@rose1717 on myLot

eljayo @eljayo (1105) • Philippines 6 Mar 12

Hi guys! I believe we have close friends. Of course we need them for support. However are we careful whom we have friends with? Do we go with them because they are cool,popular or we find comfort in their company? There is a...

friends

personality

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rose1717 I think it is pretty true. I think most people pick their friends by what they have in common with each other. I mean, if you were a person that didn't like liers then you wouldn't be a friend to someone who does nothing but lie. If you liked going to the...

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Porcospino @Porcospino (31366) • Denmark 6 Mar 12

My friend and her husband spend their summerholidays in the same town every year and they have done that for about 20 years. My friend likes to return to that place because it a nice place and because she knows many of the other...

new place

same place

travel

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rose1717 Could we have the same friend, lol. I too have a friend who has done the same vacation for 20 years. She and her husband always go every year, they even bought a house there. She says that it is so beautiful and relaxing. I like to go to different places...

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kyle2krystel @kyle2krystel (2489) • Japan 5 Mar 12

Holla there mylotters! It's been two weeks that I was gone and after sharing my problem/trouble with my husband, a huge fight night and a devastating days. I thought everything will be end after my husband didnt went home that...

reconcile

romantic vacation

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rose1717 I'm so glad that you and your husband worked everything out and talk more. Communication between husband and wife are very important.

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Jennifer @LovingMyBabies (85288) • Valdosta, Georgia 6 Mar 12

I have had some things happen to me in the past that I really need to talk about since I never really have talked about it. But I am afraid to find a therapist or counselor since I have kids. I have heard they will call you crazy...

counselor

kids

therapy

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rose1717 I there! The first thing I did was look to see where you live before answering. You are from the States like me :) They cannot take your children away just because you go and talk to a therapist or phycologest. I have young children myself and have talked with...

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C @ShyBear88 (59347) • Sterling, Virginia 19 Oct 11

What does marriage mean to you? There is many ways to explain what is marriage. There is a marriage between two people that is legal with papers and rings. There are marriages just with rings and no legal documents and then...

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rose1717 Yes, you are right. There needs to be trust too. You cannot have any of the others with out trust. Good point :)

6 Mar 12

shwetat195 @shwetat195 (628) • India 19 Feb 12

with crime on the rise, it is wise to prepare ourselves. however how do you protect your home and family. One option is with a weaponry to protect : but not to kill. in the same context we have a weapon called stun guns. these...

self defence

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rose1717 I have taken self defence classes. My family knows how to use weapons and can shoot if need be. If someone was breaking into my home I am not going to mess around with them and a stun gun, we are always home so I'm assuming that they intend to do harm to me or...

19 Feb 12

airamtheb @airamtheb (370) 19 Feb 12

Nowadays, people are getting so materialistic they can afford to loss their honor as long as they have plenty of money to buy big houses, high end cars and live a luxurious lifestyle. Some rich people whose values have been...

poor but with honor

rich but with dishonor

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rose1717 I would rather be poor with honor. I'm simple and like simple things. I do not like a lot of stuff cluttering up my home (which is small by normal standards, but perfect for us). I feel if I cannot wear it, use it, or eat it then I do not need it!

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Aja103654 @Aja103654 (5646) • Philippines 18 Feb 12

I know it's bad to talk about other people but I just can't help but share it here. Our neighbor has impregnated his girlfriend. Now, they have a son. This woman is terribly lazy and irresponsible. My aunt told me that this girl...

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rose1717 I do not think all teen parents are like this. I was a teen parent when I had my first child. I'm sure that I made many mistakes as all first time parents do. I have a teenager now and a pre-teen. I'm proud of the kids and how they have turned out. They are...

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humairaku @humairaku (2038) • Indonesia 27 Oct 11

Hi Mylotters! I think yesterday was really really bad day of mine. My four years old daughter didn't want to go to school cos she preferred watching new cartoon movie aired on TV to going to school. she never did like this...

daughter

left alone

parenting

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rose1717 See this is what is wrong with the world today. Kids do not listen to their parents, and their parents are not even parents. If they were their children would do what they say. It doesn't matter if it is a new cartoon or not that she wanted to see. You are her...

