Holding Hands While Sleeping

Holding hands while sleeping - Holding hand while sleeping,makes me fall asleep.
Philippines
September 30, 2011 10:13pm CST
What's your favorite sleeping position? I miss my hubby last night before sleeping,we usually hold hands until we get to sleep but hubby is not there with me,sad! Good thing my baby sleeps beside me so her hands comforted me and I finally fall asleep. Do you have any favorite sleeping position that can make you fall asleep?
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@thatgirl13 (7294)
• South Korea
1 Oct 11
Yes my favourite sleeping position is sleeping side ways. And I can't sleep just like that. I have this big pillow like thing and have to put my legs on it. Meaning it carries my leg or else really I can't sleep!
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• Philippines
1 Oct 11
Oh,when I was single,I used to have a pillow for my legs too,haha! But that habit of mine,having the pillow, was changed to my hubby's body,haha!
• South Korea
1 Oct 11
Haha. I put my leg on my mom's body too when I sleep with her sometimes She tells me my leg is really heavy hahahhaa
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• Philippines
1 Oct 11
Haha,you're a sweet daughter then,I wish my daughter will still sleep beside me when she grows up,hehe!
@beingwell (3625)
• Thailand
3 Oct 11
So sweet, my friend. As long as I have pillows over my legs (which I can hug later on hahahaha), I'm happy. My hubby likes to sleep while hugging though. Too bad for him!hehehe
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@beingwell (3625)
• Thailand
4 Oct 11
Hahahah!! I do that too with my hubby!hehehe.. Although, I still find myself looking for my pillow at the middle of the night.hehehe! I prefer pillows since they don't move!hahahah!! I don't wake them up or they, me when I move. I'm all over the bed, you see!hahaha!
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• Philippines
5 Oct 11
Haha,we're opposite my friend,I feel more comfortable having the legs of hubby for my legs,haha! I feel warm,that's why,lol!
• Philippines
3 Oct 11
Hello friend! So you also have pillows for your legs eh! I still have a pillow on my right side now as my baby is on my left side,hehe! But when hubby is here,he's now my pillow for my legs,lol!
@gaiza12 (4884)
• Philippines
17 May 12
Aw that is so sweet of you and your husband . I don't have a husband yet nor have a partner who sleeps with me. But I am hoping to have a man with me who is willing to hold my hands as well while we sleep and hug me until I can sleep .
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@gaiza12 (4884)
• Philippines
18 May 12
The feeling of assurance and security that you will surely be waking up with the man who will love you forever and will stay with you until you grow older.. God bless your relationship
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• Philippines
21 May 12
And God bless your soon to be relationship too gaiza! Sorry for my delayed reply.
• Philippines
18 May 12
Hi gaiza! Oh,I'm sure you will find a partner that will hold your hands until you fall asleep. It's really a nice feeling! It's like someone is always there with you until you close your eyes. You will know the feeling too when you're there.
• Philippines
20 Oct 11
hi mtr, I don't have favorite sleeping position as long as I don't have dress while sleeping I am comfortable with that I also have sleeping problems but if I am so tired I easily fall asleep everywhere miss yah
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• Philippines
21 Oct 11
Haha,you made me laugh again my friend,hahahaha!
• Philippines
21 Oct 11
hahaah!I feel comfortable with that way READY TO FIGHT
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@edsss17 (4394)
• Philippines
1 Oct 11
Oh. That's so sweet nay! I easily can sleep when I sleep not facing the roof instead facing my pillow. Yea, that's it.. HAHAHAHA! I only got my blanket to hug every night.
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• Philippines
1 Oct 11
Oh you and my niece have the same sleeping position bunso,she told me it'll make her boobs big,haha! I guess she's wrong 'cause her boobs didn't show any change,haha!
• Philippines
2 Oct 11
Haha,yes,that's also what I said to my niece,I even told her that having big boobs is not really good,lol! It's just good for boys,haha! When I was single,I always have pillow for my feet,hehe!
@edsss17 (4394)
• Philippines
1 Oct 11
Oh. What a funny reason! I feel so comfortable sleeping that way nay. Not because I want my boobs to get bigger, I already have enough size. HAHAHAHAHAH! I also can't sleep without a pillow in my feet.
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• Philippines
2 Oct 11
Hi sis! I think nothing can suffice the feeling of us sleeping beside our husband. For me, the best days are when they are here with us. Misses my husband more when I read your message.
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• Philippines
3 Oct 11
Hi sis! You said it right sis,I really miss him that's why I started this discussion,hehe! But he'll be soon with us,yehey! He'll be here in November 22nd or 23rd,yahu! When is your hubby coming home?
