You can't please everybody....
By ardoy0731
@ardoy0731 (7308)
Philippines
October 20, 2011 7:53am CST
I do believe that we really can't please everybody.That no matter how you try,there are still some people who will not appreciate your effort and will let you down.In all aspects in life, everyone of us experience this kind of dilemma.Why are some people who are like that.Are you like them?Have ever experience that too?
We should try to appreciate each and everyone no matter what or who she/he is.Everyone should be happy for others.
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18 responses
@befrindwithme26 (5805)
• Philippines
21 Oct 11
Yes right ,you can't please every one because they are different personalities,and also you are different to them.
Theey are different to what we think,and also especially here,you will encounter different kinds of opinions,attitudes..
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@befrindwithme26 (5805)
• Philippines
22 Oct 11
Yes understand other people is very important so we can knw and advance about them..
But they also need to understand us for both and also balance,not only them but also us.
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@ardoy0731 (7308)
• Philippines
21 Oct 11
We are really different to each other.We should try to understand each and everyone to have a better life to live.Have a nice day.
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@nezavisima (7408)
• Bulgaria
20 Oct 11
If you want to please all you will never be able to do so.
some just always a solid he is not pleased.
there are always some who fret and unhappy.
I do not know why but it always occurs.
not always able to please all as and pains.
interesting discussion.
nice day!
@nezavisima (7408)
• Bulgaria
20 Oct 11
It is not.
it really gives us the motivation we can make things better and more beautiful.
We can try to please although I fear that we can done within it.
Yet I wish you to please everybody.
successful and enjoyable day!
@ardoy0731 (7308)
• Philippines
20 Oct 11
Thanks.Have a nice day too.
I think that's part of our life.Somehow,those people we don't please give us motivation to work harder the next time around.
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@gelayagui98 (1336)
• Australia
21 Oct 11
You are right ardoy we can't really please everybody but I am not one of them. So we should always aware that in the walk of life, no matter how hard times get, always keep your head high and continue to be strong because there are people who would kill to see you fall.
@ardoy0731 (7308)
• Philippines
21 Oct 11
Correct.We should keep our head high as long as we don't hurt anyone with the things that we do.Always do our best and have faith and fear with God.
@anusha2128 (886)
• India
22 Oct 11
Yeah i agree with you friend...
Always encouraging gives us more spirit to do good things in our life...
I will always tries to encourage people who are trying to do good things and always scolds the person who discourages them directly....
@ardoy0731 (7308)
• Philippines
22 Oct 11
Thanks.We can help other people in doing things by giving encouragement.
@marie_cuizon (191)
• Philippines
21 Oct 11
It's really true that we can hardly please everybody no matter how good we are to them. I have in this situation for a lot of times already. And it's somehow depressing to be judged or to be neglected by somebody. However, i just try not to be totally affected by it. I know it's a part of life that i have to deal with. Instead, i took it as a challenge to improve myself. Right now I don't care anymore if i can't please other people as long as I'm not doing anything wrong with them. :-)
@ardoy0731 (7308)
• Philippines
21 Oct 11
Right.It is part of our life and somehow it do make us better person and excel more in the things that we do.
Yes,as long as you are doing anything wrong with them,don't care about them,care for your self.
@Bluedoll (16773)
• Canada
20 Oct 11
I presume you mean we should not be jealous or envious of other people to the point of being rude to others when you say everyone should be happy for others. If others do well then most of time we all receive some benefit of their gain in some way anyway. I think the reason we can not please everyone is because everyone has a different need or desire. What we do might not match up with what they are looking for at the time.
@ardoy0731 (7308)
• Philippines
20 Oct 11
I agree.All of us are different from each other.We have different desire,way of thinking and appreciation on things,and I do respect.Rejection from the people we don't please can serve as motivation to work harder.
@Bluedoll (16773)
• Canada
21 Oct 11
Yes I agree very much ardoy that we can learn by our mistakes or rejection from others. It is a test and if we do not get a good mark we have only found out what we need to work on. But what about rejection because the other person just does not favour you or your gift? What then? Another person could appreciate it?
