Boy am I ticked off with you!

hi Hwg I hated it when this one user turned on me and told me how awful my discussions were and how mean I was and how she h ated my discussions but her vitriol did not get published after all as when I blew up and told her how mean she was that got it deleted as a flaming war. this person has made sly nasty little digs at me e ever 'since I came but worded just sly enough so you could not tell the admins she was insulting me but she blew her cool that day and put it down for everyone to see instead of sending me a p message, I did report her and she reported me for making a duplicate which it was not as mylot admins told me it was for a flaming war., I was only glad it was deleted really. I was so hurt as I did not realize how much she disliked me although she had made numerous other sly little digs like I was an oddity for not having any photos in my profile.,I told her sincerely I had no camera and no money right then to buy a digital that's why I had no pictures.I only hope she never bothers me again. I WANT NOTHING to do with her at all. She started in on me when I said I was a democrat and that I had voted for Obama. now that really does not make me a target for someone's hatred surely.I stay out of politics here after that one.At least everyoine else is really warm and friendly here at myllot.

That is awful to hear Mrs. Hatley and so sorry you have had to experience this. Thankfully there are far more wonderful members here and such a great admin to nip things in the bud. I hope that ended that and she does not continually patronize you anywhere, as if so then she needs to be reported. As clearly listed on Admins profile he does not tolerate certain behaviors here. Something I appreciate as this is certainly not a good experience for you to have undergone. Sad on how some insist on just going out there way to bother others at times.

Hi ya HWG and Hatley I too am very sorry to hear that you had such an un-neccessary hard time from someone. Everyone is entiled to their opinion in the respect of who they vote for etc and I like it when people view their opinions and admire people who are honest with theirs provided they are not offending people. I was offended by this person who I am ticked off with one of their discussions but chose not to tell them I was offended and just responded with an honest opinion. I don't respond to 'all' my friends discussions as I can't add anything of value to subjects I know nothing or little about and sometimes the discussions doesn't interest me but I try my best especially with 'friends'! HWG Hatley

Hi ya Angelee_27 No it was not aimed directly at me but to call people that do a certain something, losers, I was a bit offended. I guess it is their opinion but that is also name calling is it not. It's not just that though, like I said, it is also that I never get responses from this person to my discussions or comments to my responses to their discussions. Oh well, I guess that is their choice at the end of the day of how they choose to do things in mylot as they are not breaking any of the guidelines. Thanks

Hi ya ElicBxn I imagine that this member must have their notifications turned off as like I said they never respond to my discussions, they are just in their own little bubble, typing away with starting their discussions, one after another, after another! If I turn off the notifications I might as well delete them I think! Cheers

I guess its because I've been friends a long time, and I do sometimes run out of other discussions - not lately... but... and Hazelme, it isn't against the rules, its just not real polite

Oh my! I didn't know this type of problem would be common here in mylot! I think if people like that trying to bother mylot members they should be remove. :0

Hi there MaryLynn321 Don't get me wrong I don't pm's from this member, it was in a discussion I felt offended. If someone sent my nasty messages via pm's then I wouldn't hesitate to report them and delete them from my friends list! I think it is just mylot etiquette!! Thanks

Ok, I miss understood you. If you were offended by something this person said or says, then I would let them know. If they don't respond or give some kind of explanation for their comments, then I would definitely remove them from my friends list.

Hi there alberello No the person in question was generalising about something but called people losers and I fell into that category or people that do that certain something, so it wasn't personal to me but I was still offended. This person never, never responds to my discussions and I can't remember them commenting on my responses to their discussions either! Think I will just delete them and have done with it! Thanks

Hi there Hazelme and welcome to mylot It is annoying and considered bad manners but not against the mylot guidelines and so it is not worthy of being reported for. I am sure I will delete this person from my friends list and have done with it at some point! Thanks for your response and happy mylotting

Hi ya wolfie Never a true word spoken haha. You are right of course wolfie but it just got me wound up the day I started the discussion and once I have finished commenting to my responses I will sort it, done and dusted haha Thanks

That's just the way it goes some times.

Hi moondancer I hear ya!! hahaha Some of these type of mylotters tend to just leave after a while but this person also makes it to the Mylot Digest on a regular basis with their drivvle and why they have so many people respond to such discussions I really don't know!! Thanks

Oh yes...that does sometimes bug me and especially when it is the kind of discussion that you expect interaction with. I have most of my notifiers off anyway so I don't always even notice. Still, sometimes a discussion is really good and I do anticipate a response and when nothing comes, I'll look and see that the person doesn't respond to most if any of those that replied and I just have to wonder why they started the discussion to begin with. Just to start it? Sometimes you can interact with the responders and still have a good discussion without the original poster even being active at all.

Hi ya sid556 That is great that you are fine with it as it is. The thing that bugs me the most is that when I respond to their discussions they never comment back either, they do to the first 3 or 4 but never me, weird huh? Thanks

Hi ya cynth Glad to see you are so busy at work, keeps you outta trouble hahaha yep gonna sort through my friends list in a min and delete those I don't see about anymore too, luckily you responded when you did then hahahaha Cheers

If you deleted me then I would be booking a flight to the U.K. and hunting you down

Hi there allknowing I guess you are right. I too enjoy it here on mylot but you do get the odd people who will bug you for one reason or another and this is a matter that has always bugged since I started here! Thanks

As a matter of fact I respond to so many topics posted by those who are not on my "Friends" list and I also see so many responding to my topics who are not on my "Friends' List. This is the last priority for me to see who interacts with me or who does not. If you follow this principle you too will be happy because I am very happy here.

It bugs you because you pay attention. If you are not comfortable with any one have nothing to do with them. Ignore them and move on. Even if they respond to your topic you need not comment if you feel uncomfortable. And if they flame you, you can report. That easy.