If it comes to loyalty and continuity in the relationship really so bad

I am now married for more than 30 years, I was quite young then. We went through highs and lows together and have overcome many things. My two children son / daughter have learned something decent, have now also been married and lead a good marriage. I must guess the marriages of children from an intact family because they have witnessed better keep the fight for a relationship and you also give up a lot. Just look at the families in which most children grow up today, it is offered them nothing and lived. Given nothing for their future.

I think if women had previously had the opportunity to stand on its own feet after a divorce (job, single parent, not socially ostracized), the divorce rate would have been just as high before! Most women is hardly an alternative left but to persevere in a broken marriage .... Today it is easier divorce .. .. overdraft new apartment ... ... but that's the consequence: Is not it more honest? and loyalty today and what the earlier concerns: The jokes from the kids that look like the gas man and the mailman are very old .... and the stories of tenants I've noticed as a child ... infidelity was more than less common due to lack of opportunities ...

This all occurs because human nature is never satisfied with what he had owned. Human nature can not receive the deficiency. Human nature is selfish. Human nature that always feels right. Human nature always feel powerful. The relationship becomes bad, when there is one, which does not fit.

After marrying my experience, most too early and too young. Man knows not, and the initial share common interests. The financial aspect also plays a large role often leads to strife and discord. My former husband after the marriage I had believed was his property and wanted me to come with its provisions. Now I live for 25 years without a marriage certificate in an equal relationship and that works quite well.

for some, the loyalty and sincerity, and so on simply nothing like many young people today only want to have fun and there are not more not many people able to make a long-term relationship which I think is sad.

This is a problem of communication! The couples talk to each other but no longer! Looking much rather what is "BETTER" on the Internet! The pressure on women by Deceiving PERFECT BEAUTY is getting bigger, there are so many reasons why couples are separated! This is all much more "technical" to become the man comes with his own inventions, but not more clear! BETTER must be, and then even if the partner needs to be replaced, no matter the main thing is BETTER!

I think very little of this lachrymose cultural pessimism that pervades every time the good old values ??seem to be the game. the rising divorce rates are a little fit for medium to long term to find in comparison that it would be "about faithfulness and continuity in the relationship really so bad." Compare the average duration times in the last years before a 100th because you will not find too much deviation. before the men were usually much older, when he for marriage came, the life expectancy was much shorter, two world wars have, of course, also had a positive decision statistics on - in short, the divorce court has ran more often, because the gravediggers have ran so late. previously you had to endure not just the average as long as it is today. But this is only one aspect! If you then speak of loyalty and continuity, which is not a one way street. loyalty and continuity are worth not only the in standards compared to other flip, but also act against himself, I dare even the assertion that a man could once rely on the fact that his young wife no loyalty and continuity against itself to put the tag. they need not necessarily - with a little luck, the old gave after 15-20 years from the spoon and then she was "the widow funny" to be. So should it come to separations in the first years actually more common relationship, then that speaks well for the enormous increases in measured loyal to themselves at the women. and last but not least: I want to assert that today as many happy couples are longstanding, as in the past - not only are the newly married often.

I feel that the few most common reasons why people split up is because of communication problems, the relationship getting stale or boring and abuse. Of all of them i think that abuse is the worst. Sometimes in relationships i also quarrel with my partner because of these problems (except abuse of course!). So i guess these 3 should be it.

I think the problem is that people are very lazy to deal with their marriage problem and choose an easy way out and that is divorce. Many people when the gets married they dn't expect that marriage life will be challenging and they don't prepare themselves for what to come

A relationship is as fragile as an egg. Its need support and care from both partners.. If one of them is not happy and does not voice out the reasons, then communication problems arise. There has to be constant touch and communication for a relationship to work. Its hard job but worthy the effort.