• Philippines
3 Oct 11
Haha,yes sis,he'll be here on christmas and even new year,yahu! My family is complete on those great occassions,so glad!
• Philippines
3 Oct 11
He'll be home by March 12. You are so lucky that he'll be here to spend the Christmas with you. So happy and excited for you.I can almost see love in the air too, hahaha.
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
1 Oct 11
Hi dear I think I don’t have freedom to choose my sleeping position at present. I should lie like a statue in between my two sons, can’t turn either of the side. Recently the 10 year old is showing some concern and allowing me to turn to his younger brother’s (4 years old) side when he asks me to hug him. I may get the freedom soon as both are growing so fast (really time runs fast). I felt it is better to enjoy their company at present rather than complaining.
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
1 Oct 11
Hubby, kicked off by sons
• Philippines
1 Oct 11
Haha,poor hubby my friend,no loving loving with you,lol!
• Philippines
1 Oct 11
Oh so you're sleeping with your two sons my friend,how about hubby? Yes,I agree with you,it's best to enjoy their company while it lasts 'cause now I am missing my son to be always with me,he's already 20 yrs old Sree and he is too big now and doesn't want to be taken cared of anymnore,I miss his childhood days when I can still kiss and hug him always. Now he's kind of aloof 'cause he doesn't want to be called mama's boy,according to him,oh my!
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@neildc (17239)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
17 Oct 11
my wife used to grab my hands to put it over her body. she will face our son and so i will be beside her. so it will look like i embraced her from behind her. that's her favorite sleeping position. but when she is already sleeping, i will just flank or face down to my pillow.
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• Philippines
18 Oct 11
I still find it sweet neil,hehe! AT least you let your wife fall asleep first before you do your sleeping position. Have a good sleep,always!
@paula27661 (15811)
• Australia
10 Oct 11
I have been sleeping with my cat for quite a while because my husband has been in the guest room! No, we are not having marital problems, the reason we sleep apart is because he is the loudest snorer ever! It’s gotten a lot of worse since he gained a lot of weight and now he is struggling to get fit again so we can both share the same bed like we used to! By the way, my favourite position is on my side!
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• Philippines
12 Oct 11
Hi paula! I'm sorry for my super delayed reply,been absent in mylot for days. Haha,my hubby also snores loud but I'm already used to it,haha! Your cat is luckier than your hubby,lol! I just hope your hubby will get fit soon so both of you can share the same bed then.
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@shibham (16977)
• India
2 Oct 11
Hi amiga... Actually, i cant share my bed with anyone and almost like to sleep alone and wish to roll all the night on bed. Well, its said here and proved that if you are sleeping upside and keep your hands on chest, then bad nightmares come. Dont try to prove amiga. By the way, how are crystal? take care both of you.
• Philippines
3 Oct 11
Hello amigo! Haha,I know that position is bad amigo and I've always been telling that to hubby when he's sleeping in his cabin to avoid such sleeping positions. So if you're married,how will your wife sleep with you if you like to sleep alone,hehe! Crystal is doing fine,she's kinda excited to go to school already,haha! I told her she'll be going to school next year,haha!
@chiwasaki (4694)
• Philippines
1 Oct 11
There are times that me and my boyfriend hold hands while we sleep. It became one of our habit if we can't sleep at night. Somehow that makes us comfortable and secured.
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@chiwasaki (4694)
• Philippines
1 Oct 11
Sometimes when we are praying at night. We also hold hands while we pray. Then after the prayer, we will go to sleep while still holding hands together.
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• Philippines
1 Oct 11
So sweet! You made me miss my hubby again,huhu! I'm sure you both are going to be a very nice couple! They say when a family prays together,they stay together.
• Philippines
1 Oct 11
Yes,chiwasaki, I too feel very much comfortable and loved when we hold hands while sleeping. It's really nice to have a companion when you sleep especially if it's your partner.
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@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
9 Aug 12
hi, i have so many position when i sleep but when my lover is in beside me of course i will love when my lover hug me while sleeping int the bed because i would feel the love what my lover feel for me.
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• Philippines
11 Aug 12
That is so sweet and romantic my friend! I can imagine how you both do that as I also love being hugged by my hubby.
@SydneyJ (902)
• United States
2 Oct 11
That's really sweet that you two fall asleep holding hands! I normally like to sleep on my side or stomach but if I happen to fall asleep with a boyfriend I like to have them on thier side as well and behind me because I find it very comforting and it makes me feel really safe.
• Philippines
3 Oct 11
Hello SydneJ! The sleeping position you said is really comforting,nothing beats when someone cuddles you before sleeping and while at sleep.
