i'm just confused !! and asking for help !!

I think we all get confused sometimes. It is part of life. I like sharing my feelings and thoughts but only about some things. Some private things are out of bounds (some of which is for my protection) and I choose not to share them. Everyone has feelings and I try to connect to other people and understand how they feel. I will not allow myself to be bullied though and consider my friends are the ones I want mostly to relate to. Hope this helps a little and welcome to mylot carolin1e

Even very strong people have doubts about some issues: it´s part of living. And life is not easy. It is complex and sometimes very difficult. Just go on and be happy when you can. Sorrow comes without our calling it.

There are many people like you, might be even most people are like you. The fact you don't see it, or should I say they know how to hide it, doesn't mean they don't feel the same way. There are many ways we can be self confidianced and many ways we can be weak. The question is what do you show to the outside world? What you show is the pic people make from you. The only thing I would bother about with you is that you say that every single little thing can bother you and destroy you. You should find out where this comes from. Did you never hear something positive, do you need a lot of compliments from other people? Only if you find the reason why others can break you so easily you can find a solution for that. In my eyes you are completely normal. There is nothing wrong with changing your mind if you find out something else will work better for you. There is no need always to be strong. But please don't let others break you with just a very small thing. This is the only thing you should be concerned about. Tell yourself you are a great person. You will decide yourself and it's fine if you change your decision if tht feels better. I wish you the best.

We all feel confused sometimes. Right now, I feel it. I cry these past days because of an unfulfilled hope. Anyhow, I managed with friends and family. They matter a lot. I share them my sentiments. Even if I don't, they feel me. I am glad for them. Try to talk things out and share and somehow, laugh about it. Make light the matter. We are not perfect. We are simply humans.

I guess it is normal for us to be confused sometimes and all we have to do is to stop, take a break and rest our mind and take a deep breath and relax. We should also do our best to keep our composure and don't let emotions eat us. Take Care!

I guess it is normal for us to be confused sometimes and all we have to do is to stop, take a break and rest our mind and take a deep breath. We should also do our best to keep our composure and don't let emotions eat us. hope it helped. :)

Hi Carolin1e! I believe I know what you are trying to say. There are times when I also feel confused about something that I cannot put a name on it. It's just that the feeling is there for no apparent reason. I think it is just a phase though because we can still live by no matter what feelings we have each day. Just pray a lot my dear and focus on the good things around you. I am certain there are many nice things that you can dwell on instead of focusing on being confused. Be happy and stay happy :) Good morning!