Losing a Loved One

Hi Carpathian, Please accept my condolences and I'm very sorry to hear that twoey has passed away, I don't remember hearing it before. I have lost many friends and relatives over the years, the latest being my brother less than three weeks ago. It's never easy but don't withdraw from others or get drunk, neither is the answer. Friends, true friends, will help you feel better but drinking will only damage your health and waste your money. You will find that time is the great healer. I'm pleased that you have returned to myLot as I'm sure you have many friends here. Be strong. Blessings.

I'm very glad to see you back. I remember when I heard Twoey had passed away. I was so shocked. And I am sorry you had to deal with this loss. How is her family doing? And are you doing better?

I'm very sorry about your niece.Getting drunk does not help anything. The problem is still there. I don't think anything but time helps. I have lost most all my family & it's hard but time does help u get use to the idea.

We all had the same experienced of losing someone we love and that is really a hard time for us to cope up. For me i let the memory running on to my mind even it makes hurt. The reason was to make me immune in his memory and if i got immune i know that i am facing the reality and i can easily accept the situation. I know that its hard to do but we need too. When my father passed away that makes us hard to forget but we must need. The first thing my sister done was change the settings of our home. From the windows to the floor. and others follow. For me i let the memory flows and if i feel i like to cry so i cried loudly then after that i feel good. I didnt forget all memories...

So sorry to hear about you niece passing, may she rest in peace. I lost my immediate brother early in may and up to now an still mourning. Its hard to let go but but after sometime, it gets better. Now I can mention his name and talk about him with a smile. This is because I feel him deep in my heart and I know he will always be there. Take your time to mourn because the same time will heal you.

condolence T_T :( just think that your niece is in good hands and that she will be happy in her next life. Don't get yourself drunk as it will not help you forget the memories you share with your niece, (and you're jut wasting your money). Treasure the bond and memories you have with your niece do not try to forget it as it will only hurt you more. Try to move on without forgetting your niece. Be Happy !! :D

I'm so sorry to hear about that Carpathian. Hope you will always look forward. Tina will become an angel and always accompany u in your heart. As I know losing a loved one really breaks my heart. Till now I still very regret because I cannot go back to see my grandmother for the last sight. She passed away because of cancer. I still remember that time I need to sit for my Final Exam in my University. But that time my parents advise me not to go back since my grandmother already in a emergency situation. How to do? I have been located in different state which is far away from my hometown. So, I just can pray hard for my grandmother. But, God still take away her life. Its already 2 years plus she left. I know I cant do anything, I just hope she will become a better person in the next century or next world.

I am so sorry that your niece has passed from this life. I'm sorry that you are having a hard time with this and hope it gets better for you. You know she is still with you and will always be. One day you will be able to meet again, and it will be like nothing has changed.