My first and last love..what about you?
By dabangladehi
@dabangladehi (660)
Bangladesh
August 8, 2011 9:50pm CST
After joining in mylot,I thought that I will share my picture with my girl friend with mylotters.Here is our picture?How we are looking?
She is my first girl friend and still now.I am going to marry her next year hopefully.I love her a lot and she also.But our love is a long distance relationship.
What about you?Is your 1st love still maintaining?
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14 responses
@sjvg1976 (41281)
• Delhi, India
9 Aug 11
Hello Dabang,
Yours look a nice couple.I wish you happy married life in advance.
I never did love in my life before marriage mine is also an arranged marriage like VP and have two beautiful kids (twins) but now i love my wife very much and with her i feel that i know her from ages and really love her.Now i feel that i would have been incomplete if i had not married her.I never regret for arranged marriage because i feel if i had love marriage i would have my wife exactly the same which i have at present or may be not better than this.
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@dabangladehi (660)
• Bangladesh
10 Aug 11
In our family,most of us did arrange marriage and they are happy with their partners.
For me,I thought before love that how could I marry a known girl and I was trying to get a perfect girl for me and I got it.So,I decided to marry her.
@rifki91 (9)
• Indonesia
9 Aug 11
Time went by without
realizing that there is
only me and my
memories
previously nothing could
take me to survive in
times of sadness
I tied my previous
just for me a
now you’re here it’s gone
all the lonely cry
undecided
you make me ask
you make me look
about this feeling
I do not understand
same would happen if it
is not you? …
then woke me smile
you love first and last
previously not easy for
me
laughing alone in life
that this dark
previously it was not
necessary
share my story when
there is an
understanding
now you’re here it’s gone
all the lonely cry
undecided
*if one day you must go
do not make me a better
looking tuk
because it woke me
smile
you’re the first and last
love …
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@dabangladehi (660)
• Bangladesh
10 Aug 11
Thank you for your nice poem buddy and welcome to mylot.Its a very enjoyable place to share everything.Hope you will stay long here.
Happy mylotting.
@blue65packer (11826)
• United States
9 Aug 11
I have been in love twice and I never will again. Love stinks and it to much work! I gave up on love along time ago and dating! You men are not what I need in my life! you guys are to much of a hassle and losers are attractive to me even though that is what I don't want! So this is why I stay single and alone! I don't need or want the hassle in my life. The less stressful it is the better!
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@dabangladehi (660)
• Bangladesh
9 Aug 11
Feel sorry for blue.Its your bad luck for you.But few numbers are bad for this you can not blame about love.
@acrossnation (773)
• Malaysia
9 Aug 11
I ve been in and out of love many times. I now know what love is all about maybe, no im sure i know. Its all about being unconditional and no boundaries, it should be smooth and easy. But hard to achieve all that cause sometimes we have mood swing.
Congrats if you getting married. Next year is not very long i understand. Read books on marriage is good for preparation. Once you under same roof you have to prepare alot of things from now on like furniture, electrical appliances, bills to pay, relatives that come and visit and to start family just to find names is only the first step. All the best to you.
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@dabangladehi (660)
• Bangladesh
10 Aug 11
You told the exactly what I am thinking about married life.I am really worried about married life that how I will handle all the obstacles.I have now one family.but after marriage I will get two family and its gonna be more headache.
@inertia4 (27960)
• United States
14 Aug 11
I want to congratulate both of you. You both look real good together. Now, I was in love and married and now I'm not, was it worth it for me? No, not at all. Although I am with someone now, and they someone is the one I should have married years ago. Am I happy, yes and no. Why, you ask? Okay, let me explain. First off, my marriage ended badly. I had 20 years invested in that woman. Also, my children suffer form this whole thing. Now I am down and out. ButI have to live with the aftermath. Will I marry again? Probably not, not after that 20 year disaster. But the woman I am with now, I did know at the same time as my ex. I feel I made the wrong choice then. It's ironic that things happen for reasons. I am with that other woman now, and it's like we were meant to be with each other. For some reason, we were not to be years ago. But on that note, I am happy.
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@inertia4 (27960)
• United States
15 Aug 11
Well thats not a fair law. You should have the option to live with someone if you want to. But all I can say is just make real sure that the one you marry is the right one. I would not want to see you go through what I did. Again, congratulations.
