Do you keep your family matter private?

Talking about other people is usually not the right thing to do. Not to tell about them good things and of course not to tell bad things about them. If you tell good things about them , some one can be jealuse and wish it will go wrong. If you tell about them bad things , of course you make them embarrassed , making bad name for them. So it works also on family members. I personally don't tell my family secrets and I don't talk about my parents or family members. I remember once my father was a partner in a restaurant and I told it to my friend and to my friend's parents and to some other people I knew. After some weeks , my father's partner stole the money from the restaurant and scamed him. Maybe that's because I told about the restaurant...who knows. My brother told me not to tell anyone about the restaurant. There is something that is called "evil eye" and maybe that what did it.

I like keeping my family matters private. If there's not so much of a big thing I am very cool with it, but personal stuffs are always between me and the fam and yes I share them with my best friends only.

i always keep my family matter private. when i have complaints, i'd rather write a diary to relieve myself. if i have problems with my family and need advice, i will surf the net and try to find solution.

I think that far too many people discuss things on the internet which should really be private and kept within the comfort of your own home. I feel sorry for people who feel as though they have to say things about themselves and their families in order to get attention for themselves, because it just shouldn't be the type of thing that people choose to do. Things that could cause trouble should be kept to yourselves, as you just never know the amount of trouble that you might cause by spreading things that should actually be private.

There are things that has to be shared. and there are things i keep it to myself. And most of the time i keep it with in me

For me I want the family matter to be private. There are things that we must keep private in our family because a family is always family. We must protect each other secrets and problems that will or can embarrass our family. That is why I really prefer to keep the family matter private.

Unless somebody actually asks about a family member, I usually keep it to myself. I don't like how it looks and sounds when somebody goes on and on about their child, or other relatives. It's nice to be proud of them, but it's a whole other thing to spout it out to everybody and anybody. That's bragging. Bad habits of relatives, I keep that to myself. Maybe another relative will bring it up, but if it's a non-family member, then my standard reply is usually 'Why do you want to know?' (which usually puts their nose back in their own business lol.) In other words, to me, it's not appropriate to discuss family problems with people who aren't even related. That seems disloyal to the family. I think this is where the phrase 'don't air your dirty laundry' comes from lol. It's always important to remember and think: how would I feel if it was ME being discussed that way? And then act accordingly.

Some things I don't mind sharing with others. However, there are things that are personal and I don't feel comfortable sharing those sorts of things with everyone. It can depend on the situation and such.

only to a chosen few. though i can accidentally tell a story if it is a funny one.

In everything we do there is always a limitation. So when it comes to family matter there must be a limit in annoying our family members.

To me,i will keep it as a secrete,maybe its ok to share sometimes,but sometimes the problem will rise just because couldnt handle it just right.So to be taciturn is better.