Are you born GOOD or EVIL......or

@missybear (11391)
United States
August 15, 2011 6:28am CST
Do we grow into it. This question is been going around for years and I'm not quite sure myself. I lean more towards growing into it. I don't think you born GOOD or EVIL, I think you go towards one way of life as you grow up. You decide if you want to be a good or a bad person no one else......, what's your take on this subject?
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@minimoyz (277)
• Philippines
15 Aug 11
WE are all born good it is up to us to stay good or choose to be bad when we grow up. The environment we grow up is one of the factors that affect our attitude in selecting what is good and what is bad.
@missybear (11391)
• United States
16 Aug 11
It really has a lot to do with how and where we grew up and how we got raised. There's good and evil in rich and poor so that's no excuse.
@minimoyz (277)
• Philippines
16 Aug 11
My point exactly! No one is chosen to be good or bad it is our choice whether we want to be good or bad.
@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
17 Aug 11
Well I'm not sure. I suspect that it's more choice and the way you were raised than anything, but I do wonder if some peoples brains are just not normal from birth or genetics or something...
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@missybear (11391)
• United States
18 Aug 11
It probably will always be a mystery to us.
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@GardenGerty (160978)
• United States
15 Aug 11
As a child, you are neither good nor evil. On the other hand, children are born inherently self centered, that is how they survive. There are some people who are born with a need for thrills and excitement, and possibly for evil, but that does not destine them to be evil.There are people born with a natural need to please others, but that does not destine them to be good. I believe that your environment at home, your experiences in the world and at school tend to push you one way or another for the most part. I would also include the experiences of ill health and pain as determining factors.
@GardenGerty (160978)
• United States
16 Aug 11
I do not know. I think the people you choose as friends are determined by the direction you are going in the first place. I guess it all gets mixed up in the end, though.
@missybear (11391)
• United States
16 Aug 11
I'm sure friends have also lots of influences on your life style.
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• Philippines
15 Aug 11
I also don't think there are people who are born good nor evil absolutely. I think we have our choices. If you choose to be good, then you should be seen as good and vice versa.
@missybear (11391)
• United States
16 Aug 11
When I look at all the evil in the world I'm so glad that I turned out 1 of the good guys
• Philippines
16 Aug 11
Yeah, it's also great to know that there are still good people living today.
• Philippines
15 Aug 11
I also don't think there are people who are born good nor evil absolutely. I think we have our choices. If you choose to be good, then you should be seen as good and vice versa.
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@koperty3 (1876)
15 Aug 11
I don't believe that someone was born evil or someone was born good. As we grow up and gather experiences we can become good or evil or neutral like most of the people. Many depends of you family and what they were teaching you, conditions of life while you were growing up, your friends and opportunities. When we are born I believe that we are like empty piece of paper. We need time to write down something.
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@missybear (11391)
• United States
16 Aug 11
I like that
@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
25 Aug 11
I don't think it's a total choice. I think it's maybe genetic but I also think it's the environment you are raised in...the sort of examples you have set to follow.
@missybear (11391)
• United States
6 Dec 11
I'm sure it has a lot to do with how you were raised and where you grew up...what kind of involvement.
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@ladym33 (10979)
• United States
15 Aug 11
I think good and bad people are made not born, unless of course they have some kind of mental condition that they are born with that makes them insane or something like that, but with all physical health issues of the brain in common I believe how people turn out has a lot to do with how they were raised and the people that they hang out with and the people the formed them as they were growing up. I don't think anybody turns out bad without being treated badly themselves sometime in their life.
@missybear (11391)
• United States
16 Aug 11
Lots of it has to do with your childhood and how you were raised and how you grew up. I don't know the statistics but I'm sure people that grew up not so furtunate are more prone to grow up bad.
@Opal26 (17679)
• United States
16 Aug 11
Hi missy! This is a very good question! I'm not really sure that I can answer it though. I don't know if people are born EVIL or not, but I sure know plenty of EVIL people! I have a "Neighbor from HELL"! She is the most horrible person in every way that I have ever known! She is ugly inside and out! I think SHE was born that way! She has been living where I live for 30 years and has tortured so many neighbors that 5 have purposely moved out because of her, including my good friend who just moved to another building in the Complex because of her! I really think this beotch is pure EVIL!!!!
