chelsit

@chelsit (105)

United States • Age 45

Joined myLot 16 years ago

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Discussions (37)

chelsit's Discussions

racism is alive and well

chelsit @chelsit (105) • United States 8 Sep 11

I have had friends come to me, because they have been racially profiled, but I have never had first hand experience with racism before. That is until a few days days when I went on a job interview and the interviewer asked me...

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3 people

Dealing with a difficult boss.

chelsit @chelsit (105) • United States 31 Aug 11

I have been working at the same job for about 6 years now and my boss and I usually got along pretty good, but recently he is on a short fuse. Everything happens in the office I am to blame no matter how small and...

boss

job

job security

4 responses

how many "best friends" is too much?

chelsit @chelsit (105) • United States 26 Aug 11

I was reading a blog spot recently and a yong lady was celebrating her birthday, and under the caption of the photo (with her and nine girls), was the word me and my best friends. This had me thinking, can one person have so...

friends

friendship

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2 people

HONESTY IN MEN "A pipe dream"

chelsit @chelsit (105) • United States 24 Aug 11

Why do guys feel the need to lie to women, even when it is most unnecessary. I am asking because a friend of mine have met two guys already this month and both asked her out, calling, texting and everything, but after a few dates...

3 responses

i love you / i love you not

chelsit @chelsit (105) • United States 18 Aug 11

At what point in a relationship, do you feel it is ok to say those three little words.

love

relationship

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2 people

When is a child old enough

chelsit @chelsit (105) • United States 18 Aug 11

Most parents are so secure in their neighborhood, and the mistaken belief that young children can somehow fend for themselves that they allow their children ages five and up to walk home from school/camp/friends house by...

children safety

good parenting

parents

3 responses

Bad Break Up

chelsit @chelsit (105) • United States 18 Aug 11

How do you move on from a breakup, when you and your spouse were together for 11 years. How do you begin to put the pieces of your life back together?.

3 responses

Overthinking

chelsit @chelsit (105) • United States 18 Aug 11

Why do we spend so much time and energy focusing on what we do not have, instead of focusing on the things we do have.

9 responses

when is the best time to make a will?

chelsit @chelsit (105) • United States 25 Jul 09

I think the minute you have kids or own any type of property, a will needs to be done,especially when kids are involved.

family

life

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1 person

how old is too old to go back to school

chelsit @chelsit (105) • United States 23 Jul 09

I believe we need to just go to high scool and college finish up all our schooling and then get to work, but more and more I am hearing about people taking time off for months and even years. My friends mom had decided to go...

life

school

2 responses

fresh love

chelsit @chelsit (105) • United States 21 Jul 09

Do you remember the first taste of love, when you met someone and it was like instant chemistry, your heart keeps beating really fast, your palms gets clammy and you cant stop babbling.. That my friend is called love or lust if...

love

5 responses

would you stay in a relationship if your spouse cheated on you

chelsit @chelsit (105) • United States 14 Jul 09

I was listening to the Wendy Williams show on the radio today and a woman was very upset that her husbands mistress called her and told her that she a coworker of the husbands was having an affair with this womans husband. The...

marriage

relationship

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1 person

is it ok to reward kids for good grades

chelsit @chelsit (105) • United States 10 Jul 09

My spouse likes to giv the kids little gifts for passing exams r getting an excellent report card. Do you thin this is a good practice? I don't want my kids doing good in school just for a few toys and trinkets, I wan them to know...

kids

school

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2 people

found a survey site where that is reall legit

chelsit @chelsit (105) • United States 10 Jul 09

I came acrss this survey site and decided to give it a try and it's a good thing did, just received my firs check in the mail for $20 you can earn anywhere from 1.50 to 5.00 per survey. I will gladly share this site with al my...

money

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2 people

hate when people tell me how to raise my kids

chelsit @chelsit (105) • United States 9 Jul 09

It seems everywhere I go people are giving me advise on how to raise my kids from strangers to family members, they want to tell me what school to send them to, what to do if they get a cold and even what sort of clothes to have...

kids

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2 people

have you ever had to make he decision to put your pet down

chelsit @chelsit (105) • United States 8 Jul 09

My family has had rex an american bulldog for a few years now and he is currently blind in one eye and now the doctor says that his limbs and kidneys are failing nd we shuld consder putting him down. I am very reluctant to...

pet

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1 person

do you actually count calories before buying

chelsit @chelsit (105) • United States 7 Jul 09

I never used to do this but with the recent statistics showing obesity growing in America I have started looking at calorie and fat content on roducts when I am buying them, I even do this for my kids.

food

4 responses

has anyone made money from triond

chelsit @chelsit (105) • United States 5 Jul 09

I joined this site a week ago, and have written numerous short storied poems etc, but my account balance till shows zero. Has anyone ever tried this, is it for real?

money

2 responses

how many of you moniter what your kids watch on tv

chelsit @chelsit (105) • United States 4 Jul 09

I have always monitered my kids television intake, I put privacy blocks on most channels and make sure they don't watch television too much, but I understand not all parents are of the same mind, like my cousin she claims that she...

kids

life

2 responses

if you say your friends spouse cheating, would you tell

chelsit @chelsit (105) • United States 2 Jul 09

My sister told me to keep my mouth shut because it is non of our business but I can't help feeling guilty becuase I saw him with his tongue down some chicks throat, that cannot be explained away, but would she apreciate me telling...

relationship

6 responses