chelsit

@chelsit (105)

United States • Age 45

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racism is alive and well

chelsit @chelsit (105) • United States 8 Sep 11

I have had friends come to me, because they have been racially profiled, but I have never had first hand experience with racism before. That is until a few days days when I went on a job interview and the interviewer asked me...

people of colour

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Dealing with a difficult boss.

chelsit @chelsit (105) • United States 31 Aug 11

I have been working at the same job for about 6 years now and my boss and I usually got along pretty good, but recently he is on a short fuse. Everything happens in the office I am to blame no matter how small and...

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chelsit Thanks for the response Choybel. I think you are right, there was a rumor gong around the office about marital problems.

31 Aug 11

Dealing with a difficult boss.

chelsit @chelsit (105) • United States 31 Aug 11

I have been working at the same job for about 6 years now and my boss and I usually got along pretty good, but recently he is on a short fuse. Everything happens in the office I am to blame no matter how small and...

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how many "best friends" is too much?

chelsit @chelsit (105) • United States 26 Aug 11

I was reading a blog spot recently and a yong lady was celebrating her birthday, and under the caption of the photo (with her and nine girls), was the word me and my best friends. This had me thinking, can one person have so...

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HONESTY IN MEN "A pipe dream"

chelsit @chelsit (105) • United States 24 Aug 11

Why do guys feel the need to lie to women, even when it is most unnecessary. I am asking because a friend of mine have met two guys already this month and both asked her out, calling, texting and everything, but after a few dates...

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i love you / i love you not

chelsit @chelsit (105) • United States 18 Aug 11

At what point in a relationship, do you feel it is ok to say those three little words.

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When is a child old enough

chelsit @chelsit (105) • United States 18 Aug 11

Most parents are so secure in their neighborhood, and the mistaken belief that young children can somehow fend for themselves that they allow their children ages five and up to walk home from school/camp/friends house by...

children safety

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Bad Break Up

chelsit @chelsit (105) • United States 18 Aug 11

How do you move on from a breakup, when you and your spouse were together for 11 years. How do you begin to put the pieces of your life back together?.

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Overthinking

chelsit @chelsit (105) • United States 18 Aug 11

Why do we spend so much time and energy focusing on what we do not have, instead of focusing on the things we do have.

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What should i do about this Jokester friend?

Rosekitty @Rosekitty (19368) • San Marcos, Texas 29 Jul 09

Here's the plot..lol. He comes in to my store everyday and procedes to tell me a new joke which are funny, but since its my store and i can't just leave, and i may be with a customer, What would you do? Here's the latest...

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chelsit Just do what I do and everytime you see that person coming just be busy, pack something on a shelf, jus try keeping busy.

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after you have a baby --can you get your body back??

bookreadermom08 @bookreadermom08 (5614) • United States 28 Jul 09

A call to mothers out there... I have 2 kids, and I started my family later... I am in my 30s and I have always been a smaller figure woman...not that I am big by any means... but after I had my second child I have noticed that...

working out after having a baby

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chelsit You can absolutely get your body back , you have have to remember to start eating for one instead of for two like you used to, and don't forget walking is your friend.

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when is the best time to make a will?

chelsit @chelsit (105) • United States 25 Jul 09

I think the minute you have kids or own any type of property, a will needs to be done,especially when kids are involved.

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how old is too old to go back to school

chelsit @chelsit (105) • United States 23 Jul 09

I believe we need to just go to high scool and college finish up all our schooling and then get to work, but more and more I am hearing about people taking time off for months and even years. My friends mom had decided to go...

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Is it okay to date a someone who is 10 years older than you. I'm 20, n he's 30.

classicelfryoko @classicelfryoko (109) • United States 21 Jul 09

Okay soo.. He actually found me on myspace, and doesn't remember where or whatever. We live really close actually, just a city over. He's been txting me stuff like "when are you gonna come and watch a movie with me? We can...

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chelsit Age is nothing but a numeber honey, if you are attracted to that person, and you guys have a connection then go for it.

22 Jul 09

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Why do some men fall for women older than their age?

bluangel628 @bluangel628 (383) • Philippines 21 Jul 09

I didn't quite to get a straight answer on this one that's why I'm asking it now. My brother had very interesting taste for ladies older than he is. And now had a son with girl even older than I am. But of course, I don't really...

love despite the age

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chelsit I guess because older women have more experience, and are more serious than younger girls. Some younger women are not ready to settle down they want to go out and experience the world party and have a good time, but older women have been there done that so...

21 Jul 09

fresh love

chelsit @chelsit (105) • United States 21 Jul 09

Do you remember the first taste of love, when you met someone and it was like instant chemistry, your heart keeps beating really fast, your palms gets clammy and you cant stop babbling.. That my friend is called love or lust if...

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