i love you / i love you not

@chelsit (105)
United States
August 18, 2011 6:42pm CST
At what point in a relationship, do you feel it is ok to say those three little words.
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6 responses
@Awinds (2468)
• United States
19 Aug 11
I think late is best. Real love cant be formed after only two or three dates. Attraction can grow, but love is a far more fragile creature. A careful but lasting love will takes it time to learn of and full appreciate the other person. I feel it is only appropriate to utter the three rose red words after the couple has known each other long enough to really know each other. Mutter those words to early and they become a trivial phrase.
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@tiina05 (2317)
• Philippines
19 Aug 11
hey! I think you got what it really means! I love your idea and it really make sense. But I am not saying that others dont have idea at all. I just agreed on what you have said.
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@Awinds (2468)
• United States
19 Aug 11
Well thanks! I do think waiting until is really in love to say it is best. :)
@pbbbsra (1214)
• Philippines
19 Aug 11
You say it when your heart tells you it should be said... When the feelings are too much and you feel like you will erupt.
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@dfollin (25343)
• United States
19 Aug 11
I don't know it depends on the situation.Are you in a relationship of commitment?Is the other person stable enough to handle those three words? Can you trust this person in a "I love you" relationship? You need to think about these things before you can decide that yourself.
@eLsMarie (4345)
• Philippines
19 Aug 11
I think that your question's a bit hanging. Can you elaborate it more chelsit?
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@nurseclare (2209)
• Philippines
20 Aug 11
I think it's normal to feel that way, we're normal so we can feel love and hate. As long as we can express our feelings without hurting the person much.
@JL_Beldua (102)
16 Oct 11
For me, three words not enough to be accompanied also by doing, so that really loves me, and hopefully when people said i love you should of from the heart.