Have you been Inlove to a Married Woman/Guy??

haha yes i am now an expert at this subject because i have been involved with many married men i dont know why i let myself get close to them that are married their relationship with me never seems to work out or last very long the longest relationship was about six months and he too was seperated from his wife and he had three children things were great at first and i really thought he was the one but in the end....you know my only advice is to put barb wire around your heart so no one can get to it

Separated but not yet divorced can be a very... gray, sticky, bad place to be. Or so personal experience has told me. I've been there and done that, and NEVER, EVER again. Not just because of my own personal feelings, but the situation may not be fair for anyone involved, especially if a divorce isn't even pending. I would, sincerely, back away until a divorce has been legalized or a lot of people may end up being hurt emotionally. If he TRULY loves and cares about you, he would understand that you are looking out for the best interest of his child, as well as for him and yourself.. and he will still be there waiting when the papers are finalized! Best of luck!

NO. I find no interest in used materials. I do not think taht I can even fall in love with a divorcee.

That is a very grey area. If the divorce is in the process of being finalized and that is almost a gurantee than continue amd aim and fight for your happiness. If iy is just recent the probability of them getting back together in the future would be a little higher. As stated in another comment it is a grey area. My ex-finance (bless is soul) was in the middle of a divorce when we met and when he told me that as long as that is what is haplening and if it is him amd i that he wants to work on then by all means lets do ot but if it is not i do not want to be involved. I also slept with an ex from mamy many many years ago recently what wS just told he was getting a divorce. So i guess it is how you feel, and what your morals are. I just have a thing for those men apparantly lol. Good luck with whatevet your decision be.

I too have been in love with a married man and it is not the easiest place in the world to be in. Yours is quite different though since they are already separated. How long have they been separated? If they have been separated for a long time, what's stopping them to get a divorce? That is quite a sticky situation and I would hate for any woman to be in that kind of situation. If they have been separated, then, they are STILL legally married and if you push through with your relationship, then that would technically make you the other woman. Is that what you want? I agree with the others to wait for the guy and his wife to settle some stuff whether they would stay married or file a divorce. But, as much as possible, stay out of a sticky situation. You may be happy being in love with this guy. But in the end, it will be hard for you coz you would always have to share him with his family. Even if they do get divorced, you would still have to get used to the fact that he already has a child and you would have to accept that you would have to share him with his child. It's all up to you really. But I have been there and I'm glad I'm out of that kind of situation.

that has never happened to me. i would say just follow your heart and do what it says. you will be better of this way. let your heart show you the way.

I have been involved with a married man several times. It's not the best. There were 2 times when they were going through a divorce and one time when the guy lied and said he was single, but really still married. Needless to say, I got rid of that guy pretty quick. When I run across this, I always ask if there is a chance to fix things with the soon to be ex. Of course they always say not. But I have had friends that had guys go back even after dating for a year or more. I don't know what the best thing is. I think we all can relate to this issue though.

You have already taken heart to this guy so it will be difficult to completely let go. The one thing you must keep in mind is that he is still married and if he actually wants to be with you then divorcing will not be an issue. Therefore, what you have to ask and or say to him is that he can't have it both ways. If he gives you all kinds of reasons/excuses as to why he can't divorce then you will have to make a decision if you are willing to share him with someone else. If in fact he is in love with you, he can still be a good father but being married to someone else really does not give you hope to be his future wife if that is the route you are hoping for with him and or anyone who is separated and not fully divorced. What you have to keep in mind is that you deserve someone just for you and perhaps mixing business with pleasure should not happen again even if the person is single. If it were me I could not continue, and would try someway to break it off, basically because I would be a free single person and would want to have my partner also only be committed to me.

Friend i think you need to think with little bit of patience because he all ready left his wife but don't know whether he got divorced or not. So first confirm this because now you will feel that without him you can't leave but if he didn't take divorce from his wife and if you marry him then it will be a big problem for you. Then you will feel bad so better think twice and act wise. All the best dear friend.

I love married womens i don't know why but... As they have lot of experience in their life they have different views than unmarried girls also there is less risk to get cheated as most of girls do in their with at least 5-6 guys ruining their life!

hello there ayeth.i can only suggest you that you need to clear things up with that guy.if he's divorced with his ex wife, then you may continue what you already sttarted and be happy with him.but if not, tell him to do legal ways to be separated to his ex wife so that you won't have problems in the future.

Hey ,give him a chance to fix the situations of his ex, because he is already married to a wife. Now, you are not married with,so just give a chance,because maybe you will involve of the fights of the woman and that guy because you are knowing he is married and yes yu did date with or something... Or your life will at risk,.....,,and do not know...And that is your choices,and give time to think what good for you..temptation is always there...

Though you come to ask a comment,i believe,you have already have your own decision in your deep heart.Because love is kind of magic thing the people out the ring could not give you a fit answer.What i can tell you just the moral stuff which you know more clearer than me.