For you, what is the most difficult part of writing?

@Awinds (2468)
United States
July 6, 2011 9:15pm CST
We love writing, but that doesn't mean we are ultimate masters of the craft. Every writer has an area or two they struggle in. What's yours? Do you have trouble with verbs, or naming your characters? Something else? How do you deal with your are of difficulty? Do you try to avoid that part or do you work on improving your skills in that area?
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@BeckyAnn (265)
• United States
9 Jul 11
I feel like my descriptions are a bit bland; my vocabulary is superb, yet I still have trouble with managing descriptions. I can also be extremely clipped and choppy with my sentences; I can't stand it. People tell me my writing is great, so I can't be entirely sure if my flaws are in my head or if they are real problems that I need to address. All I can possibly do to improve my writing would be to do more of it. :) Practice makes perfect!
@BeckyAnn (265)
• United States
9 Jul 11
That is most certainly true. I've always be Ueber-tough on myself when I look over my work. We just have to keep trying, and make sure to use grammar check often (just in case we're right!). :)
@BeckyAnn (265)
• United States
9 Jul 11
Correction: I've always /been/ tough on myself. Argh, I can type properly at 1 A.M., I promise.
@Awinds (2468)
• United States
9 Jul 11
That's a good attitude - to keep at despite what the critical voice in your head says! I have experienced this before myself - everyone who reviews it calls it good, but to me it's NOT good. You are so certain that this sentence interrupts the flow and this word choice is horrendous and unclear...on and on it goes. You are your own worst critic. :)
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• Philippines
9 Jul 11
I really admire the talent of a writer, I think there is a special skill in them that they easily can compose what is in their mind. Basically, there is a guide on how to write, it can even be searched in the net. I wanted to write an article in triond.com, just to see if my article is accepted but the hard part is elaborating in some points from the original topic. Funny because I have started a few topics, but can't end it beautifully!! I am still trying, and trying. I am short of vocabulary, that is why even here in mylot, i still checked my vocabulary in Thesaurus.
• Philippines
9 Jul 11
Thank you very much! I hope that by practicing all the time, i will be more at ease writing articles. And more important is that, the readers will like them. Good luck, too!
@Awinds (2468)
• United States
12 Jul 11
Thanks! You are on the right path - to not practice all the time is to let the progress you have made become rusty. :)
@Awinds (2468)
• United States
9 Jul 11
Ha - I've done that to! I will look at what I have written and then run crying to Thesaurus.com. It's my second home. ;) Good luck with your writing - may you learn to finish in fabulous ways!
@bwaybaby (903)
• United States
7 Jul 11
My first problem is coming up with an idea. For some reason I feel like very, VERY few of my ideas are really original enough to continue with. After that, my main problem is my writing style. Back when I was still a journalism major I found that "hard" news was the easiest for me, and in high school my friend described my writing as being similar to that of an Ikea manual. So I guess I'm just a very dry writer.
7 Jul 11
I think you mean "technical" writer (documentation, user guides, etc.) - and yes, it pays well if you're good at it. VERY well.
@Awinds (2468)
• United States
8 Jul 11
Crud. Well, thank you for catching my error! That's kind of a crucial adjective...
@Awinds (2468)
• United States
7 Jul 11
Well, every writing book I read says everything has been done. The key is to add your own twist, to make it fresh or different. I don't think it's possible anymore to come up with something out of the blue that has never been seen or written of before. Your "dry writing" might be of benefit to you. Have you ever considered being a technique writer? From what I have read, technique writers make the most money out of all the types of writers. Or there is the other side of the coin - your writing has probably matured and changed since high school. :)
@matersfish (6306)
• United States
7 Jul 11
My biggest problem in writing is the fact that I have to sit here to write. Procrastination. I often think that had I been alive when computers were just a dream and a typewriter was the way to go, or even a feather and ink, I might be more committed to writing. But as it is, I get very easily distracted by email and gaming and visiting myLot and a million other things. And I know I'm distracted; I think I would rather be distracted. When I'm actually in the mood to write, I have no difficulties with anything. And if there are any lapses in grammar or misused punctuation or anything of the sort, well, I'm not an editor. My favorite saying ever: There are two types of people in the world - writers and editors. Writers just wanna write. Editors just wanna be right. When it comes to the actual writing process, I find it simply comes together if you don't think about it too much.
• United States
8 Jul 11
Sometimes I'm able to treat writing like a "real" job and actually set up a schedule. If I'm up at 5am, for example (like I am now lol), I'll give myself an hour to fiddle around, check emails, shoot some inter-pool, and then I'll start writing at 6. The carrot is the break after two hours, which will usually last for two hours. The stick is the fact that I don't get paid if I don't write. Other times, well, it just comes when I least expect it. I'm sure this is something that has happened to everyone - just when your mind is on other things, your brain screams, "Hey, bozo, it's time to write!" But that seems to happen mostly when I'm offline. As soon as I'm online and see the envelope in my Gmail tab, the fuzzy little demons are back nippin' at my ankles. As far as "mood," I find I feel like writing more if I shut myself off from music and television for a while. Even the most extroverted writer does not know that deep down he or she is really an introverted thinker. So when the brain has time to mull over itself, at least in my case, things have to be released.
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@Awinds (2468)
• United States
8 Jul 11
What you just described is also my biggest problem. The internet is as expansive a world as Earth and is quite easy to get distracted. Is there any methods you use to get into a writing mood or does it just strike you at a random moment on a random day? :)
@Awinds (2468)
• United States
12 Jul 11
You just gave some ideas - like setting up a schedule. The way you "trick" yourself is brilliant. I also like the carrot and stick analogy - I might just be able to use that on myself with some success. Thanks! :D
7 Jul 11
I have two problems: dialogue and plot. So... most of a story, really. I'm extremely logical and that causes me great difficulties in plots, because I'm forever looking for holes to fill. This means I keep having to step back, rethink and try again until all the holes are filled. Very annoying. My current project is a time-travel thing, just to make matters worse! And my dialogue always seems stilted. I'm usually too direct. That's something I have to work on.
