trezege

@trezege (66)

South Africa • Age 40

Joined myLot 13 years ago

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Dealing with Negative people.

chipesterkhan @chipesterkhan (2925) • Philippines 7 Sep 11

In life you will encounter two types of people. The postive ones and the negative ones. And sadly, there seems to be more and more negative people as you grow older. This is because as people grow older, they become...

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trezege I always walk away from negative people, sometimes they deliberatly try to put you down, so you should not waist your time and listern to people like that. The want to pass their misfortune to you or see you fall with them. I try as much to associate myself...

7 Sep 11

Changes

chipesterkhan @chipesterkhan (2925) • Philippines 7 Sep 11

I was with Darwin a friend of mine from way back in the Seminary last night. We had a great conversation catching up with each other. 6 months ago he was promoted as a Quality Assurance Analyst, one of the cushiest jobs...

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trezege It's not always easy to stick to a dream that you aspire to as child. Remember as you grow in life you come across different people and environment that influence your life. So your friend could have been a different person when you met again because the new...

7 Sep 11

Out Done w/my Favorite Grandson.

ANTIQUELADY @ANTIQUELADY (36440) • United States 7 Sep 11

As many of u know i just worship my grandson & do not know what was wrong w/him yesterday when i picked him up from school but he acted like a little butte. I was totally p.o. at him. One other time when he was younger he acted...

grandson

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trezege Maybe you or someone did something different that made him act that way, you need to sit with him and ask him what is the matter. It could also be the fact that he woke up on the wrong side of the bad and was having a bed day, remember even though he is a...

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I'd choose knowledge over money anytime

chipesterkhan @chipesterkhan (2925) • Philippines 7 Sep 11

Some people already know I'm about to leave my job as a Contact Center Manager and they're doubting my decision and my sanity. I don't have any qualms about my salary or the people who work under me. I just think it's time...

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trezege I understand you want to do something that you enjoy in life, but at the same time you have to be realistic. You are taking a risk, living a job that pays you a fixed salary to survive? You said you want to help people but for you to help people you need...

7 Sep 11

How to deal with your bf/gf/husband/wife joining the military?

courtknee525 @courtknee525 (3742) • United States 24 Aug 11

My boyfriend is back to talking about the military and it just makes me a little depressed that he has to do this. The main reason he's doing it is so that he'll be able to pay for school once he's out of the military. Thinking...

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trezege Being away from someone you love can be painful and depressing, however id you decide to follow your man then you have to prepare yourself mentally, physically and emotionally. You might find yourself going to a place where the is a complete cultural shock,...

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ever felt tired of everything?

con909 @con909 (53) • Philippines 22 Aug 11

sometimes i get the feeling of loneliness,emptyness or just being tired of everything i m getting. i guess im not living life to the fullest. T_T sometimes just wanna scream out loud and close my eyes and hope that the world would...

life

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trezege You have inner conflict, you shouldn't be feeling like that unless they are issues that bothers you. You cannot be angry at the world because they world will never change for you , If you want to have peace in this world you need to change the world around you...

22 Aug 11

Control of global warming

Adornado @Adornado (103) • Philippines 22 Aug 11

As a human being what can you contribute to lessen the effects of global warming?

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trezege don't forget to switch off the lights, use public transport or use only one car with your family to reduced air pollution, plant trees where possible. But the truth is human being can only do so much, it's is the big industrial corperation who should do more...

22 Aug 11

Maintaining eye contact with a friend of opposite gender?

padu19 @padu19 (1441) • India 22 Aug 11

Hi, A few days back, I got a new friend in the office. He is good enough to be a friend and we gradually became good friends. He conducts some training programs too. We somehow ended up discussing about eye contact. He was...

eye contact

friends

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trezege I agree with your friends , I eye contact shows how confident and comfortable you are around people. But I do tend to get intimidated when someone talks to me and looks at straight on the face, in a case like that I would normaly look away.

22 Aug 11

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Parents or Girlfriend

silver_sharkbait @silver_sharkbait (158) • Philippines 22 Aug 11

I love my parents. They raised me and teach until what i become right now. They are always there in times of trouble and happiness. I know that they love me so much. They want me to finish my study and help my brother after i...

