Spitting Out Questions in Discussions

It happens to a great many of us where although I am very active here and probably appear on a great many discussions, that at times I do read far more then I perhaps participate with. There are times after reading a discussion, responses and comments I can't participate as that would mean that I would probably duplicate a response. I personally find myLot to be very relaxing as it keeps my mind off offline issues. Coffee and myLot for me go hand on hand.

I started keeping a list but that soon became too long so I made a database. Mylot members: who post multiple discussions. who don't read their own discussions. who don't comment back. who don't accept different opinions to their own. who are a complete raving looney. These are people to avoid. And you just can't do any mylotting without a cup of coffee!

That is very true, Amfyre. In fact, some people don't even bother to give meaningful questions also, and churn out the same questions all the time. One favourite question which is asked by generations of Mylotters is "How can we increase our earnings in Mylot?", or "How can I get more responses to my discussions?" Others are concerned by their earnings in different sites like Clixsense, and want others' opinions on them. I mean, why can't people post questions on general topics which others would be interested to respond? And when they do respond, please do have the courtesy to comment back on their responses. I post very few questions myself, and I am more interested in responding to other people's discussions. But of late, with the quality of discussions degrading so drastically, I'm finding it harder and harder to get some discussions which i would be actually interested to respond to. And that makes me more frustrated and bored.

I am a newbie but it seems the point here is to engage in discussions - if someone asks questions and doesn't answer responses, it doesn't make sense (but I guess they are just looking to make fast "cents" rather than really participate in the site as intended). Yes, I would LOVE another cup of coffee!! Got any hazelnut creamer? Mmm...

i think it might be the fullfillment of a deep seated need, though what that need is probably varies considerably from person to person.

I am new on this site. I do not understand, how the character of the members of this site. As I know, this site is the site of discussion. So should respond who discussed. I want to create a discussion, but I have not found a way to create a discussion. I am still very confused. Since registering on this site, I just responded to a discussion that I found. I feel addicted, respond to discussions on this site. It was nearly half a day, my computer does not turn off. I too enjoy, that I forget time.

I would love a refill...but, I am off to work for a few hours, so will take a "raincheck!" Due to inclement weather, I spent more time than usual here this past weekend..AND Boy, oh boy--are you RIGHT! It seemed to have irked many, many persons, but the offenders carried on obliviously...just posting and posting with absolutely NO responses! I even stuck my neck out to some, and gently reminded them, their earnings increased with responding...but really, I got more respect from my dog...as he "woofed" back, and cocked his head, making every effort to interact..!! Even my old Ram, had a bleet or two back! Cheers!

Yeah that tends to happen with a lot of people. I'm guessing its because of a lack of understanding with how this great website rather works to say the very least. It is very tempting to post a lot of topics when inspiration hits and inspiration can rather hit often. However, there is something to be said about saving some topics for a rainy day. There are times where in some of the more absurd situations, I see about eight topic discussions by the same person in a row in a short time. Sit back and slow down a little bit. There's really no prize for making the most topic discussions in an hour. If there was, I shudder to think what might be posted. Then again, that's a rather common mistake.

It happens to a lot of us for the fact you are so use to writing and then you start to write about any and everything, and about time you get to the topic that you posted the first time someone else has responded to your other post then you are going back to respond and then, you got another response so then you go respond there, then you notice that you have some thing else to write about then you are writing and the going back to post, and then before you notice, you just go ahead and then write without responding some days then you go back and respond, so for soem people it takes time, then people can respond to old post to, and if someone respond to your old post then you are behind, so it's time that's all.

Im not as observant as you to know that some people started discussions and left it not bothering to respond back to the responders, it is because I only have limited time to use internet and mylotting :( but mostly when i respond to a discussion i get notification on my emails that the discussion starter has comment back on my response, it is nice to get a comment back from the discussion starter and if we can engage more into details discussion. I have started several discussions and I always try to give comment to the responder as soon as i could, I dont have problem to comment back because I dont get many responses just few and max is 9, I would love to get more responses but maybe it is me who dont know how to make interesting discussion. I would love to get coffee refill from you, but whenever I drink coffee it makes me feel as if Im in love..you know heart beating faster, feel anxiety, makes me feel uneasy, unable to sleep, you know almost alike falling in love syndrome hahaha :D I drink a mug of coffee this morning and I wont be able to sleep tonight .