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• India
18 May 12
I used to have some positions while I am sleeping but I cannot tell you which is it. It is different moods and I don't know what can I shape it.
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• Philippines
21 May 12
Oh my,sorry for my super delayed reply. I'm sure whatever position you have,you will have one position that is going to be your favorite,hehe! Favorite meaning that will be your only one position that you will most likely to have very often.
• United States
2 Oct 11
That's very sweet you two do that. I think we used to do that before we had kids, had some sort of normal schedules and such. No position can really make me fall asleep but which direction my body is facing and which side of the bed. Like right now I'm facing North & South and I'm on the open side of the bed (not the side against the wall). Whereas in ourroom it's facing east and west and I get the spot stuck to the wall and I hate that as that's where the heater is in winter and if I need to get out of bed for some reason I have to climb over several bodies (as the kids will climb into bed with us) and then I can't sleep at all.
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• Philippines
3 Oct 11
Oh,that's bad if you're not having good sleep at all Snuggle. I heard before that a new pillow can help someone fall asleep,maybe that would help,I hope!
@kelly10 (678)
2 Oct 11
It depends. My boyfriends works nights as a taxi driver so doesn't finish at a set time, so sometimes when he's coming to bed I'm just getting up, so sometimes I enjoy sleeping in the middle of the bed and spreading out! If it's a night when he's not working sometimes I too like to hold hand until we fall asleep, or sometimes I just rest a hand on him or he will wrap his arms round me. It also depends if it's cold as then we kind of wrap ourselves around each other to keep warm. Sometimes if he's really tired he just wants to go straight to sleep and not even feel me next to him as I have a habit of wiggling around so it's not very helpful when he wants to sleep!
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• Philippines
3 Oct 11
Haha,seeing your avatar best fits the wiggling around to your bf even if it annoys him,lol! Yes,when it's cold it's nice to have someone to embrace to make you feel warm at night in bed.
@thanks1961 (7035)
• India
1 Oct 11
It is my habit to sleep without touching by any body and before sleep I would change about 5-8 different positions till I get a better feel and I got a specific style where I feel more comfort. That's how - fold my pillow and place my right hand underneath to it and lie towards right side and fold one of my leg half way and close my eyes. I think this is the best fit position just before the sleep. Though my children sleep both my side and they also doesn't like to touch them. You may feel funny that my 12 year old daughter on one side and 14 year old son on the other side and the extreme side (near the wall side wife will sleep). I think people cannot be a particular position while they sleep as it keep change every 2-3 mts. before the sleep.
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• Philippines
2 Oct 11
Hi thanks! Upon reading your first 2 sentences,I thought you're single,lol! I hate to be touched before while sleeping when I was just single so I thought you're single,lol! I only have pillows beside me those times. Hubby, when here with us, wants me to cuddle him while lying down and we will finally just hold hands and get to sleep. Yours is kind of unique 'cause you're already married and it's my first time to hear a husband doesn't want to be touched by his wife while sleeping.
@naseemkum (1803)
• India
1 Oct 11
As im bachelor i dont had any holding hands in my bed. As i had seperate bedroom for me i relax by seeing some movies before sleep. I feel alone always so i always hug my pillows and close my eyes till i sleep then when i ready to sleep i feel to keep my hands both near my heart.
• Philippines
2 Oct 11
Hi naseemkum! You sleep like my hubby when he's in his cabin,he's telling me all his activities even the way he sleeps,haha! And since he's snoring every night,he is not advised to sleep like the way you sleep so I am always telling him to sleep side ways.
• China
2 Oct 11
Favorite sleeping positon?Its hard to tell.I think i always change my position and when i fall asleep i change my position many times.Maybe i havent find out the best position to sleep.
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• Philippines
3 Oct 11
Haha,hi sishen! I can see my baby daughter in you,she moves all the time before sleeping and even while sleeping,haha! I'm sure you're single,hehe!
• Philippines
1 Oct 11
When I was really young, I used to hold my mom's hand when I slept. At around 10, my siblings and I were sent to another city to study and we've got to see our parents only once a week. During those times, I held hands with my sister when we slept. I don't know. Perhaps it was a psychological act of seeking security. I can easily fall asleep when I did this before. I used to be really scared to sleep alone.
• Philippines
3 Oct 11
Hi there! Welcome here! I guess when you're married,you'll also have the same sleeping position as what me and my hubby are having,holding hands while sleeping. Yes,I also feel secured holding my hubby's hand that's why I fall asleep with it,feels very comforting to me. Good thing your sister is sleeping with you.