How to make a decision wisely?

Before doing anything you have to ask GOD first, pray for what your heart desires! And go for what will make you happy as long as you're not hurting anybody. :)

Listen to both your head and your heart, then give it a decent amount of time (depending on the situation) and think about something else. Sometimes there is no right decision, but as long as you listen to yourself you will never regret one made with the information you had at the time. Only you can know your true feelings about a situation so take friends opinions as food for thought and not options :)

If we take into consideration all aspects that go into making a sound decision then it will be made with better backing. If we check into any data available and people that have expertise in the area then we are able to make a more sound decision. But if we make hasty and uncolulated decisions then that won't be the case.

This article has some good advise: http://socyberty.com/future/seven-important-tips-that-will-help-you-make-good-and-wise-decisions/ I think the most reliable source of good advise when it comes to making decisions is God. So it is best to listen to Him. What do you think?

I think to give it time because only then the emotions set down a little, the fear gets weaker and we can put all the important things in balance.

myfb2009 hello...yes your right that making decision is always part of our daily life that we should think about for several times before we decide.But you ask of what things to be considered,first what consequences you might encounter?,is there anybody will be affected bout it?,would this make you feel better? do you need help from the elders? some of these might be the thing that you need to consider before making any decisions, but just be ready to what ever the result will come out after you decide.

I think decision making is based on the standards and values we were taught as we grew up. Is it the ethical or moral thing to do? Is there a right or wrong way to turn? The main thing I think is what will be the consequences or results of my decision? Each circumstance where you have to make a decision will be different. Being a good decision maker is an accquired skill that takes lots of practice. Try and take your time rather than rushing in and making mistakes.

I am always indecisive and admit I am a fickle minded person. My weaknesses have resulted in my falling down so many times in life but somehow I am able to stagger my way up again through to be who I am today. I am always thankful to my lucky star for helping to fish me out from trouble waters. Yes, decision making is important, it will make or break a person's future. When I looked back on all the failures in my life I blame no one but my own faults for taking the wrong decisions. It takes a lot of maturity to make a right decision that will bring good result in future. The point is we have to listen to others views, many thorough study before making our final decision.

I think there are really no wrong or right decisions...there are just paths. One path might be harder than another and it might make you sad..but it is temporary as long as there is another path to take. The choices I hate are the two where neither is good....then I try to choose the one that is best. At least for me at the time. I try to weigh out the choices and imagine where they will take me tomorrow. I have confided in others..but I always let the choice be my own. As far as regretting...never look back...there are always things back there that we should have done but the truth is that all that matters now is what we are doing. Just my opinion though. Take care.

Do our wrong decisions really ruin our lives???? Only if we allow them to. OK,Decisions. First one must define the problem or choice. Next, acquire information from every source possible, from family, friends, strangers,internet, library and anywhere else you can find. If you talk to enough people, you will find someone who has had your problem or choice. They might have your answer. Next, Make the choice without fear or regret. If it turns out to be the wrong choice, great! You just learned what not to do. Change, choose again and adapt. There is no way to loose unless you stop choosing. You will discover every successful person has losing under their belt. One can't really get good without it.

Hi mybf:We are bnot perfect and sometimes, even if you feel that you are taking teh right decision, you can't be in total control of the final result. In my own experience, I think that one might take decisions thinking about how you feel but also thinking about what's the best for you, that means to think clever about your possibilities and in some cases you need help from others but you are the only one who knows what you want. Making mistakes is a part of every human's life. You can't control this but you can be in control of your decisions. If you make mistakes, at least you make a choice. And sometimes they are not even mistakes, they are part of your learnig process. ALVARO

My personal experience, the best decision should be made by us ourselves. It can not involve the other. Maybe you will need some advices from family, friend or whoever. But final decision remain need to be made by you yourselves. Hope this share with you, and best wishes,

Sometimes the best decision we can do is the hardest thing to do.