did you feel shy the first time u talked with the person that is ur lover now?^^

I was too shy to even approach her and just say a simple hello to her. I was very shy by nature at that time. But somehow I managed to express myself completely to her. It took two years though :P hehe...But now we are very happy together and hoping for a very bright future. Hope everything goes fine:)

hello i dont feel shy talking to him rather i feel relax and tension fre talking to him. feelings differ person to person.it depends upon everyones nature that how do they respose to some particular thing.i feel realy goo talking to him rather i feel complete talking to him but unfortunately we are off from few days because of some misunderstandings or may be somebody between us.

at first with the men I like, I am either curious, or distant, not shy. but when I develop feelings for him, then I start feeling shy LOL so it's the other way around, probably confuse them but I can't help it LOL that's how I always am

Hi Cat I think it is common that most are a bit shy but simply because so many of us try to impress and afraid we may say something which the other may not like. When I was younger I think in that aspect I was shy and now as I got older, I continually reminded myself to simply be me. It does not deter me from being a bit nervous though, as I remember when I met my boyfriend 8 years ago and we met for the first time, I was a bit nervous. I continually reminded myself to take it easy as he already likes me so I should not change how I behaved, therefore, it made it easier for me to speak and behave freely. He too is such a passive type guy so he was so patient and I could see how he patiently listened to me. His eyes Cat, are what got me, and lol the rest is history now. So with time you too can do the same. Always remain as sweet as you are and you will see how relaxed and fun the moment will be.

Thanks for reminding me about my youth Cat! I was never shy with my husband the first time we talked. It's because I'm three years older than him and i feel bit superior at that time not only because of age but also because I was sort of the leader in our group of friends. Everybody in that group looked up to me and whenever there were decisions to make they asked me first. So there was never shyness on my part then. However, with my previous crushes, I always felt intimidated. My type of man is usually someone who's older than me about 5-10 years and executive looking type. So i get intimidated and shy when i had the opportunity to speak with them.

The first time I talked to my husband I was very shy too. The thoughts going through my head was what if I say something stupid or wrong? He said he felt the same way back then! =) Then we moved in together and I was nervous eating in front of him, I'm not really sure why when I look back now but I was. However, I had to get over that fast or I would have starved since we lived together! LOL. I think it's pretty normal to feel that way but it goes away pretty fast once you get more comfortable with them...

No. I wasn't shy at all . it think it was because I looked on him as a friend , and only a friend. It was strange but I felt at ease and I felt like I could tell him anything.

Yes, I too feel shy when I like a guy. I rarely talk to the guy nor see him eye to eye. I am just afraid to see what his eyes might say when he looks at me. I am so aware of this attitude of mine ever since I had my first crush. but then when I went to college, I try my best not to be shy for it may look obvious. But acting natural in front of the guy makes me really sweat.

if you are reasonable about it anyway, everybody's already experienced it first. The shame-shame that it was the beginning of another journey of love going out especially. But do not often get used later on it could be a minus for you, guiding principle of "Dare to speak, dare to be responsible" if you do not dare and embarrassed after it was taken later the same trigger others know!. But courage you have shown in him at the right time and not contrived, well behind your courage, you have to set up a powerful weapon for the next step, the most prominent is a "security" and "trust", but the main capital definitely "the future

More than being shy I felt nervous and was just wondering what will I speak to her or how will I go about the evening. Also I tend to talk a lot less and gradually as time goes by and when I get to know the person a lot better I interact a lot more. The feeling of nervousness or being shy is always there in most of us as we want to great a good impression in the other persons mind and want them to always be with us. Many a times this nervousness or shyness becomes a point to laugh on and we just enjoy the moment. It also the start of a nice relationship..

When we love somebody its natural to shy bcoz tht person become so special for us.so even a word is hardly came out.being a guy i was also very shy when first time i met with my beloved.even i could not match my eyes with her.very hardly and with a few word our first meeting was end.but after then we became some frank and now we have a better chat whenever we meet.so shyness is natural in love.

yes, i remembered when we first met in a fastfood chain with my friends. he treated us with pizza then as we started to talk, i was hesitant because i was a little bit shy to converse with him...

The first time I talked to my now husband I was not shy. I had watched him for a few days already (we worked together at the time) and talking was easy.

no :)

i didn't feel shy when the first time I met my long time boyfriends for I was really drunk that time. hahaha! And was really shy and anxious the second time around for i was in my clear mind and all i feel was really nerve rocking :)