"I should have said... "

no no its common my dear that's human all of us regret to some things we do before critical analysis so only the word SORRY is ever enough if it truthfully inserted where it is needed edsss thank you

I remember what my mother had taught me... I always makes mistake and I am lucky that she always taught me the good stuff in life... Even though sometimes we had arguments but in the end I learn my mistakes. I realized that it is not easy to guide a person in the right direction. Sometimes when you follow that right road, there's always obstacle blocking your way. I know I will regret the things I had said and done may reflect on me back. Do you know why? Because you will never know when you own a family you may experience it as well. You realized it that it hard to role as a mother or father to the children...

I think that this happens all the time between mothers and daughters. I believe that it is just part of growing up. The next time you are arguing with her, maybe you will remember this and not say hurtful or mean things to her. She loves you and is trying to do what is best for you as she knows how.

my lady, Good to hear about this. There is nothing wrong expressing what's on your mind, it gives you some relief and off from stress. Now you understand the reason why your mom sounds strict to you...it is for your own welfare and I am sure you will understand her from this day onwards. have a good day

i do regret some things i have said and done out of acting out without even thinking. i get carried away so easily with anger, depression and other stressful things. i even filed a case against one of the department head at work because of a rumor that made me upset. that person deserved it because i helped her with her task. and i got unnecessary over time because of the task she can't finish. she didn't even say thank you. she was so ungrateful and would you blame me in acting out my irritations on filing a complaint against her? well i guess the best thing to do when you are like me is that you pause for a few seconds, close your eyes breathe in and out slowly, and counting 1 to 20 slowly.. believe me after 20 your head is crystal clear.. no anger, confusion and no etc... it also helps when instead of counting you pray and talk to the Lord. ask for his guidance. there are many things that i regret because i let my emotions run through me. it caused me my relationship with the person i once called family.

hai friend dont think that your mother is very strict to you, realize her feeling about you, she might be strict to you because of age, but you have to be very close to your mom and update her about your daily activities(out side),sure she will be knowing every second of you, and make you to get what ever you want. friend every one faces this problem exspecially with girls, we cant blame parents because ultimately they are the who cares about us.

Mothers and their daughters... there is always drama that guys seem to enjoy from a far. Anyway, we were born boys only, as you have known mother's love goes directly to her boys... but here she had a headache in controlling naughty boys on her own. She was always shouting from one boy to another, damn! It was hard for her. I changed my behaviour when I came to realize how hard she was trying to keep us under control. Sometimes when I remember those those days, I can't help but to ask for forgiveness from God. I do regret doing whatever I did but life must continue.

we're the same! I always do. Especially in the evening, when I'm about to go to bed. Before I sleep, I remember everything I've said and done the whole day. I will realize all the harsh things I've said to my mom or sister. At least for us, we know that we did something wrong. It's hard if we are blinded by our actions. I tried several times to change, but sometimes I just can't control my feelings. Before I realized what I've said, it's already too late. My mom got tired of me after a year of being like that. She's kind of indifferent now. Even if I try to tell some jokes, she will laugh but I can see that she's just forcing herself :((