I had BREAKUP with my Love please help Guys !!!

My ex and I broke up last year after being in a 4 year steady relationship. Yeah it's true that moving on is really difficult and it really takes time. Honestly speaking, I don't read any articles or book regarding moving on :P There's just too many suggestions and I don't know which to take :P Sometimes the suggestion from one source is totally the opposite of another so instead of bothering myself reading, I simply listen to my friends' advice :D I don't necessarily follow all of them but at least I got the advice first hand and from people who actually experienced breaking up. Try to discover new things and meet new people. I used to hate travelling alone but when I decided to move on, I found that travelling along or/and with people whom are strangers to you helps a lot. I met new people and learned quite a lot of things when I traveled alone :) You should also keep yourself busy and always have people surround you. Friends are good companions but meeting new people are better :D When I broke up with my ex, I never threw our pictures immediately. I kept them where I can easily access it. Whenever I feel like I'm "OK" I'd take a look at the pictures. If I still feel hurt/angry/sad, I still keep the picture. Until the time that I can look at it and smile or remember only good things without feeling hurt, that's the only time I'll throw them away :) Good luck on moving on! It'll be really difficult and a long rough road but you can make it :) If you need anyone to talk to, just add me up as a friend and PM me :D Wishing you all the best :)

Oh, that must be so hurtful for you. You've mentioned her patents was pressuring her for marriage, and you're not planning to marry her? That's the only reason why you broke up because of her family? If you really love her you must secure her that you'l marry her soon, maybe you didn't mention to her about you marital plans and she is disappointed of you. Just take things easy win her heart back by sayingw ords you want to marry her soon.

I know that hurts. I am sorry. The only thing I can suggest is, give it time. Keep yourself busy and maybe things will work themselves out.

Just accept that there are things in life that is beyond our control. Change is the constant thing here on earth. Even if you think no one can separate you might change in a few years. And that is life. If there is no chance to restore the relationship then accept the reality. I know it is hard. I know it will take sometime, days, months even years for you to heal that pain. Cry if you want to cry, be sad if you want to be but don't forget that you still have your life. You still have yourself and each day is a new day, a new beginning... there are still a lot of opportunities ahead. Your trial will pass. Hang out with friends, be close with your family and try praying to God. I think they can help you in that painful time to move on. Just think that maybe you break up because someone out there, better than her is meant for you.

That's so sad.. I'm sorry. To part ways with your loved one is really hard to accept especially when you're not thinking that you would lose him/her one day. I think, the best way you could do is to find ways to divert your attention. Try to go out with some of your friends. Try to have some fun. If she's really for you, she would come back to you sooner or later. If she's not for you, well, I should say that you just wish her good luck and continue your life. I'm sure, you will meet someone out there. I hope you will feel fine soon.

I understand what you feel. Fix it while it can be fix but if not just move on. I also had a break-up 1 year ago. We had almost 5 years of relationship but it all end nothing. But now i move on and continue to live. Take that as an inspiration for your next relationship.

If you really love her why not talk with her family and settle the matter with them. If her family wants her to get married , then why not marry her in the first place. If you really love her and you do not want to lose her...do your best and prove how much you loved her. have a good day jaiho®

Its better that you get yourself some time of alone or with your friends to share of your feelings it would relieve you of your burden, there are some things in life that is just not in your hand, its better to let of the past and just move on there is a vast life out there for you to live, dont get complicated over things and focus what ahead of you now and work on it, when its time you will meet someone/

I'm sorry to hear about that. When I broke up with my first boy friend, I was really depressed during that time. I can't even eat, I only eat a spoonful of rice and just take lemonade as my drink. What I do during that time is visit some friends and continuously talking to a lot of people. I remove things that will remind me of him. I made new friends. I watched a lot of movies and tv series. Whenever I'm starting to think of him and what happened, I immediately dispersed the thought. I didn't allow myself to think of him that much. It was really hard but I prayed to God and He help me heal from that sadness and hurt.

Nobody can help u except for yourself. We can give u lots of advice but u must be willing to listen and move on in life. It's alright for u to get in the slumps for a few days, but after which, u have to get out of it and start life afresh. Your world and life does not only evolve around gf, it's about your family and friends, job, career and future. Losing her, is not losing everything u have now.

Stay strong brother. Just look at it as one of those bad phases that everyone go through in life. You will find that a couple of years or even months later it will be a story that you will be telling your friends and will laugh about it. The is always light at the end of the tunnel. Beleive me

Is her family pressuring to get married with you?

think of the consequences if you continue being like that.. mind over matter! spoil and take charge of your life.

I sorry to hear that. Misfortune might be a blessing in diguise. Go ahead, the better is waiting for you.