How can you make your man be loyal to you even if you're not around?

Actually, nowadays, it's not only the men that are polygamous, but the women as well. It's such a cliche to say that only men are polygamous. but women nowadays are also catching up with the male race. not that i'm saying that women are competing with men literally, but the sense of competition naturally comes out from the sexes. it's a jungle out there, if men roars, women hisses as well. so the real question would be, how would you make your partner be loyal to you when you are not around... and not just to the male counterpart. and one way of making them loyal to you is just to trust them... i know that giving a complete trust to your partner is hard, but that is how a relationship should work. but at the same time, one should be aware also with the whereabouts of his/her partner but minus the nagging attitude of inquiring of his/her whereabouts. showing and letting him/her feel that you trust him/her makes one notch up in proving to each other that there is no need for another third party.

You know what, just be yourself. If the guy looks for another women, then he's simply not worth your time. Once you find out he's not loyal to you, just do nothing to change yourself. It just means he can't accept you for who yoy are so he goes looking for another girl. You deserve better than that guy.

I think the question should be "What are the characteristics of a trusted and loyal partner" instead of making your own move for your man to be loyal to you. It is important to know the person well before you put your trust to him. Know the very essential characteristics of a trusted and loyal partner which is number one, have a strong and solid foundation on the Word of God and he obeys it and fears God above all. No matter how far you are geographically, your mind and heart can be at ease because it is God who holds the two of you together and you have only one objective, which is to please God and not man.

I think a lady who want to keep his man in a relationship for a longer period of time should study the man his strength and weakness and then relate with the man on the basis of this factors. The woman should be very patience,loving,understanding, and caring. A good man will always value a woman who is prepare to make some sacrifice. Do not be a nagging woman, just remain a helpful partner. Do not scold the man when he make mistakes just show some good respect. Buy him gifts and always call him to speak with him especially when he leaves for work

Yeah.. Definitely true! Most men nowadays are polygamous. :( So sad.. I don't really know how to make a man be loyal to a person. What I'm doing right now with my boyfriend is that, I don't give him a chance to get along with other girls. I'm so keeping my eyes on him. He liked it anyway.. :)

When you wanna start a relation, it's not a ride which you enjoy all the time, there has to be some ups and downs, so don't expect a perfect person to come your way. I know even you has committed some faults at some given time, not only men. All you need to do is trust him, and if betrays your trust, then you know what to do. If you imprison your man, your just telling him to look for someone else, what needs to be emphasize in a relation is TRUST! I have some tips on how to handle your man.. treat him like a 5 year old child, let him play with his toys all day long.. and know that in the evening he will return home.. that saying is based on TRUST.

You can't. Either he is the type of guy who is looking for others or he is not.If you Need the type of guy who will Never even look at other women, go out and find him. He is out there.

you don't have to do anything. In the first place, if you love the guy, you can trust him. It's their choice. And not all men are like that

If that is how you feel and the guy your with is doing things like that, then you shouldn't be with the guy. If you can't trust in the relationship than you don't have anything. Not all men are like that. There are some really good guys out there, you just have to find them and you may be looking in the wrong places if that's what you are meeting, cheating men. You can't make a man or woman for that matter, be loyal to you. It doesn't matter if you are away from him or not, he has to want to be loyal to you. Are you loyal to your guys? I would hope so...so I would say you aren't picking the right guy. Cheers and happy mylotting , Chris

The false notion is that men do have the license to play around because they are men and they are by nature polygamous. But that is surely not acceptable if we consider God's command. Now surely dear, there is no way a woman can tame her man if that man do not have the so called "fear of the God". A man can always play fire at any one time because he does not revere God but if one does he will always refrain from doing sinful thing. So how can you make your man be loyal to you even if you're around? The best thing is to choose a man who truly loves you and most of all makes sure he is one who fears the Lord. I'm talking through experience actually.

First of all,make sure that he loves you as much as you do.If you feel that he truly loves you,then you should probably don't have to worry about any of such things.Just trust him and Don't hurt him.

There is no means of making a person change, a cheat is always a cheat. This is the point where perfect pretense comes in if you force someone to change his/her ways just for you. The only way to make your relationship less complected is to have positive mind and focus on prosperity of it other than to keep worrying for the unknown. If you always think your guy/girl is going out with someone else, then sure it will happen. Trust in the person you have, and don't always question about the company of the person you love unless you are sure about something you suspect. This will eliminate a doubt that can arise between you two, hence securing your love and building a strong relationship. ...a doubt is always a rotten root for a healthy relationship..

If you don't trust the person in the first place, then why would you be in relation with that person. You can't make a person be honest through and through in a relationship if you show lack of faith to that individual.

i stress myself out about this problem all the time... i feel your pain... unfortunately i still do so i would also like to hear what some other people have to say about this subject

I will reply to your title question briefly: Have the right man.

The cheaters are many but there are afew that dont. Dump the cheater and find one that dont or simply ignor what he does. Those are the choices. You can not change a tigers stripes.

Boundaries are tough but those and self respect are very important. If you are someone he respects and wants in his life then he had better not over step his responsibility to you. I guess what I mean is that if a man knows he has you hands down and you expect him to respect you and you show him what the consequences are if he doesn't then you haven't a thing to worry about. If you are just run of the mill and one like all the others then he is less apt to stay faithful to you. If you see what I am saying.

For me the secret is if he have true love by Jehovah God then the it is follow because they know to hear that if I do this I will get big sin to Jehovah God.

Hi Mitchi! It's a tough question for me but I will try to answer it. For me if one really do love someone sincerely he/she will never betray their partners. He will keep the bond and relationship without even intend to lie to it. I don't know if there is way to make them loyal as I will be just myself and if he sincerely love me he will accept me for who I am and will stay loyal to his love. I will not pretend to be somebody else just want to make sure he will not be with somebody else. It will just make me be dishonest to myself.(^^)

if I have a bf that will do that to me and fool around while he is in a relationship with me, i'll dump him. but us girls also need to do our best to make the relationship work and make our bf be content so he not look for other girls. but maybe that's their nature, as they said man are born polygamous, but maybe if they love their girlfriend and contented with them also they won't do that. haha I'm also confuse about this topic.