Women are more into details

yeah, I believe so too, that women especially moms are more detailed when it comes to things. may it be things that the baby needs or things around the house. women worry much than men I think. :)

I don't know, I've known worry wart guys and women that don't. Heck, I knew a gal who'd go off to a science fiction convention and find her husband and son would clean the house while she was gone!

yeah, I believe so too, that women especially moms are more detailed when it comes to things. may it be things that the baby needs or things around the house. women worry much than men I think. :)

Well, i still have a kid , i would also be like you too. Luckily, my daughter is a lady now.

I look forth the day when I wont need to worry much about baby bottles and diapers, haha!

Haha, you beat me on those things inside your bag :) I'm not really detailed when it comes to my personal things as I'm more worried about other things that concern my kids, the utilities etc :)

maybe, lol

My husband also helps me out on things, but I dont know, I just need to remind him a couple of times to get things started or done. Maybe I'm just always in the hurry to get things done.

Haha! That's so true! Women almost know about everything and in detail. Maybe it really depends upon the situation. If it's more of a man's activity or not

Thank you, it took me a while to get the avatar up, but I finally got it!!! I try to get him involved whether he likes it or not, he is going to be apart of it anyways right. But like you said normally the responsibility is all MINE, good thing is I love it and don't mind doing it.

yeah, I think so too that involvement is the key. We are all a part of a celebration, outing etc. So for all of us to have fun, everyone should be assigned a task. Assignments can be disseminated. Haha! He wont have a choice but involve himself

hi! first off you really have a pretty avatar! going back to the issue :) Haha! They are like that. they try to get away by saying things like that. Somehow I do not mind about it to, but yes, it's good to involve them sometimes or even w/ little things so that they'll feel that they somehow have the responsibility to get involved :)

Yeah, sometimes it feels like they are your boss (not in a bad way), you present the things, they nod or disapprove and that's basically it! hahaha!

wow! you are really lucky! :) well, my husband may not be oriented most of the time but he has some "heroic" times too. like when I was the one who forget things, he would marvel at how he manage to remember it. and he would tease me on being forgetful always, not checking on things etc :)

yes correct, it may differ and depend. But generally speaking, it's a yes right?

yes I guess so too. Or maybe his position calls him to be like that--detailed. Because he's the boss he should know everything. But I know people who are in a high position but still they lack organization. So maybe you're right. :)

I think you are right....and we make alot of lists! LOL....just have to have it all covered you know!

remember some women who are about to be married turns into bridezillas cos they want the wedding to be perfect

Haha!! That's very true, women are so meticulous about things and they want everything to be done if not perfect, good enough. Maybe it's really a gal's nature. :) Yeah, lists are there to serve as a constant reminder, even if we have unending lists in mind.

haha! funny when you think about it after, that you fought because of the simple things that he forgot. I do try to talk to my husband,he always promise not to be like that but after some time he will be forgetful again. Maybe it's really not his nature.

I have to agree w/ you. Women are mentally and emotionally strong in my opinion. And when it comes to raising a family, a father may have the final decision but everything in between, they come from the mom.

hi, yes I got your point. I think what you're trying to say is that I should not do things alone and that I should involve my husband in preparing things or any other matter that involves the both of us. I really like the idea that I should educate my husband. Well not in an obvious way, but educating him thru actions that he won't notice. thanks!

Wow, you're lucky to have a husband like that! My husband also thinks about other things, but most of the time it's me who prepares and sees to it that everything's complete when the big day comes.

O..dear I wish you from all my heart that you husband start to do more that he did before today!!! You will be very lucky women-wife-mother! But I will share with you secret of my lucky..:))) You need to be grate women! (I am sure you are) but a little bit different... you must educate your husband.. for example.. you need that will be everything prepared for big day.. ask him what he want that will be on this big day, how he want that this day was spent, what he want to eat.. and try that he start to find new meals, souce.. test it and prepare it! DO NOT DO IT BY YOURSELF!!! This is the main rule!!! Believe you can forget something to take or prepare for this big day..The next time he started to ask you do you prepare everything that you need for it!!! I think you are clever women and you understand my idea, that I wanted to say you. The most important for you must be yourself, children and than husband! Sometimes you can change the places, when it need! My son and husband try to control me when we go somewhere and check.. :))) Because I could forgot something and I could be tied, or I do not want to do it at all! :))) Good Luck Dear!

Haha, I observed the same thing w/ my hubby too. Everytime he goes to work I usually check if he have an extra shirt, towels, etc. But he would just nod and say that everything's there already, even if he did not check it again.

wow! you must be a very patient lady but what you said is true, maybe God gave women to men to help them carry on w/ life in general (w/ things, their worries, etc). because even if they look masculine and all knowing they can also be weak on certain areas. thanks! :)

yes, there are some exemptions but I do think too that women are more focused in general. and worries much than men too :)

haha! nagging most of the time is needed! sometimes, Im really pissed because I need to repeat myself a couple of times so the same as you I prefer to do things myself.

is it also because women are more of good listeners and keen observers? Haha! But you're right, it varies but generally speaking I still believe that women are still more into details and that we dig into things more than men do. Most of them are not focused so they forget things more. thanks

we are perfectionist, maybe because we are more idealist. like we've pictured everything to sail out fine and happy. we already have a big picture in mind and we do not want things to ruin that, so we dig into details :) thanks for the advice! :)