@dabangladehi (660)
• Bangladesh
14 Aug 11
Feel sorry to hear that buddy.Wish everything will be allright.But in our society we have to marry a girl,cause live to gather is not allowed in my country,So,its my only one choice to stay with my loved one by marring her.
@jayadevi (17)
• India
9 Aug 11
first i wish u both happy married long life. why u asked about first love. this is remember someone's failure love. thats not good for other also u.because now u are both very and happy mood. someone tell any sad story, it spoils ur mood.
so be happy. share lovely moments with others. till now i am happy in my life with my lovable huppy.but at the same time we are living in different place bcos of job.
but we love each other very much after fifteen years of our marriage. it was love and arranged marriage.
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@dabangladehi (660)
• Bangladesh
10 Aug 11
You are great buddy and passed 15 years with her.As you are new here I want to say you that write you.Do not write u or ur as like sms writing.
@lingli_78 (12822)
• Australia
9 Aug 11
you have a very beautiful girlfriend... i am already married now... but not with my first love... but that doesn't mean i don't love my hubby... i love him a lot even though he is not my first love and to tell you the truth, i love him more and more by each passing day... good luck for your relationship and your plan to get married next year... take care and have a nice day...
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
9 Aug 11
Thanks for sharing your story and your photo here.
I also want to greet you in advance and wish you all the luck for a happy married life.
Yes,my first love now are my kids and they are my life as well.
You will get to know more about love once you settled down and have your own kids.
have a good day
jaiho®
@dabangladehi (660)
• Bangladesh
9 Aug 11
We think about kids and give name also.I am quite tensed about married life.Do not know how to face problem in married life.Can get some suggestion from you about married life?It will be helpful for me.
Cheers
@Zer0Stats (1147)
• India
10 Aug 11
Am I still with my first girl? Hmmm no.Saw her about 4 or 5 months ago.She still is the same weight and everything.We still like each other though.We are still in touch via FaceBook.I'm with my 4th girl but don't see us marrying,at least not for a long, long,long,........,long time.Anyways you both look great.Good luck to the both of you!
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@igatiful_badass (1222)
• Philippines
9 Aug 11
Congratulations!
Hope and wish you too would last forever.
Me i stop looking for love as of the moment.
Single parent is not easy, so life right now are in my son's world.
Love will come in time in a right place.
@dabangladehi (660)
• Bangladesh
9 Aug 11
How old is your son?
Ya,love come in a right place buddy.I am happy that I get right person to love and get love.
Why do you stop looking for love?What about your wife?
@nurseclare (2209)
• Philippines
9 Aug 11
Me and my boyfriend are in a long distance relationship too. And we're workings o hard on it. If you truly love her don't stop loving her. You guys look good together..
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@dabangladehi (660)
• Bangladesh
9 Aug 11
I love her madly and we are crazy about each other.
Anyways thank you buddy.
Have a nice life with your boy friend and wish you a happy married life soon.
@dabangladehi (660)
• Bangladesh
9 Aug 11
I believe this also.I also add that trust is another thing to keep a sound relation.Communication is must for a long distance relationship.
@ronik_onik (12)
• Malaysia
9 Aug 11
It is very nice of you that you shared your loved one in mylot. Your picture with your love is beautiful and seems like your relation is very deep. Now a days it takes no time to break up with each other and get another partner. But in this time which we are calling 'Modern Time' you are still in a deep relation with your first love. this is called an actual love. Hope you two will live happily ever after. :)
@dabangladehi (660)
• Bangladesh
9 Aug 11
Do not say like this way buddy.I never thing to break up with her.I think its not modern time,its about true love that comes from heart,trust and good commitment.
I do not wanna loose her in any way.
Cheers
@zerd87 (301)
• Philippines
9 Aug 11
A beautiful lady! Congrats to you.. Hope your relationship will last. I'm on a long distance relationship and I know it is very hard. The feeling of loneliness and the thrill to kiss the girl you wanted to be. It is very hard but if both of you love each other I'm sure you will overcome many temptations and problems. Just be a man of your word.
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@dabangladehi (660)
• Bangladesh
9 Aug 11
Thank you buddy for wishing us.You told the truth about long distance and I feel also the same way.Its very hard to stay far from her.But its for our future and our betterment.I really miss her in everytime.
Cheers.