Lazy teenage wife

now a days, it seems like a lot of parents aren't teaching their kids how to be sexually responsible. it's a very sad thing. my cousin's daughter has had 2 babies by the same boy and she only turned 20. fortunately, she takes good care of her babies. i have another cousin, her daughter has a child as well. she's only 19. my son is dating a 16 yr old that has a baby that's not quite 2 yet! her father wanted my son to stay the night. NO!!!!!!!!!! i told my son he better get his butt home! more parents need to teach their children to be more responsible. the world doesn't evolve around any single human being and they need to wake up and smell the coffee!

I do not think all teen parents are like this. I was a teen parent when I had my first child. I'm sure that I made many mistakes as all first time parents do. I have a teenager now and a pre-teen. I'm proud of the kids and how they have turned out. They are caring and responsible. I think the parents you describe do sound very young and not mature. It is sad that the baby will have to pay for how the parents act, but I think it will end up with the child being ok if the grandparents will step up and take care of the situation. I know that they shouldn't have to do that, but in this case I hope they can and are willing to do so.

I have a friend who has two children now, and I know for a fact that she chose to have the children so that she could have all of the financial benefits which are involved. Because she has two children, she gets a free house from the council, and gets enough money on which to live without her or her partner having to get any job at all. I would hate to live like this, and would never want to think that I was becoming a burden on the state just like it looks as though she is doing at the moment. I think that she needs to think more about setting a good example to her children more than anything else at this moment in time.

Sad, but nothing seems driving the girl to be a responsible parent, or is the girl freeing herself from the burden in preparation that she be able to take the child for the long haul? She had reasons to leave and her strong disapproval hint extreme need to let go. But for what in exchange? Maybe time will tell.

Young love, so strong! This girl still a kid. In the end the parents of this girl and the gu is the one to be blame.

I think there needs to be aware that we are not able to be parents when we were still immature,and do not need a young pregnant, what a pity for the child born as a child that is not in the expected birth,but was born too. Even more tragic is no longer the child has a bright future because of the attitude of parents like that.

The world is filled with people like this. And the children are the ones who suffer...

I personally believe that everyone of us will eventually reach a stage of inner realization. But the path is not easy. Whatever lessons one get during the first few years of one's childhood builds up a more stable base for character. This base is almost immovable, impenetrable. Mind I said 'almost'. Some people with intense feelings and rational mind will learn from their experiences. They will examine the root cause of sufferings much carefully. Others are too dull for that process. Impatient as they are, they won't even bother to think in depth. They are more inclined to dump the reponsibilities to someone else and escape the guilty feelings for a while. Everyone has to face himself in the mirror. Someone face it everyday and maintains and rectifies himself accordingly. Some others will be too scared to face the mirror. But they face it anyway.

Wow, I think It's becoming a trend nowadays,teenagers getting pregnant and their parents take care of the child. It's everywhere. Teenagers even they are young should learn when to become responsible. Getting impregnated should be the cue for them to do so. Having a child is wonderful. Although they got into this at an early age, they should still be responsible for their actions. Especially that they are dealing with another life. They could turn this baby into someone very special if they dedicate their time and be responsible enough to straighten out their lives. I just feel bad for the parents of these teenagers,they suffer because of their children's mistakes. They tried their best to give the best possible life for their kids but they end up cleaning up their mess and there are children out there who doesn't learn from it and doesn't care at all. Teenagers can't see the other side of it. They don't know that it's adding up to their parent's burden and yet they still demand understanding. Making mistakes is normal, because we aren't perfect people, everyone deserves a second chance. It's the person that decides if they want to use it. It's how we learn and try our best to change for the better that really matters. These teenagers you are talking about are still young and I hope they will learn their mistakes and they will realize that they have a responsibility now. The child. The child didn't ask to be born in this world and yet he/she was. So, it's the responsibility of the parents to do their best to make this life worth it for the baby.

As I recently read somewhere, you can't prevent the existence of these situations. They happen whether one likes it or not. People aren't really similar in many ways. They react to situations as differently as another person. The only thing one can do is hope for the best. However, I don’t thing these teenagers haven't realize the consequences of their actions yet. they may have survived the coming of the baby but parenting is a different ballgame altogether. They might be thinking that it is best to let the parents to take care of the child since the parents are very capable and had experience enough to rear the child. However, it is not an excuse to mature and be responsible for their actions. If I were the parent of the girl and the boy,. I might use some tough love. Reality and life isn’t fair and perhaps, will never be fair. But we have to impose some real hard truth even it kills the parent inside. Some lessons have to be learned and should not be waived out of love, consideration or another. It’s high time that some maturity be seen and manifested.

I’ve learnt that in this world, some people care, and some people don’t. that;s just the way it is. I know people who have children that on the outside seem to put the child first, but when things happen in their private life, especially the single mum’s .. they sort of neglect the child, don’t even get out of bed to take them to school because they are “depressed” .. but then I also know people who are so incredibly over-cautious and protective of their child, they smother the life out of them.. It’s just the way of the world.. and to be honest, if that is the girls reaction to her baby, maybe the baby is better off without her, and living with the daddy!

They definitely sound like teenagers. I think it is scary that such young people keep having children. They are children themselves having children. If I was the boy's mother I would force him to be responsible for his actions. His mother is actually enabling him to do nothing. She should be telling him after school each day if he is even in school he should be working some kind of job. He should also be told to hold his own child. The mother and father of this poor baby should be made by their parents to be "grown" like they wanted to be in the first place. It is a tough lesson but they brought this on with their own actions... They both are immature and had no business not using protection! Not unless they had a way to take care of the child which they clearly don't.... Just my opinion anyway...