@mods196621 (3652)
• Philippines
21 Oct 11
That is reality that we cannot please everbody so we need to accept these things are happen in life. Sometimes we think that we do good to our neighbor and we expect that we pleased them by what we did but unfortunately is not. Some people are open minded and some are not. So what we do to others that we dont them to do with us.. do not do others. If we are open minded for sure we understand things around us and we know to appreciate them in many ways. so let us be happy and appreciate what things around us that shows life.
@ardoy0731 (7308)
• Philippines
21 Oct 11
Yes this is reality.We should learn to accept things weather it is good or bad and try to move on and live life happy.
@katie0 (5203)
• Japan
21 Oct 11
Oh no we can't at all, we can like half of the people but not all of them. We have to remember that not even JESUS CHRIST pleased everybody, even if HE was PERFECT, so imagine us, mortals, what can we do to please? lol... there's always someone that get us wrong isn't? And isn't annoying?
@ardoy0731 (7308)
• Philippines
21 Oct 11
It is quite annoying and irritating sometimes, but we should not mind them.Just do our best and God will do the rest..Have a great day/
@ardoy0731 (7308)
• Philippines
21 Oct 11
Yes it could be waste of time if we please them but they don't appreciate it.
@flowerfest08 (1677)
•
21 Oct 11
hi:)
yes that't true, we cannot please everybody, however we tried they will always think of something to criticize about. so just do what you think is right, and just ignore some of their not good criticism.
@ardoy0731 (7308)
• Philippines
21 Oct 11
Your right,there is always criticism.As long as we did it right,don't care on what they are saying.But there are also constructive criticism that may help us somehow.
@vasumathi (436)
• India
20 Oct 11
Everybody has their own likes and dislikes. so it is very difficult to satisfy everybody. Even if you try doing that finally you will lose your happiness. Live your life !!!
@ardoy0731 (7308)
• Philippines
21 Oct 11
Right,it is really difficult to satisfy everyone,there are always exception.As long as we are happy with what we have done,that would be the best, no matter what other people say.
@ardoy0731 (7308)
• Philippines
20 Oct 11
Yes,at least we have try.And no matter what happen we should be happy caused we give our best,and at the end of the day what we feel is more important.
@tamirs (1807)
• Philippines
20 Oct 11
i don't want to please everybody cause it will mean i cant be myself anymore. pleasing everybody means you have to be like them all the time..I sometimes try but if i know i cant i stop trying,it hurts to know the you did your best but still its not good enough...
@ardoy0731 (7308)
• Philippines
21 Oct 11
You have a point,it is our choice,we don't have to please them all.We should do things for them first but for ourselves.
@Eilenee (2)
• Romania
20 Oct 11
How about starting to please yourself?, a positive attitude regarding your own person shows up in other people's perception about you. When you are really happy and you show this to everyone, people can see that and at least they try to share your own feelings, exceptions of course do happen. It's karma, what goes around comes back around :).
@ardoy0731 (7308)
• Philippines
21 Oct 11
Yep,we have to happy on doing things,and about exceptions,this really can 't leave behind.
@ravinskye (8237)
• United States
20 Oct 11
I usually don't try to please everyone. I know it's hopeless. I feel lately like I can't please anyone though. I try to make things better but it seems like I'm spinning my wheels. I think some people just like to be miserable.
@ardoy0731 (7308)
• Philippines
20 Oct 11
Yes,we can't really please them all.I think was important is that we give it a try and we please and satisfy ourselves on the things we have done.
@sreekutty (1051)
• India
20 Oct 11
good point. I know what you mean. certain people never appreciate my efforts in spite of my complete dedication. I used to feel bad and cry a lot but now I am- like who cares- let them think what they think- God knows me and he will reward me if I am worth it.
@ardoy0731 (7308)
• Philippines
20 Oct 11
Thanks.We can really give what they wanted no matter how we try.Nice attitude,who cares as long as you don't hurt anyone,go for it,do our best and God will do the rest.
@airkulet (2700)
• Philippines
20 Oct 11
Yes I believe so. Just like our President PNoy have been experiencing some will say that he doesn't do his duty but others are satisfied with him. For me if the person wasn't please to anyone they tend to destroy that person and trying to make him down.
@ardoy0731 (7308)
• Philippines
20 Oct 11
Yep,no matter you try there still people who will not satisfied with it.Just do your best and just enjoy what you are doing.