What do you wish your significant other to stop doing?

I want him to shave daily, put down the toilet seat too, quit making stupid jokes and say each time he is just a simple man and he has no money so... Since we don't live together it's not such a big deal yet but I would not live together with him if he would keep on doing this.

I'm in a long distance relationship and how I wish he would stop asking silly questions which really annoys me and causes us not to be talking in a few days. He keeps on interfering with my work and my time of going home. If I tell him to stop meddling with my work, he will say he is not meddling. That's the worse because he doesn't admit what he is doing. He always ask every single detail which i consider irrelevant. During annual vacation that we would see each other, he will use my laptop and my cellphone,and he will check all the content therein and he will question why is this photo or file still being kept in my gadget. OMG! I never did that to him, I respected his privacy and he won't give me any privacy, I never interfered in his work as well as his schedules. When I just recently joined mylot, I invited him to join so he could have something worthwhile to do, he did join but only snooping and reading my participation and afterwards he will question me on the things I am writing here, same thing with FB and articles I am writing for Triond, I can not express my real self anymore.

Just about everything. Spilling everything everywhere, eating at the computer and leaving food everywhere, twisting & turning in the bed and pulling the covers off, not aiming right and never cleaning it up after, sulking, flicking the remote all the time, splashing water everywhere in the kitchen and bathroom, never sitting still for more than ten minutes,being false on the phone I could go on and on and on...

Oh, that might be a long list, LOL. I wish he'd stop being so negative all the time and jumping to conclusions. His boss was fired on Wednesday, and he got a new guy who was recently hired on from another company. I don't think he's even met this guy yet, but he already knew he didn't like him and wasn't willing to give him a chance. Yesterday was his first day working with the guy, and he's not giving him a chance at all. He figures this is going to end one of 3 ways.. he's either going to get the new guy fired, he's going to transfer himself to a different store, or he's going to quit. He's not considering the 4th option.. to give the guy a chance and perhaps he might end up liking him! I wish he wouldn't be so lazy all the time. We've got 5 kids, can you imagine the mess in my house? I'm only 1 person, and I'm doing school and work while raising these kids. I try to tell him I could use some help sometimes, especially since I'm already so worn out between school and work. But he comes home and plops on the sofa and doesn't get up again until bedtime. The only time he has ever folded laundry was a couple days ago when I hurt my arm and could hardly move it. He does dishes on his day off because that's the day he cooks dinner and I normally won't do the dishes so then he has to before he can cook dinner. Other than that it's rare that he ever does anything else around the house.. and when he decides to clean house it's more or less him delegating more chores to the kids. He will wash dishes and have the kids sweep and mop and wipe down counters etc. I wish he'd stop thinking that I'm like him. He has known me for like 12 years.. you'd think he'd have a better understanding of what I like and what I don't like. When it comes to TV shows etc, he has a good idea, but when it comes to how to treat me, he's clueless. As I said, the other day I hurt my arm.. I fell and was really upset. I also hit my head but not really bad. I called him after I fell and he was concerned and asked if he should come home so I could go to the hospital. It would have been nice if he did come home because I was really shaken from the fall.. but I didn't want to go to the hospital.. so he didn't come home. When he did get home he was not at all sympathetic about what I'd been through. I was still really shaken from my fall.. and I know I was a bit loopy (I went to ask my son to put dishes away for me, but what I said was "Come put this laundry away".. so my son looks at me weird, and I realized I said it wrong, so then I said "I mean groceries"). So all night I'm getting more and more upset that my husband isn't being sympathetic.. but in his mind he was. He asked if there was anything I needed, if he could do anything for me, etc. etc. While that would probably be enough for anyone else, I'm more of an emotional person. I want some emotion and some caring.. and he's basically incapable of doing that. So around bedtime I mentioned it and he said "Well if I were hurt that's all I'd want".. and again I had to tell him.. "Yeah, but I'm not you".. and you'd think he'd know that by now.

I must say that my honey is pretty good about not doing things to the extend of over doing it. I wish he quit smoking just because they are so damn expensive but I can't really complain to much since I smoked for 20 plus years { I quit over 3 years ago}. I wish he quit eating and get more exercise since he's not working and sitting on the computer all day stuffing his face....

i hate cussing and he cuss a lot. it's the upbringing, cussing is 5 a cent in their family. it was as natural as a common expression. good thing i was able to control my children from uttering these not so nice words. i dont know if i am away but i do not hear them say the words when i am around.

while my hubby is not perfect and i am sure he would tell you things that i do that bug him, the only thing that really bugs me is that he says yes to everyone and is much too nice (and he is a momma's boy too!)

oh boy.. stop leaving tools and "finds" all over the house stop dumping trash by the side of the bed,we HAVE a garbage can stop letting his neanderthal friends come over as i'm cooking dinner either help or quit telling me how "he would have fixed something" i better stop now LOL..

I don't really have much that I wished he stop doing, but one thing for sure is that he I wished he would be able to relax a bit more. He does a great deal to keep us afloat as I am not working and the poor guy is always drumming ways to keep us standing. Outside of this I really can't complain but am sure he can complain about one or two things about me. lol

There are a couple of things my husband does that drive me nuts. We have a small kitchen, and it's not big enough for two at once. When I work in the kitchen preparing meals, doing dishes, etc., I usually have my tasks timed to the minute, or even seconds. Then, right when I'm trying to complete a task sequence to get things on the table in ten minutes, he decides he needs to cut up an apple on the counter or peel an orange, or do something else that puts him right in my path so that I can't get to the sink or the frig, or a cupboard or the counter when I need to, and it throws the timing off or lunch gets cold because he's got to come have a snack right before it's served. I don't see why he can't wait for a meal that's almost done. Another thing is that I can't get him to use the right knives for the right jobs. I have a serrated knife I use for cutting up vegetables, and another I use for delicate fruits like tomatoes and citrus. I have a bread knife and a meat knife and several small paring knives that are just right for cutting apples into quarters or peeling oranges. Hubby sees no difference in knives -- a knife is a knife is a knife. Never mind if he uses the delicate serratedvegetable knife to cut cheese or slice apples when we have a cheese slicer and four paring knives. They are in the drawer and he might have to open it. The one he picked up was probably in the dish drainer, nice and handy. But he won't rinse it off and put it back there. No. He will leave it there for the apple or whatever to dry on it, and when I come in and need to use it again, it's no longer clean and it's harder to get clean to use for what I want. The other thing is that he has a certain way he likes to flirt that I hate. I've told him over and over for 48 years that I don't like it and it turns me off when he does it, so why does he keep doing it? Does he want to turn me off? Or does he just get his jollies from being obnoxious occasionally. I love him dearly, and I know he loves me, but I just can't understand why he does this last thing. If I know something really annoys him, I try not to do it.

My husband dips. I hate it so much.