Get Back Up, Dust Myself off, Start all over again?

YES!!! Now this is the Hatley we all have come to know so well and love. What did you mean you were planning on quitting. HA! We will not allow you to do this, we love you Mrs. Hatley, we would never want to see you sad let alone leave. Don't forget when you told me about your past struggles and this should continually remind you that nothing will stop Hatley again. I am sure it was just the moment of what was happening and now back to business, and or I mean back to having fun with your friends. Don't worry about my having lost anything my dear hatley, I am not here for the earnings. I see them as a bonus for having fun amongst friends and or helping members. I am thankful to have a great deal of free time so I choose to spend it here with you and the many wonderful myLot members! Carry on! lol

I feel sad really how much responses are on your discussion and I asked to HWG friend please explain me your discussion..but I am here only due to some mylotter and always wait when they came and join my discussion so please please never leave it if you love me.... You are right and this words is helpful for me quitters never win and winners never quit wow! I want to see you or HWG friend at least once in day..Madam read today funny discussion on toilet no water is coming in the tap when you are in toilet lots of mylotter are enjoying there... and I started daily one funny discussion so you will read and laugh and remember me...

Respond at your own risk! That is what we expect from other mylotters. And being here for many years does not give us any special privilege. No special immunity accorded to seniors as ignorant of mylot laws excuses no one. Earning and learning are the reasons why we remain united in mylot and quitting should never cross our minds when discussions get deleted. It is but part of mylot challenges.

Hi Hatley, don't quit us. You are a good friend. We specially me don't want to loose you. Don't be disappointed.Your mom is right. You will be winner.

Hello Mrs.Hatley, your spirit is great. many of us here make a mistake but that is not a reason to quit. with this mistake we can learn and take a lesson so we can do better in the future. those who are success can stand up after fail..

Woooo aunty what a thought quitters never win and winners never quit I like this words..and thanks for sharing..yes I got a notification but I know this was not your mistake..and you are more elder than us so not apology...only blessings are required... have a nice day...

Hi, Hatley.. We all make mistakes and some of my discussions have been deleted too. I have become a bit wiser dureing the years, I hope.. Wish you a great day and many nice contacts with people here!

I'd miss you if you quit but that is totally up to you dear. We all know the risks of responding to certain things and we do it anyway so that's on us too, not just you. I have responded to things written and thought, well this ones likely to be deleted but I'm answering my friends post anyway. So that was on me. Yes, if we take a chance and write things it's on us too. But many times I think it's a slip up and people just don't think what they are writing is a rant or they forget to add a question when writing, that's all part of it. Then again some just need an answer to something bothering them, and we are there for them just as they would be for us. So I wouldn't worry about it if I were you, okay?

This is the second time in a few weeks that I thought of just quitting mylot. The first was when a discussion I started that was quite popular and had 30 plus responses with lots of conversions was deleted. The second was this weekend when many of my responses were deleted because the discussions they were under were deleted. But I guess I am still here because of the friends I have here on mylot. I am now very wary of starting discussions and even responding to discussions because it seems it is not clear cut which have broken the rules. I guess I would try to carry on as long as I can manage it. So I know how you feel and it is admirable that you have found the strength to carry on.

Hi, Hatley! I'm so sorry it hasn't been the best myLot day for you, but having had the same thing happen to me once, I can definitely feel your pain, so to speak. No, absolutely do not give up. It's just a fact of life, and these things happen! Your mom was right! I consider lessons like these in my life to be some of the most valuable. I've made mistakes at work that cost a lot of money, and I mean, a lot! While I felt awful for them, there's nothing I could do after the fact; the deed was done. However, I learned valuable lessons from it, and was also very thankful the costly mistake was made at work rather than at home. In other words, the company could afford my mistake much more than I could lol. Yes, you're exactly right - the subject line in this discussion says it all. Please do "get back up, dust yourself off..." and keep going, my friend! While you have one discussion that didn't go as planned, you have so many excellent discussions that are true thought-provokers and priceless experiences for the rest of us. This scenario happens to the best of us, so I certainly hope through this discussion you'll be encouraged to continue on earning through myLot. It's time to stop feeling bad for those who lost money on myLot for responding to the discussion because it was an honest mistake, and those who cannot get over it and hold grudges as a result aren't true friends in the first place. The same thing could just as easily happen to any one of us! Take care and happy posting, my friend!

Hey sweetie. What;s this then? Wait, i'll go and get the vodka and you go get your party dress, okay. When life throws you lemons sweetie, we use it for that vodka of mine. Now smile and keep your head up.

Hello Mrs Hatley, I missed your last discussions, so I lost nothing... from your discussion, but deletions happen everyday and I don't worry about a response or a comment deleted. I began with a discussion which is already deleted today, and it did not affected my mood. It is strange but I was writing to a friend before you began this discussion that all these deletions could affect new members, but I was far to believe that they could affect the most senior member at myLot. It would be too sad if you were quitting for a little "accident".

Even I made such silly mistake yesterday and lose my first discussion here.. And I feel sorry for all who participates in it. Yes winners never quit. We can always give another opportunity to them for more earning. Best of luck to me and to you and to all.

no need to apologize Miss Hatley, not so sure though if I was a victim of that discussion you were referring to. Yes "quitters never win and winners never quit" I like that too, it was the motto of one of the most popular sweepstakes ticket outlets here before the computerized lotto took over. Don't quit , it's not only you who need to earn but most of us, go go go

Quit be damned or I'll dust you off. We all make mistakes and we need Hatley so end of silly talk Please. We can all help one another by rating our discussions and sadly I know a lot of people just simply don't bother. I have and will always rate all my responses with a + and for the ones that are not worthy I just do nothing, skip to the next one. Anyway hope all the dust is gone my dear, have a great week and Take Care.

Oh Hatley, don't quit, everyone makes mistakes.. So stick around, who else besides a mutual dog lover, can I have a conversation with in the same post for days or weeks on end?????

I was sad for you it was deleted but I do not now why! You are like me. I wipe away my tears and then just face the situation and just get on with it. don't spend another thought on it Hatley. Just move on

I don't know the details of what happened but I have to say I admire your willingness to come forth and apologize. You have a huge number of posts here..almost 45k and that is quite a contribution to this site. It's numbers like those that encourage others. Your apology was very respectable and all can relate to having made a mistake.

Hi Mrs. Hatley! Yep, you are right about quitters and winners. Don't let some hateful comments spoil your day, or the fact that the discussion got deleted. Your friends are here for you, dear one. I didn't see that discussion. I would have defended you, had I seen it. have a good day. We need you here Hatley. You've become a grandmotherly friend to many of us here.. always the voice of reason!

Hi Hatley.. Im sure you are quite apologetic for your actions *or shall I say words* and to be fair..Im sure they know it was not out of being malicious to them personally.. besides, you have recognized your mistake and have shown that you are sorry.. Im sure they will forgive you especially seeing as you have been here for such a long time.. (",)