Will you forgive ?
By aweins
@aweins (4199)
India
August 21, 2011 4:59am CST
if someone has done really bad in your life and you because of that person had suffered a lot, what will you do? will you just leave everything and move on, or will you leave the place , try to move on and keep in mind to take the revenge? what will you do? Do you believe in forgiving someone? simple mistakes are different but something done wrong or distrustful, is bad. i cannot take that. i can hurt someone and to be true , i am a person, that if someone had done really bad, i will not spare him or her, i will take him or her right , left, center very well. i know, more than half will give lectures on do not do this, or that, and its wrong, why do we do wrong and all that cr*p, well i do not believe. you should give that person a chance to feel the same way, what he or she had made you feel some time back. is it not?
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10 responses
@waflay (2737)
• Nairobi, Kenya
21 Aug 11
I cannot forgive someone who deliberately hurts me or takes what is mine without my permission. Such a person should not be spared in any way because if you do, the person will take even more. I have a heart to forgive very simple mistakes but I can not tolerate a gold-digger who pretends while having hidden agendas.
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@sanapal_bhar (213)
• India
21 Aug 11
i say that ,i will forgive him ,if i believe he has changed.i had faced a situation and i forgive him,for me doing nothing is the best thing to do than taking revenge.everyone makes mistake ,but a person with good heart will forgive soon.
@rajeev075 (1961)
• India
21 Aug 11
You are right i too not spare one and i am man of revenge but till now i had not taken any but if i got the chance i donot leave the things go many time the one who did bad to me had came to have sorry and so but that after they realkize the mistake and then i say oh now you fell what i was felling
@jricky1 (6800)
• China
22 Aug 11
I may forgive cause sometimes someone done something bad for us but i think we should live better so as to give her back.If we just feel angry and just keep it in our heart,but finally,the victim is still us,nobody is perfect,so just learn to be open-hearted and forget,forgive.It's the best way to live a better yourself.
@eynjel_1988 (330)
• Philippines
22 Aug 11
Hi. Honestly speaking? I can't easily forgive especially when that person caused me so much pain. I will just let time to heal the wounds and maybe when that time comes, I can say that I will forgive that person.
It is natural for us human to feel bad for those person who hurt us but definitely, there will be a time that you realize that if God himself forgive those people who made him suffered a lot just to save us from our sin, why we shouldn't do the same when we are only human?
Everybody do deserve a second chance, indeed. But do not force yourself to forgive that person immediately you might only fool yourself. There will come a time that you can say to yourself that you are ready to forgive that person. have a great day!
@pickwick (858)
• India
21 Aug 11
Hi aweins.What you do comes back to you.This is the rule of the universe.Even if you don't take the wrong doer to task they will get eventually what they deserve.But at the same time i wouldn't say its wrong if you don't forgive.Its your choice.But revenge is a feeling just like carrying a piece of coal in your hand to hurl at other person.Again nothing it is not wrong to take revenge but I wouldn't love to carry that coal in my hand and burn my hand too.I would rather stay away from that person and ask the universe to help me.
@globaldoc (858)
• Philippines
21 Aug 11
For me, I think forgiving is easy. It is not really difficult to have a forgiving eart. It is the forgetting that is really hard. Well, we have been taught to forgive. I do that. But the sad truth is, I do not forget. I will not be giving an equal chance to those who have intentionally offended me in the past. Well, I say intentional because I look into the heart and the purpose of the offense. If it were an offense without any malice or purpose of offending me, then it is just fine with me. However, if there is a bit of trace that the offense was done intentionally and with purpose, then I will have to remember it, since it might possibly happen again. I may forgive. I may talk to that person anytime. However, the closeness and the trust would never be the same anymore.
@clicker27 (55)
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21 Aug 11
it's easy to say that I will forgive, It's easy to say that I will just forget. But it's not easy at all. Still, forgiveness is the only right answer. Holding a grudge is like holding your own chains while letting the one on the other end drag you around. You must let go for your own good. It may not be easy and you may not get it done in one sitting but nevertheless it's a must for freedom.
@koperty3 (1876)
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21 Aug 11
If someone was dangerous to my family I will never forgive and never forget. My family is everything for me and my partner is the most precious person in my life. If someone would hurt him in purpose I would wait for taking my revenge on this person. If you do hurt people deliberately you have to be certain that you will be punished for this.
