I hate my past.......
By zhawee
@zhawee (873)
Philippines
September 16, 2011 5:18pm CST
i have a past the really what to forget it. I hate so much to remember it..they are nightmares to me.. why did return back in my mind. I repent why i met them. my friend told me need to move on or to forget the past. but how it easily to tell this way, but its always remind me my past..I hate this feeling anymore.. Did you experience this you want to forget the past but you can`t because they back in your mind.
12 responses
@jessicabiadora (44)
• Philippines
17 Sep 11
yes and its really really painful!!!it takes time before you get used to it but im pretty sure someday every time you remember about it you will just simply smile and say "i am better now"...my boyfriend for 4 years leave me and marry another woman just because of his ambition,its really painful and i don't know what i am going to do it takes years before i used to it and i am also thankful because i overcome all of it even though how painful it takes...just be strong and don't forget always to pray!!!let all the pain washed out by your faith and let god be the center of your life...godbless!!!
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@sinawaliboy (271)
• Philippines
17 Sep 11
The past will keep on haunting us no matter what happens. It is already a part of us that we can never erase. But we need not hold on to these past events. If we do, it will just bury us in the past and we can never move forward. Letting go is not something easy and it is painful. You have to take baby steps in doing so.
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@pramodppk (112)
• India
17 Sep 11
Why to hate past? past is past, we call the time as past present and future but that is only a time. life is also a time in this life we cant go back be don't keep your mind in past or future be in present we cant do any thing to past things and do not know how and what will be in future so just be in present and do what u have to to today and at this time, if u cant practice meditation is a simple way to be in present
@pahak627 (4558)
• Philippines
17 Sep 11
All of us have past and they're part of growing up. There are those experiences that we hated. It happened to me there are so many things I did during my childhood that I regretted too. But I tried to think of them that those were just part of my growing up and I moved on. Try to do it too.
@rod977 (118)
• Portugal
16 Sep 11
I hate ome things in my past, several things actually. But they're not exactly nightmares. Some things that I did in my childhood. I really regret those things. But are little things on our past is what builds our personality as we are now. I don't know what is your past but try not to think about that all the time. Try focusing in some thing that you want to do in your live and goals that you want to achieve in your life. Move on. The future is the only path to follow and we can't do nothing about it. :)
Rod
@zhawee (873)
• Philippines
20 Sep 11
thank you u understand me.. yes it easy to say forget the past, but im trying to much but its not work it.everytime i see that people or people involve in my past.all my past remind me again and im so getting dissPOINTED AND GET EASILY TO ANGER. but i thankful to you guys..I pray that my past can wash out.
@GemmaR (8517)
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17 Sep 11
I think that everybody hates certain things from their past, but obviously those who have had worse things happen during their lives are bound to have a worse time of it than the majority of people. You should also remember that although you might have been through a lot in your past, it is those things that have made you the person you are today; both the good things and the bad things alike. You should embrace your past and remember that you have the power to use your past to choose your own future pathway through life.
@deedee328 (1122)
• United States
17 Sep 11
I believe that you must have some unresolved issues from your past and until you settle them, you will not be able to put it all behind you. Could you be feeling guilty about something? Maybe you feel like you have somehow hurt or disappointed someone else and don't feel that they have fully forgiven you.
Do you believe in God? If so, have you prayed about these things from your past that keep bothering you?
Are there common occurancest that keep triggering these unpleasant memories?
I am sure someone has told you that we all have things we have done that we are not proud of and would like to forget, so don't feel alone.
@zhawee (873)
• Philippines
17 Sep 11
I hate so much my past. the people that connected and involve that people I dont wanna see them. they give me a pain in my heart. God know my problems I just pray that those person plz dont be a cross our way. that really hated to see them. That I wish and Pray. I I dont want to remind my mistake and wrong decision.
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
16 Sep 11
I think most people have a past that they try to forget. Some may even be more forgetable than others. The best thing has always to move on. To have something to look forward to, so you don't get stuck staring at the past.
If it's a past relationship that you hate, then maybe it's time to look for a new one!
@didi13 (2926)
• Romania
2 Nov 11
I hate my past too.Not because of what it is, but because it keeps haunting me.Because pieces of my past rise in the middle of the night from silence and darkness ans steal my sleep.They never let me rest.They perform something like a ritual.All those people from my past make a circle around me and dance like a djin tribe.They are laughing.And torture me. Even if i let my past behind even if i stopped trying to revive it, my past won't let me move on. Is there any escape?I guess not.We all have to live with our past, carry it as if you carry your own cross.Get used to it.
@eseulhan (199)
• Philippines
17 Sep 11
It is really hard to forget the past. Some just cant move on coz what they have experience in the past was so tragic and unbearable. But mind you, only you can help yourself. If you say that you really cant do then it would take so much time, u really cant forget it. Try to be optimistic, just think you can do it because i tell you, you can. The only problem is that we think we are weak. Just believe in yourself, be strong. Continue to live life coz it doesnt end there.
@deedee328 (1122)
• United States
17 Sep 11
The human brain is a remarkable and powerful thing. You can make yourself believe whatever you choose to. Chances are that no matter how horrible you make think things you have done are, they aren't really so serious. We tend to hang on to thoughts and feelings far longer than other people do.
There is alot to be said for positive thinking.
I truly believe in that old saying about "what doesn't kill us, makes us stronger" I also think that the fact that this person has survived the past this long, it wasnt as tragic and horrible as thought to be.
I agree that we are all much stronger than we perceive ourselves to be. God has made us to endure things that we can't even comprehend that we could survive.
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@THINKANDDONE28 (33)
• China
17 Sep 11
I don't know what happened to you in the past.From your describtion,it is really sad and may be nightmare for you to remember it.In my opinion,you should face the infact slowly.You can find out what the key issue,and why it impact you so much.In order to done it completely,you shouldn't have to forget it tring your best.
