Im against cheating

I am against cheating too. I don't think every girl assumes that her boyfriend or husband will be a cheater. I have been with my husband for 14 years and he has never cheated on me and has never given me any reason to think that he has. I love him that much more for this. I also will never cheat on him. Not everyone is a cheater.

I am against cheating in a relationship as well. I don't understand what the point of cheating is. If you are not happy in your relationship then you should break up and find someone who makes you happy and fills your needs. It isn't hard to break up and find someone better. It save heartache for the other person and it makes you look more mature by not cheating on someone. Not all girls think every guy is the same when it comes to cheating, unless, of course they give red flags that makes it look like they're cheating. An open and honest relationship is the key to a healthy relationship. If you cannot trust one another than either work on it or it's time to find someone you can trust. It sounds like you might be having a hard time finding a girl that trusts you and believes you, Callito. You will find someone out there that won't treat you badly and won't assume you're a cheater. Just make sure you don't give the girl a reason to distrust you. :)