Loving Myself

Go for it Toni! You deserve it. Sometimes, we just have to pamper ourselves, as a treat for having worked hard for the past weeks or maybe months. We earn money, so we deserve a part of it to be enjoyed by ourselves.

Pampering yourself is good. I learned this from a domestic violence class I took. We don't do it enough. We always work, work, work, but never take the time needed to replenish all that has been taken from us with all we do. I think it is a good idea to do something for yourself at least once a week. It helps keep you going. I wish I had a few bucks to do something for myself right now. I've been so busy with moving and making money I haven't time or the extra cash. The minute I do though, it's on!!

Yes, I think it is very important. Every day, I wake up at 7am, go to work at 8am and finish work at 5pm. Some time I need to overtime work. The time belong to myself is very very little. I decide to learn from you and take care myself. Ha,ha...

For me yes it is good loving your self is the way that Jehovah God do in your life so keep up the good work.

I spend once a month for a body scrub for myself. So glad my sister knows how to make a hair treatment, so I don't spend to much at the parlor. I also make a home style facial masks, so I can have a facial massage twice a week.

Yes we should pamper ourselves sometimes. Why do we work? To earn money right, so who will benefit from that? It should be us. It's okay to splurge sometimes so we will feel relaxed and I think inspired to work better. Work offers a lot of stress and stress makes us look old faster. Pampering is a good way to get rid of stress.

aww sounds like me toni.. wake up at 5..cook, make sure kids are ready for school.and make sure we leave the house before 7 am so my daughter and son wont be late for school..arrive in the office at 7:00 - 7:30 depends on the traffic jam..then work till 8-12 in the office..i get lunch break and do mylot during that time lol and then resume office work from 1 - 6 in the afternoon! then go home at 5..make dinner, make sure kids do their assignments and projects..then review them for tomorrow's lesson and usually ends up around 9 or 9:30. tuck them to bed..then i have online work from 10 to 2 am ( new one..like a call center thing but i am paid)..and well barely have time to sleep! But i have to.. to make ends meet! How i wish i could have facial..or a body massage would be lovely!!! craving for it i do not even have time to make sure i have manicured finger nails!

thanks for reminding us that we ought to love ourselves. I think we are our own harshest critic. We need to be kind to ourselves. Indeed we do need to pamper ourselves as the inflation affecting the economy is eroding our savings and earning, haha. That's another reason to spend.

Even though i am not a feminist ,i surppot you for your decison .Mom is the most painstaking in the world .They got to look after their children and husband ,strive in their own career and handle with all the housework .Moms deserve to have a break and enjoy their life .However ,some of them are too selfless ,who never pay attention to themselves .Good for you ,toniganzon ! Have a nice day !

That's good toni! :) I guess, it will take time for me to get that special treatment for myself. Need to work extra hard for my studies and some personal expenses for my siblings! But when the time comes, I'll surely do treat myself! :) Congrats.. :)

So true!!! I need to do the same! Perhaps I will take a nice hot bath tonight and then do a pampering treatment on myself! Thanks for reminding me!

I'm thinking too.. When was the last time I got myself treated? Can't seem to remember too.. I now realized how abusive I am of myself.. :( I promise, I will pamper myself in as much as possible. It's nice to sometimes go to the spa and have a good time. I miss having a massage and a foot spa.. Hmmmm..

what a busy day! haha. i admire you. you seem to be accomplishing a lot on each day. and now your question. when was the last time i pamper myself? i could not remember, too. haha and maybe i should also think of pampering myself after this, after all it's been hard work for the last five months. maybe i could go to the spa with some of my friends. i need a good massage :) - kat

It is a good thing to have a spare time for yourself. I thought about this before. However, whats the difference? Everything changes. I was only 8, I think, when I thought about this. However, that was pretty foolish of me. I never thought that thing.. what is it called?... Oh yeah.. JOB.. will take much time and I won't have as much spare time for myself as I wanted earlier. Good old times (...and thoughts...)

Go for it Toni...I also cannot recollect when was the last time I treated myself to Spa or buy some new stuffs for myself. I think it was March then when I last bought stuffs for me. I had my last haircut last January or February. Wow! That was so months ago...I guess, I also needed pampering.

Do the things in right time, that will makes our mind shine.. Then we also go with more happiness..

Hi! All parents specially mothers are so busy everyday working and doing responsibilities at home and their children. More than often, they forget that they also need a break in their life. I hope you enjoy your little relaxation! Every busy mom deserves a good time for herself! Happy day and happy mylotting!

Yes, take some money for yourself and take care from you. Don't work so much and relax. All the best for you!

It's good for your self to have that moment of relaxation. Few bucks is immeasurable when it can deliver extreme peace of mind and self-fulfillment. It's nice to treat yourself once in a while, to also show that you love your only you. God bless.

It's good for your self to have that moment of relaxation. Few bucks is immeasurable when it can deliver extreme peace of mind and self-fulfillment. It's nice to treat yourself once in a while, to also show that you love your only you. God bless.