long distance relation

@adhyz82 (36249)
Indonesia
July 27, 2011 1:00pm CST
had you ever feel long distance relation? is it hard or do you enjoy it?? would you share with us here....
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18 responses
@tears08 (161)
27 Jul 11
yes i have been in a long distance relationship. we started chatting and fell in love and decided to meet. we are miles apart. we are same nationality but my honey works in other country. then the time my honey decided to stay for good in our country (Philippines) that's the time that i have to work abroad. and after 1 year of working here in Dubai, i took my honey here. to make the story short, we are again in long distance relationship and we are now 5 years. Yes there are many who doesn't believe in long distance relationship. It is really hard to be in that situation but you need a lot of communication, trust and understanding and be strong especially when your partner feels weak, you have to be strong to make him/her strong. disadvantage also of having long distance relationship is the time difference
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
28 Jul 11
Maybe she's not used to working an office with her ??boyfriend
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
27 Jul 11
wow ... I am touched by your love story ... what her greatest strength, so you are able to undergo long-distance relationship stories like this?
@tears08 (161)
28 Jul 11
it is really hard to be in long distance relationshio especially on the first year of relationship, because that is the time that you are still adjusting in that kind of relationship especially if it is your first time in that relationship. when i took my honey here, i recommend her in my company and we are worked in same company, same department also for about 2 yrs w worked together. but due to some reasons, my honey needs to resign, and back in Philippines so again we are in LDR
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@Olleenz (3398)
• Indonesia
27 Jul 11
yup ..... but only worked for 3 months after that ....... break up and you know what that feel like
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@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
27 Jul 11
why only lasted for 3 months? what`s up with you and her??
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
27 Jul 11
where she is now??
@Olleenz (3398)
• Indonesia
27 Jul 11
too many problem that can't be answer (solve) just by phone or FB.
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@nakula2009 (2325)
• Indonesia
2 Aug 11
Hi, Yup, I've experienced it, and it did not last long. I'm sure that long-distance relationship will only lead to serious problems for the continuity of your relationship. At the end point where everyone was out of control, there is a more attractive woman. So I'll forget someone far away.
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@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
8 Aug 11
are you hurt because of long distance relation??
@rappeter13 (8608)
• Romania
19 Aug 11
I think long distance relations cannot be successful, especially if the partners don't really meet each other in real life. A strong relationship needs contact, personal meeting and time spending, because we can say a lot on the phone or over the Internet, but nothing can replace real life contact.
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
4 Sep 11
yes, many jealous, many wrong information who can bother the Long distance relationship.. sometimes LDR is harder than usual relationship.. it needs trust, and respect each other
• Sri Lanka
27 Jul 11
I do not believe in long distance relationships because I have experienced few of my friends had bad time on it.
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@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
27 Jul 11
why you don`t believe??
• Sri Lanka
28 Jul 11
because most of the times when they are in long distance connections lost and things meant to change. I recommend you to meet your girlfriend at least once a month (this does not happens with the long distance relationship)
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@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
1 Aug 11
i think i can use your trick someday
• Malaysia
27 Jul 11
You can check my posts from my profile. I am new here. so i don't actually know how to guide you to my profile. You can go through my posts "I love us" and "How to make my distance relationship work". Me and my girl friend are in different countries but our love and trust binds us together. and we are very very much loyal to each other.
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@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
27 Jul 11
i had checked...where do you live?? and your girlfriend?? are you ever jealous with her? what about her?
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
27 Jul 11
love can unite the distance, can make the impossible become possible and make the others struck in the power of love
• Malaysia
27 Jul 11
I am in malaysia and she is in India. How can you ever be jealous to one whom you madly love? She is my strength. We have a very tremendous understanding and thats why we dont face any problem.
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@singuri (571)
• India
27 Jul 11
Yes we can maintain a good relation in long distance also.As cellphones came it is a big mediator for connecting people.The person whom we love might be in a long distance but we can talk with them whenever we want and can see by video chantings, so we cannot feel that the person is far away from us.For somehow we can maintain good relation but if the person is unknown then we cannot know what ever he is telling true or false
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@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
27 Jul 11
but telephone and technology can not kill our sense of missed with her...right? i know you can hear her voice, but you can`t meet him directly... is it not hurt for you??
@nakula2009 (2325)
• Indonesia
2 Aug 11
Hi, Yup, I've experienced it, and it did not last long. I'm sure that long-distance relationship will only lead to serious problems for the continuity of your relationship. At the end point where everyone was out of control, there is a more attractive woman. So I'll forget someone far away. Great day
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@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
3 Aug 11
what the problem of your relatonship??
