There are plenty of fish in the sea...so stop trying to steal my fish!!

I know exactly where you are coming from. Just not that long ago there was a girl who was obsessed with my boyfriend she wen5 around spreading rumors about them. There are always girls trying to hang out with my boyfriend and they do not get the hint that he is taken and has three kids with me. What I find is rude is when they try to flirt with him when you are with him. It is like seriously do you want to get punched out?

It doesn't bother me. Silly b!tches can try, but I trust him and know him well enough to know that he's not going anywhere and if they overstep their boundaries he tells them that they need to step back because he's in a relationship.

Hey courtknee, I'm going to offer my experience and what I learnt from it...hope it sheds a different angle on the situation. To put you in the picture, I met my now husband when I was 18, we got married when I was 25 and are still together now and i'm 32. When we met, we were both already in, but at the end of dwindling relationships...I think we were trying to find the right timing/moment/reason to end each of the situations we were in. Anyway, we met, and were like soul mates - best friends with the most intense attraction to eachother. We broke off our other relationships and within 3 weeks I was staying at his 6 out of 7 nights per week. His ex however didn't give up. She continued to ring him, saying how much she missed him and this went on for a year. He HAD told me in the early days of us being together that he'd lent her parents around £4500 over the course of their relationship which he'd been promised he'd get back. He said he wanted to stay as amicable as poss to be in with a chance of getting it back...all the while it seemed she knew this would never happen and yet used it as an excuse to keep in touch. About 6 months into the relationship her car went knackered and he went to help find her a new one, but after about 12 months of the weekly phone calls I told him I'd had enough of her and she should let him get on with his life. He agreed and told me he'd started ignoring her calls. 6 months after this, I was doing the washing one day and whilst emptying clothes pockets, found a receipt for frankie and benny's in the next town from where i lived and it was dated the friday before - when he'd said he was having his biker mates round so i stayed at my mum and dads. I confronted him about the fact he'd lied, and he said he just couldn't get his head round bombing her off and losing any chance of getting his money back so when she'd asked him to meet up to discuss it he suggested going for a bit of dinner to discuss it and she presented him with half the owed money. I said lies weren't the way forward, I didn't need to know what she said (she often told him she missed him etc) however he should tell me if she'd been in touch. The calls continued to come, and p*ss me right off - the subjects being that she'd fallen pregnant, she'd had a miscarriage, her cousins mate had been killed (my bloke had never even met him), and the last being that she was going on holiday...no wait for it...to the same holiday resort in Turkey, the same dates as we were going. We went on holiday and had a foul time having to see her every day. On the last day however I approached her in front of the mate she went with and asked her - nicely - why she felt the need to share the most intimate part of her life with a man she hadn't been with for two years. Did she not think it was plain wierd sharing details of her pregnancy with a man it had nothing to do with and did the man who got her pregnant know about it? Her friend sat there in shock obviously not knowing any of this and it was enough to put a halt to the stalking behaviour. Anyway here we are 14 years on, married and happily together. What I learned is that as would seem from your original post, knowing all the details of the attention your bloke gets really grates on you, but knowing nothing could turn you into a wreck. Maybe he has a certain persona - as well as his looks that attracts this kind of attention. Tell him how you feel about it, not that you're jealous, just hearing about the unnecessary behaviour he seems to attract and try to find a happy balance xx

Hi courtknee, I've been there too. The ex of my boyfriend keeps caling him before and tried to get him back. But he loves me so much and ignored her, he even said bum words for her to stop being a stupid biacth! Everything is fine now the bicth isn't doing crazy things now after my boyfriend insulted her to back off, he even told here shameless! She deserves that.. Well, in your case you boyfriend is maybe too hot to handle. And I hope he can make her stop..Try to approach the girl to stop..

Do you realy trust your boyfriend that much? Be careful you don't get hurt. When someone tries to come between me and my partner I don't waist any time and confront the person, I also make sure that my partner does not entertain the person trying to come between us, if she does then I will rather let her go because it will seem her heart has fallen for someone else.

LOVE is in the air.. You are so inlove! While reading your post you made me smile. You are lucky that you have that kind of boyfriend, aside from being a heart rob(the way you portray him), it seems he is a loyal and trusted partner. He sounds like a trophy boyfriend, do you consider yourself fit for him (no offense), because maybe her ex thinks of this way (they are more compatible or she is insecure to you so he wants his guy back.) Well, I think it's too late for her. On your side, I suggest you should not initiate to do something about her ex girlfriend and that's what I also do. I just talk to my boyfriend and not to those people around that ruins our relationship. It's a matter of loyalty and trust. :D

You are so lucky that your boyfriend is trustworthy and won't do anything to hurt your feelings. There are lots of women like that, perhaps because the number of girls in our population is way bigger than boys. They are trying to steal somebody else's man because they can't find one for themselves. Just don't mind them as long as your boyfriend is not doing anything wrong.

Actually, these days if someone wanted the hubby there's a very good chance I'd let her have him. She'd bring him back soon enough, I'm sure. Within a day, if not just a few hours. But I can see where you're coming from. You've got the problem because you have caught a good one. Now, if you were a bum-magnet, that would be a different story. I don't have any advice, as such, but did want to offer congratulations that you've not only landed one of the good fish in the sea, but that he doesn't seem to be in any hurry to get out of your net.

hi:) dealing with boy-friend stealer is never a pleasant one, but even somebody wants to fill your shoes and try to steal or tease your boy-friend still it takes two to cheat, two very willing people, so no one could steal your boy-friend if he wont allow it, and you're lucky because you have a faithful boy-friend that love you and don't give in easily into temptation.

Maybe most girls consider your boyfriend as a huge catch. You have every right to defend your relationship from others who are trying to ruin it. Just trust your guy, don't push him too much he will adore and love you more for it.

I hope no one would try to attempt that. They'd see who I really am and it won't be pleasant. I trust my wife and all but I never trust those who tries to come between us, I will protect our relationship to my last breathe and people should respect their boundaries.

Yeah it is really annoying that someone is bugging with the someone you like. But sometime it is good to know or flattering it is that that someone you like is really that attractive and knowing the fact that he or she is really that in to you, that just feels so good. On the other hand, if that someone that you like is a PLAYER well that is a completely different story already. That will just get into my neves. Well i guesse in the end you just have to trust each other and continuously be inlove with each other. Stay open, but not that completely that will cause you harm, also guide your heart. Stay in love with each other my friend:))