Should she proceed with the pregnancy or have an abortion?

We knew already that it's a great sin if she abort it. It's against on the law above and also in the law of man. She should face the consequences of what she did.I love babies and that's the reason I don't want anybody to face a problem like her. In that reason I am careful with all my moves when I was still engage in different relationship.

First of all sweetie, i will never play with married men. I have mine thank you. As for your friend, she and that married man should have thought for themselves before they started with this whole damn mess. A child will be killed if she decide to have an abortion, and for what? A bit of fun? I mean really, don't people think for themselves anymore? I think she should have this child and the married man will have to tell his wife. If she leave him, his problem. And he will take care of that child. Sorry for this rant.

i couldn't have gotten pregnant if i were in her shoes. having an affair with a married man and getting impregnated is the most stupid thing to have happened. but still, abortion is not the option, and should never be the option. it would be so selfish of her to even think of it. i hope she still cling to her senses of being honorable by letting the child live.

If it was me, I wouldn't abort it. I'm not sure if I'd keep it or not, but I'd rather give it up for adoption than get an abortion. I'm very anti-abortion. But if I were you, I'd try urging her to keep it, or at least put it up for adoption. She doesn't have to tell the father if she doesn't want to or if she doesn't feel comfortable with it (especially if she thinks it'll put her and/or the child in danger).

For this kind of matter, there are always two ways to deal with it.I think it's her right to make the choice,afterall, she is the one who got pregnant,no one can take over what she would probably go through. Just support her,it's a hard time to her I think.

abortion is the best option.

Your friend has separated from her husband so she could have this baby born therefore her one year old son would get a brother or a sister. They would close in age and her family could be a happy one. If she has an abortion it is bound to make her depressed. She should ignore the married man and not say to people he is the father of her baby. She should seek a divorce from her husband that she is separated from. She should not have an abortion. That is what I would do if I was in that awful situation.

She must proceed to her pregnancy because abortion is a kind of crimes. She need to think that going to abort her baby is tantamount to kill an innocent one. Better to be killer in the street because you are trying to live your life from those bad people than to kill your own baby that never do anything wrong with you, right? Tell her to proceed because who knows. That baby will give the opportunity to see what is right. She is doing a sin and must be remorse in what she did...she is the one to be blame because of her sinner action...

I could not answer that as I have never been in such a case and I don´t think I could have been. Married men are not for me, however awesome they might be. I don´t get it: there are so many ways of not getting pregnant! She is in a great problem!

If I was in her shoes I'm sure I would feel like there wasnt much I could do due to such a sticky situation but I think I would go through with the pregnancy but give the baby up for adoption because it did nothing wrong to be killed, it was all over a not so smart decision and the kid could still grow up and have a good life

No matter who the father is or what the father is, a child is still a child. That is what should be put on her mind. They do the did and they should know the consequences of what they are doing. Now, that she is pregnant then, she should go with. Well yeah, I know it is easier said than done. But she should weigh the options properly. It is life that she is dealing with.

ouch! she is caught by her mistake now. abortion could never be a solution to that. maybe she should just continue the pregnancy and if she doesn't want the child then maybe she could just give it to a childless couple or not to the orphanage. she should not end the baby's life. the baby has the right to live. so i am not for her abortion too friend. she should bravely face it. not minding the people who would gossip about her cause in the first place she entered that relationship and she knows what would happen if she did the act. she should be responsible of her act.

do not go with the abortion, a baby is a blessing from GOD, whereas many of the people around the world cannot afford to have a baby, why should you abort it in the first place.

Since she's having an affair w/ her husband its obviously that she's not happy. I think she should have the baby, having an abortion which I don't support. She needs to be open w/ her husband & communicate w/ him. Since the 2 parties are married I feel as if they should have the baby not by her wanting an abortion. Its obviously that she must feel guilty that she's had an affair thats the reason why she wants to have an abortion. I would have the baby if I was in her shoes & just confess to my husband that i had an affair

put the baby up for adoption, it takes a lot of guts to go thru with an abortion. it's something that will be with her for the rest of her life. but she will do what she wants in the end, like anything in life we will all listen to an extent and still do what we want to do.

Your friend should ask herself this question: is she able to take care of an other baby (so 2 little kids) all alone. Her marriage is over, there is no way she will get a relationship on short term with the father. So she has to do it all alone. Be pregnant alone, feel sick alone, feel miserable alone, have scolding people to handle all alone, take care of a little kid alone. If she is strong enough to do that, also financial she can keep the child (an who knows some people will help her in time of need). If not she will only have more and more misery. Not only she, also her one year old and the new one. What do you think? Can love for 1 child (the baby) survive all the misery all the adults around her will give her, is this child worth all her sacrifices and lonesome ness? You will never know since you are not in her shoes. This decision is hers an not matter if she will decide for abortion or not, she will have to live with it and pay the price for her decision the rest of her life. The men will walk out and go on with their lives, family will and friend will turn out to be so called ones. I wish her all the best and hope she will do what is best for her. Being a single mom with just 1 child is already a hard task.