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trezege You need to sit with your girlfriend and explain to her your situation. whatever decision you make just know that your family comes first, Your parents are they for you during your studies, I am sure they are paying for your studies, so the least you can do is...

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If it comes to loyalty and continuity in the relationship really so bad

dayangsumbi2010 @dayangsumbi2010 (1724) • Indonesia 22 Aug 11

When I look at the divorce rates, I get the creeps. Why do people stay together today not more? Why do so many couples split up? Breaks through the uninhibited hedonism - or how you see it?

loyalty

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trezege I think the problem is that people are very lazy to deal with their marriage problem and choose an easy way out and that is divorce. Many people when the gets married they dn't expect that marriage life will be challenging and they don't prepare themselves for...

22 Aug 11

Why is it that when in a relationship...a girl becomes insecure?

russell_21 @russell_21 (210) • India 22 Aug 11

I have experienced this quiet a few times... when in a relationship a girl is always insecure as she feels the boy may leave her and she often keep as king the same question on and on again... the question is.."you wont leave me...

insecure

leave

marry

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trezege Yes alot, but it's mainly girls who are not comfortable with themselves. Maybe they might feel that they are not pretty enough and some other pretty girl will come around and snatch their man away. I also think it's because man cheat a lot and it's difficult...

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Long distance relationship lasts!

dynzdolina @dynzdolina (381) • Philippines 20 Aug 11

With the advent of technology, communication even from the farthest has become possible and accessible, that is why, I can say love affair can definitely sustain. Of course, couples' attitude towards it has a lot of bearing. They...

long lasting relationship

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trezege Yes long distance relationship can last as long as your partner does not know that you are cheating on them. Let us be realistic for how long can you put up with those lonely nights, temptation can be so high especially if you have that brother or sister next...

22 Aug 11

Friends,I am enjoying the site

suman2008 @suman2008 (683) • India 22 Aug 11

I am thoroughly enjoying the site. I am earning some points for playing lotto,wheel and many other things.Even I earn some point for log in .I usually do this action several times a day. Hope you will enjoy it...

and earn

enjoy

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trezege Are you talking about mylot site? I did not know you could play lotto , how many points are you earning. I am also enjoying mylot sites, socialising and making money at the same time, how great is that

22 Aug 11

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Love ends but good relation still persists.

DoctorDidi @DoctorDidi (7018) • India 20 Aug 11

A lover and his lady of love parted with each other with the promise of maintaining respect for one another and good relation between themselves throughout life. They also promised not to make or pass any adverse remark on the...

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trezege Yes, it's a good example but what if someone one hurt your feelings especially if you loved them so much. What if the relationship ended because someone cheated. If I break up with someone because they did me wrong I would prefer never to talk to them again or...

22 Aug 11

We are Married Now

Ram Bansal @rambansal (574) • India 20 Aug 11

Friends, you have been witness of my love affair with Rajni, and your intellectual contributions in that respect have always been constructive and valuable. So, it becomes my duty to inform you of the latest development in the...

love

marriage

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trezege I am happy for you, but remember marriage life is not easy, you have to work hard if you don't want an early divorce. You are now just in the honeymoon phase.Good luck

22 Aug 11

I had BREAKUP with my Love please help Guys !!!

Princelierocks @Princelierocks (817) • India 21 Aug 11

Hi guys, recently i had a breakup with my GF, i was very happy in my relationship and everything seemed so good to me like golden days, but now due to some family problems and personal things, our relationship is no more, My GF...

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trezege Stay strong brother. Just look at it as one of those bad phases that everyone go through in life. You will find that a couple of years or even months later it will be a story that you will be telling your friends and will laugh about it. The is always light at...

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Just another manic Monday!

Toni @toniganzon (72281) • Philippines 21 Aug 11

Well not anymore. Just few weeks ago i discussed how i despise Mondays and wished it were still Sunday. Now i discovered something to make my Mondays worth while. I've maid it a Me Monday day! Now what does it mean? It's the...

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trezege Good for you, you are the only one who can turn a dull day into an exciting day.Monday indeed is the worse day of the week because you have to change a routine, from parting or relaxing during the weekend to focussing and getting some serious work done (that...

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