• United States
7 Jul 11
Ouch! I won't even touch anything as complicated as time travel. But since it is time travel, no harm in starting at the end, picking up in the middle and finishing at the start. Kinda like retracing steps you never took maybe.
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7 Jul 11
Nice try, but people will still spot the paradox, sub-plots that aren't tied up and easy ways out (deus ex machina and all that). And you can't even get away with a "can only travel back in time" because the future self can still do it. Oh, why do I do this to myself...?
@meemii (28)
• United States
8 Jul 11
I love to write. The most difficult part for me is being too wordy. I have to constantly go back and re-read and take out the unnecessary words. Being female, I believe we really do use more words than men, and we often make our points by using a lot of extra words. I do work on improving and that means looking carefully at everything I write and discovering that the piece of writing is much improved by taking words out. In writing, sometimes less is best.
@Awinds (2468)
• United States
12 Jul 11
@kaypow. That used to happen to me all the time! I remember I would always be getting my history papers returned to me. I always overpasses the word limit. One time I did so by 900 words. If nothing else it impresses the teachers. :)
@Awinds (2468)
• United States
8 Jul 11
I have that problem to! I look back at some of my answers here at myLot and realize a paragraph could have been a sentence. I believe you have something there - I once read that the best way to write is in a simple and direct fashion.
@kaypow (68)
• Canada
11 Jul 11
I hear you! I like to go for descriptive writing, since I write a lot of fiction and I find it important to offer the reader details about the location of the story, what characters are doing or wearing, and things of that nature, so that the reader can visualize scenes more easily. However, this comes back to bite me in the butt when I am trying to complete a school assignment on which there is a word limit and I am 500 words over the limit before I start in on my second argument.
@dfollin (25379)
• United States
7 Jul 11
The most difficult thing for me is that sometimes I get writers bloke.Cannot think of any ideas to write about for a few days. Dealing with it is just having to wait till I think of something.Usually I will get an idea from something that I see around me or on tv.Or sometimes I will get an idea from something that has happened to me or a person around me.It could be a family member,friend,neighbor or a complete stranger that I see in public.
@Awinds (2468)
• United States
7 Jul 11
That's a great skill - drawing new ideas from the sources you listed. :) Do you suffer from writer's block often?
• United States
7 Jul 11
For me, the most difficult part seems to be writing... LOL Seriously, dialog. I have been told that it's not as bad as I think it is, that I really do write better dialog than I think but I always feel like it's a struggle for me to make each character have their own voice and speech patterns, to really make it clear to the reader which character is speaking without having to use signal phrases for every statement. I feel like it always comes out sounding fake and forced.
@Awinds (2468)
• United States
7 Jul 11
They do say you are your worst critic. :) Seriously though, dialogue is hard. Something that is natural like dialogue can not be forced. The character must develop their speech themselves or it just doesn't work. How have you been coping with your dialogue difficulties? Have you found any techniques that help you through it?
@thatgirl13 (7294)
• South Korea
8 Jul 11
For me, while writing, I think finding a good topic is the hardest thing. I can never think of a good topic to write about and always have to go consult my sister or brother.
@Awinds (2468)
• United States
9 Jul 11
Oh that's another area that can be quite stubborn! It seems to especially become a problem when the writing is a required report you're not to interested in doing. :)
@bluespygirl (2112)
• Philippines
11 Jul 11
I love writing too but I seldom do it now. Im so much into internet now. I remember I attended a writing class which makes me more confused and disappointed because of the many do's and dont's.. I wish I didn't attended that class.. :(
@Awinds (2468)
• United States
12 Jul 11
Writing classes can be good for improving your form, but writing is an art. Art does not have a right and a wrong. There is no Ten Commandments of Art to guide us. The art of writing is like feeling around in the dark. You don't have a map or a clear direction of where you are going. You can take a class on getting around in the dark but it will still be dark and you will still have to find your own way. You just have to hope you come upon something that works. :)
• Philippines
7 Jul 11
I tried to do a part time job for writings. Since I will be expecting my baby soon, I found that having a part time job will lesser the time of waiting for my baby to arrive. I was not a born writer but I found writing interesting. When I was given my first assignment, I did not know what it was about. I think the hardest part of writing is when you are having difficulty in expressing your thoughts. Try to calm your mind and don't force yourself. It has to come out naturally whenever you are writing anything. It's all about being passionate with what you are writing about.
@Awinds (2468)
• United States
8 Jul 11
That's quite selfless to put the baby first. :) So do you consider passion to the most important aspect of writing?
@kaypow (68)
• Canada
11 Jul 11
My biggest problem seems to be coming up with original content! I love writing Harry Potter fan fiction, and it has definitely helped me to hone my writing skills over the years, but the fact is that I will never be able to publish fan fiction anywhere but on dedicated websites, and I will never be able to take credit for every aspect of my writing when I borrow characters and plot from another author. I often have vague ideas for original stories, but I always struggling with "fleshing out" my characters and figuring out why they would do what they are doing in my stories. It is so much easier to build on a foundation that is already completed for me! My other problem, which I encounter even in fan fiction, is writing dialogue. This is because I tend to write very differently from the way that I speak and I have trouble making my characters say things that people would actually say in real life (few people actually stick to proper grammatical rules when they speak, but I struggle to force myself to use bad grammar on purpose).