• Mexico
1 Aug 11
Hi adhyz: I have never had a long distance relationship but I think it must be very difficult to deal with a situation like this because there will be an important lack of communication and time matters in relationships. Some couples can last even with this difficulty but they should be mature enough to face this challenge. ALVARO
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
1 Aug 11
ya, if you can`t stand with a long distance relation, don`t do it.. it need more patience than usual relationship
@nurseclare (2209)
• Philippines
28 Jul 11
I'm in a long distance relationship for 1 year now and it is really hard for us. I feel like giving up now. I am not enjoying it. I don't know if things will work out. I trust everything to God....
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
1 Aug 11
why you say you feel give up?? what`s matter?? any hard problems with your relationship??
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
2 Aug 11
wow...he must be a patient man
• Philippines
2 Aug 11
I just miss him so much and got angry on him during my menstrual period. I easily get irritated without no apparent reason! hahaha so cray of me..lol
@Jamie911 (104)
• Philippines
27 Jul 11
i have experienced once i really loved her it was hard coz you need trust your partner so much we ended breaking up because i can't trust her that long because she cheated once and i didn't forget though i forgave her that time it's different when your far from each other you will worry all the time and it was really stressful when she can't reply at my messages quickly.
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
27 Jul 11
Jamie, The story of long-distance relationship is full of jealousy ... Many long-distance love affair damaged by the magnitude of uncontrolled jealousy
@tears08 (161)
27 Jul 11
sad to hear that. yes trust is one of the most important thing if you are in long distance relationship. its hard when you can forgive but you cannot forget, when trust is broken its hard to have it back again, not unless you really love the person i guess.. and yes i agree its hard when he/she will not reply to your messages, its like you're going mad thinking what he/she is doing..
@jonahh08 (261)
• Philippines
27 Jul 11
I live in the capital city of our country, my boyfriend lives in the neighborhood province. We've been on for 3 years and still counting. What's good is he visits me 2 times a week. I think communication is important so keep it open.
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
27 Jul 11
have you ever felt that your story is not perfect because you never see him every day and only met 2 times a week?
• Sri Lanka
28 Jul 11
have her mention that never seen in here?
• India
3 Aug 11
I've been in a long distance relation for the past 3 years. It is very difficult. We never used to meet often. If there is trust, it will succeed. Now i have a job in his city and hence, i've moved to his city. i get to be with him more often and it's no longer a Long Distance relation :) Have a great day
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
8 Aug 11
wow...it`s great when you and his is in one city... welcome to mylot my friend
@veedee13 (242)
• United States
8 Aug 11
I tried long distance relationship and it was difficult especially if the time difference is like 16 hours or so.I couldnt do it because i was busy with school.He was willing to keep trying but i know it wasnt gonna work out if he was the only one trying and i have to admit i fell out of love for him and it was useless for me to keep trying.I didnt wanna hurt him so I just ended our relationship.For a long distance relationship to work,you have to have lots of trust and determination.
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
11 Aug 11
so what is your feeling after not with him now??
@paula27661 (15811)
• Australia
28 Jul 11
I think that all long term relationships have their challenges and long distance ones have a few more. It is not easy for anyone to be apart from the one they love and although it can be difficult for many couples it is not to say it will not work. I think it depends on the individuals, the length of time apart, distance and whether there is a way to see each other every once in a while...
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
1 Aug 11
ya, many people is failed when they must run a long distance relationship it need many patience and trust
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@gaiza12 (4884)
• Philippines
27 Dec 11
I'm in an almost 2 year long distant relationship and I can really tell that it's so hard. but I know it's all worth it especially when you know you love the person so much and that no matter how far the distance is, it will not be a cause of a failed relationship. Constant communication will help as well and trust most especially.
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
6 Nov 11
hi, i will never agree in long distance relationship,because it happened to me once,for me its really hard when my love ones is in far away from me,not because i never trust my partner but we never say what could happen,so i really never enjoy it and i will choose to break our relationship when this is happen to me again.
@mantis36 (4219)
• Philippines
28 Jul 11
resisting temptations coming from everywhere is the primary concern for long distance relationships.... sometimes it's simple to say i have a word of honor, but when temptations are at it's best then how to resist it is the problem....
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
1 Aug 11
ya, sometimes it`s simple if we never feel it