@missybear (11391)
• United States
16 Aug 11
I think she lives next door to me, my new neighbor is loud and always fights. I constantly hear banging and screaming. Rather her or her boyfriend are mean, evil and annoying
@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
16 Aug 11
I think every one is born good. It's just that along the way as we grow there are factors that could either makes us bad and good. And some of us followed what is bad for factors that is out of their control. But come to think of it, there are criminals that when they are incarcerated , becomes good. Maybe it's because it is innate in us to be good after all?
@missybear (11391)
• United States
16 Aug 11
Some of those inmates also just pretend to have found God just so they get a lesser sentence.
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
5 Dec 11
hi, for me, i think we born here with having our own decision which way we go through our life to be good or to be evil,when a person started to think and know how to decide,that will be the start of choosing what way will you go,for me of course i will choose to be good though there were times that im bad.
@missybear (11391)
• United States
6 Dec 11
I was a bad teenager but I was never evil, and I turned out to be a very good person I think
• United States
16 Aug 11
I have heard of the saying some people are born evil. Maybe so but I truly feel that most people have either had a bad life or choose to be evil because they don't know any other way and don't have a desire to be good nor help anyone because maybe no one has ever helped them? Just my thoughts on this. I do believe that most everyone is born good its just life experiences that keeps us good or turn us evil.
@missybear (11391)
• United States
16 Aug 11
I agree
@pbbbsra (1214)
• Philippines
16 Aug 11
I think that we are all born Good. We come from God and He made us good. Although He gave us freewill. In this life we are given the choice to stay Good or become evil by doing bad things.
@missybear (11391)
• United States
16 Aug 11
So sad that not everybody values life.
• United States
15 Aug 11
I think everyone is born good and by the way they are raised is how they will turn out in life. No innocent child should be raised in such a manner of being "Evil" but i do understand that sometimes with the world how it is now, i can see why some kids would end up like they are.
@missybear (11391)
• United States
16 Aug 11
I think it's only gonna get worse as kids grow up now a days
@sweety_81 (2124)
• India
15 Aug 11
It is true that we become what we want to, or if we are guided by others and do not think independently, what they want. It is totally upto us, and we cannot blame others for it.
@missybear (11391)
• United States
16 Aug 11
And none of that I was born with an evil seed in my family bologna
• United States
15 Aug 11
Humans are born nuetral we ( most of us) are taught good / evil and through our actions make a conscience decision whether we will nurture the good or the evil within ourselves.
@missybear (11391)
• United States
15 Aug 11
I feel that way too, we're the ones that decide if we want to be good or bad no one else.
@didi13 (2926)
• Romania
15 Aug 11
Some we are born to become more evil than good, others to be more good than bad, but the worst is when the best turn into bad after experiences. Evil exists, we are born with it, it then developed, selfishness makes us evil, poverty makes us selfish, we do not find the point, and then look for another purpose ... People do not become bad because they are evil, but (all) people are able to do harm, because they are evil! Therefore, when a man loses control and commits evil deeds, it really just exposing (yes its bronze face). But what makes us the company is not hidden evil in itself, but rather "the pretense of respectability" that is the satisfaction of others' eyes seemed to be true, when in fact we know well that they are false and artificial .. Thus it builds self-image of a man lying .. but it is "artificial log!" But the one who loves good, is lenient in the face of evil!
@missybear (11391)
• United States
15 Aug 11
Thank you for your nice comment and stay good my friend
@thatgirl13 (7294)
• South Korea
15 Aug 11
I too don't believe a person is born good or evil. I think it's the environment he grows up in that determines whether he be good or not.
@missybear (11391)
• United States
16 Aug 11
It really is hard to grow up a good person if you have nothing but bad around you, but on the other hand it should motivate you to do good.
• United States
15 Aug 11
We are born in the original sin of Adam and Eve, disobedience to God. The thing is that as little children we are not condemned in our innocence, (not that we are without the guilt; we are... just not responsible for the mistakes we make). There comes an age at which we are deemed to be responsible for our actions, the age of accountability, (this is different for different people), and then we are culpable.
@missybear (11391)
• United States
16 Aug 11
You definitely got a point there