If I should love again...

I think you answered your own question there.. you probably could love again, but never as much as you loved your husband, because as you said, your son is your main priority, and your husband will ALWAYS be his father, and always be the one that gave you him.. so no one else will ever be able to take that place, which means they will never ever take that place in your heart. However, this doesn’t mean you will never love again, because if a man came into your life that treated your son with love and care and respect, then you would love him, for loving your son. Plus, you are married to your husband, he is clearly your soulmate.. and if you lost your soulmate, you wouldn’t be able to love in the same way again, not to the same degree, but you could be happy I think! :)

Toni to my mind it us purely a hypothetical question. The answer to your question could both be positive and negative. I wish such situation does not arise. You loving someone else, other than your hubby, will depend upon your own will power, mental toughness and emotional IQ.

Hi toni! I thought this discussion came up because of the song If I Should Love Again. Only you can say if you will be able to love again after your husband. I think it will be easy for you to love someone if that person will love your son since your son is your priority. But I guess loving someone is not as easy as that. I just think a person will always be capable to love somebody even after losing someone dear or even after a very painful experience. Happy myLotting!

if i will love again, which as of never cross my mind. i too have a son and i guess i will just evolve with my son. but i can not promise anything. if i lose my wife i guess i will love again when my son is already spending more of his time outside. i am responding in the reality way of life but still i do not know if i could love someone again. i dont know if i can find someone who atleast will come close with my wife. me and my wife is perfectly fit.

I also do not know the answer to this question the only thing i know right now is no one can replace him in my life..and like you if ever time will come that such will happen, i want someone who will love my kids more than he will love me...but i am not really wishing my hubby will die or something..hahah i do not know what to do if ever he will leave me first. I would be incapacitated or something.

When we are looking for a new love, it is very important that the next person we love can accept our children. Our children is part of us and they cannot just simply take them away from us. It not just when our partner have pass away, but also for divorcee and single mothers. I had a cousin who had a daughter. She wasn't married yet. So when she decided to get married to other person that is not her daughter father, she really make sure the guy willing to accept her daughter as well. She always include her daughter in their family activity so it is very important for her that her future husband willing to include her daughter in their family. Now my cousin got married and she had another daughter with her husband. Now they are a family of four and whenever I saw their picture on Facebook, they really look happy. Her husband also happy with my cousin first daughter eventhough she was not his own daughter.

Hi toni We all can love again. When you had only the hubby, didnt you love others - when your son arrived, he gets the larger share :). The same with almost all. We all love many people at the same time though there are some boundaries and limitations. We cannot have everyone as hubby or wife, everyone as father and mother... I feel that we have the capacity to love each and everyone on the planet... just that there are cells in our hearts... each one occupied with one. As love can never be quantified and measured in terms, so it is quite difficult to say that I love someone more than the other. But yes, there are some people who are above all others (like hubby, wife, son, daughter) and they get the most or at least more of the love that we have within us. Sorry, I am unable to express these thoughts better but I think you get what I want to convey here... I wished I was a better writer who could pen out all the thoughts like flowing water.

Hi Toni! Yes we can love again, and while the loving again at times will not measure up to the past, it certainly can be of comfort, this all comes with time. I was divorced and never though I would love again and or allow anyone to love. I did make my children a priority and did not even date for 6 years after the divorce. When I finally met someone I truly loved, and introduced him to my children, they were very happy for me. I suppose allowing enough time is what helped for us.

love is always there..its always around.. hopefully someday you will find it again..find the right person.. and hope ur son can accept the guy too..its hard ..but love is always everywhere.. have fun/.

you will meet that you love and love you wish for you

I think your son will only love his dad. I expect you never become a widow. Try to watch other films like as Iron Man or Spider Man.

I am glad that you have put your son as your first priority, but it can be difficult when you find someone that loves you as much as you love them, but your son refuse to accept your partner. In this situation what are you going to do, are you going to put the interest of your son before that of your hapiness

if you love again you must consider your son since we are not talking about your own life. For now, your every decision should fit to the need and future of your son. if you love again you must not choose just according to your perspective but the two of you should choose cause after all if you change your life his life would also change.