are like that. No stress, hassle free, no tear and pain. But there will also be no romantic hugs, sweet after argue kisses and the love will not be tested. Women may have a lot of patience with man but we too are far more unpredictable than men. Because we sometime hurt when the guy never intends to hurt us cause more trouble and would end up arguing. I agree, people really do complicate things a lot!
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
11 Jul 11
hi sweet,
When we love someone even how great that love we will come to the point we will get hurt because we are humans we commit mistakes, we have different views and opinions
Arguing is just one spices in a relationship but make sure you both going to settle the issue before the day ends.
True love hurts it can bring pain and sorrow but if you find true love with the right person it can give us happiness.
happy mylotting
@starsailover (7829)
• Mexico
11 Jul 11
HI sweet love forever. Well I don't have so much higher expectations. I mean, a relationships where everything would be perfect, no arguments at all. Are they humans? I would feel like if I were living with a robot. It's ok to disagree with your partner. My expectation is a relationship where even if we disagree sometimes, we have a good communication and where we understand that we can't always be right, sometimes we are wrong and our lover is right, sometimes we have to admit that we have dosomething wrong, etc. And of course a relationship where we care the most for the happiness of the person we chose, being loyal and trustful.
ALVARO
@anil02 (24688)
• India
7 Jul 11
Hello, two person never have same thinking. Two person may be agree on a topic or may be disagree. The healthy argument or debates is good thing. If we agree on each and every topic of our partner than it means we are not honest about our partner, we are buttering.
@sandeepmohapatra060 (38)
• India
7 Jul 11
Heyyyyy LOVE is a divine creation of god..........
It is very simple,nothing other than love between two partners.It does never see whether u r rich or poor.My dear girl, I appreciate ur feelings for love.
But u have a wrong impression for love.Nowadays people make love very complicated.That doesn't mean that Love is complicated.
I don't think that a love having no argument at all prooves better.Love means everything.It includes fight,argument,romance & tears.If ter is an argument,there is also compromise.When we try to adjust within ourswelves after an argument,it gives a wonderful feeling.....& love remains at the top when the argument solves.
When ter r a lot of arguments then may bethat they don't have a nderstanding between them & here the love may result in a break up........
But love is very simple feeling when we keep it simple.....................
@marxistmind (102)
•
7 Jul 11
Hmmm, I guess if a relationship runs too smoothly I would probably get board and try find some excitement somewhere else. The arguments, not always having your own way and just having different opinion. What would you talk about if you agreed on everything?
"I like cheese"
"Me too"
I think it would get tiresome very quickly.
@Tamijuddin (81)
• India
6 Jul 11
A healthy argument always is good. God has created man and woman alike, but the sixth sense of dealing with things after a clear analysis never appears equally. Mostly guys wish to see their gal friends acceptable with good perceptions. They don't expect the gals to be argumentative all the times. Who knows, a healthy argument may turn out things to be more mutually beneficial. What one sees as a good point in a matter, the partner may not see or understand. To drive that point home, argument is necessary but with all the ease. An arrogant approach will definitely spoil your life. Both the guys and gals should be of understanding, and adjusting nature.