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humairaku @humairaku (2038) • Indonesia 27 Oct 11

Hi Mylotters! I think yesterday was really really bad day of mine. My four years old daughter didn't want to go to school cos she preferred watching new cartoon movie aired on TV to going to school. she never did like this...

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rose1717 You should have told your daughter too bad , she is going to work with you. She is only 4 years old and you are the parent. She should never get the say whether she gets to stay home alone or go with you. Where I live, it is aginst the law to leave home any...

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C @ShyBear88 (59347) • Sterling, Virginia 21 Oct 11

Do you spend time with your family on a regular bases or you all just go off and do things on your own with out spending time with one another as a group? Me and my husband we try to spend as much time as we can with our...

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rose1717 Yes we have family day Saturday, and have family night once during the weekday. During our family time, we hang out cooking together, have a family game night, read together, talk, or have a movie night. The kids are not allowed to have anyone over after 6 pm...

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C @ShyBear88 (59347) • Sterling, Virginia 19 Oct 11

What does marriage mean to you? There is many ways to explain what is marriage. There is a marriage between two people that is legal with papers and rings. There are marriages just with rings and no legal documents and then...

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rose1717 To me a marriage is a commitment to love, honor, and respect each other forever.

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joystick @joystick (1675) 18 Oct 11

After talking to a friend on the phone, i got thinking of all the things that people say to each other that can really make the other person feel upset or inadeqit.Take for instance a couple go out to a party and meet their...

couple

out together

partner

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rose1717 I agree that each erson takes things differently. I had this happen before when I took what a person said to me to heart.

19 Oct 11

ladym33 @ladym33 (10979) • United States 18 Oct 11

I just heard on the news that one Illinois suburb is trying to get a ban on eating while driving, making it illegal to eat and drive. I don't think this is a good law personally. I eat while driving all the time, if I didn't I...

eating while driving

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rose1717 I think as long as it is something that can be eatten with one hand then it is fine. I personally cannot eat and druve at the same time unless it is something like a ganola bar, lol. I tend to drop stuff off my sandwich all over myself, so I try not to eat and...

19 Oct 11

Tina Dalasinski @Tina30219 (81921) • Onaway, Michigan 18 Oct 11

Last month me and my husband celebrated oour 20th wedding anniversaary and for our anniversary we went to the country music hall of fame in Nashville Tennessee. I have a lot of pictures to share.

reba lunch box

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rose1717 Happy 20th anniversary to you and your husband. I think that is wonderful that you will renew your vows for your 25th. Hope you have many many more happy anniversaries!

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tink91879 @tink91879 (742) • United States 19 Oct 11

I emailed my mother in-law about our christmas plans. Im sure she wasnt thrilled I mentioned the problem we have with her sister. I explained in a nice way and told her I feel it best we dont be around her since she causes to many...

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rose1717 Yes it is rude to not respond at all. My guess is her feelings were hurt about what you said about her sister. I have the same issues with my MIL as well. I emailed her twice in the last two weeks and she has not replied to either one. I haven't heard from her...

19 Oct 11

chiyochan @chiyosan (30184) • Philippines 19 Oct 11

I have a friend who is in dilemna right now. I cannot really give a full advise as i am sometimes guilty of prioritising my mom over other things... The thing is they often go out and the boyfriend would tag along his mother....

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rose1717 I think how I would react depends on why the bf doesn't want to leave his mother alone and has her tag along. If she is unable to be left alone because of a health issue then I would be ok with it to some extent. I would like at least a hour or two of alone...

19 Oct 11

rmendoza123 @rmendoza123 (637) • Philippines 18 Oct 11

I really love to play online games, and when I do no one can disturb even from peeing (urinate). But, lately I feel some strange pain in my stomach. Do you think it's because I'm stopping myself from urinating trigger this pain?

heath problem cause by urine

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rose1717 It isn't good to hold your pee in for too long. It could be your reason for stomache aches or pain. I don't know if it is the same for men as it is for woman, but if a woman holds it too long it can cause a urinary track infection. If it happens a lot with...

19 Oct 11

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