why is it so???

India
October 24, 2011 12:13pm CST
why do people like(love) only good looking people. The guy or gal who is ugly may have kind heart and open minded. why do people don't love them??
9 responses
@phillyguy (3005)
• Philippines
24 Oct 11
For me it's not true some people do love ugly guy it's just harder for ugly guys to find someone who will love them.
@phillyguy (3005)
• Philippines
24 Oct 11
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@fazril (71)
25 Oct 11
it not love man.love is come from a heart not in the eyes.just looking for a good looking it selfish.just to show off to another people
@ashbelle (49)
• Philippines
24 Oct 11
Not everyone resent or dislike ugly people. However, the norm for us nowadays is to be drawn to good-looking ones. But aside from looks, its the personality that can pull those 'not-so-good-looking' people up.
@stuckonu (726)
• Philippines
25 Oct 11
This is mostly the case because the media is giving us the mindset that romance should ONLY be between two beautiful individuals. Although there are exceptions, most people would go for someone beautiful physically than internally.
@bubuth (1815)
• Philippines
25 Oct 11
its not true..i do love my husband even his not super handsome and i know that he love me even im not super beautiful.. we are not created perfect in appearance but we love each other..we dont look in physical appearance...i love him because he is the one who makes me smile even his doing nothing...he is the one who makes me happy..
• Philippines
25 Oct 11
Individuals were made in a unique way. God made us all with different looks, personality, and character. Yes it is true that men/women that are not good looking are somewhat discriminated in our society. There is no "ugly" people for me by their looks, but there is "ugly" people by their personality though they look handsome/beautiful outside. If u know yourself very well that u are created by God by his own image don't be bothered if you feel that people do not love you, just go on with what u do and let those people fall on their faces. If u are looking for someone who would love you, pray for that person I am sure God is listening and He will turn that person's heart to fall into you. Nothing is impossible.
• United States
24 Oct 11
I do not believe that this is true. I have many friends who are not what society defines as "good looking," however, their confidence shines through, and people are drawn to them. Good looks definitely capture the attention of most people at first, but if someone is dull and boring, then good looks aren't enough for people to want to stay around them. It has more to do with personality and confidence in the long run. You can be average or below average looking with an amazing personality, and people will be drawn to you. You can also be extremely good looking with a dull personality and a lack of confidence, and people won't really want to be around you.
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
24 Oct 11
Look around you. Read all the investigations. The biggest group of singles are good looking/beautiful/handsome people. And if they are well educated that group is even bigger. Nobody wants a beautiful partner if it comes to that, always afraid they will find someone else or someone will take that partner away from them. I see plenty of ugly people who do have a partner. The question is: what exactly is ugly? Ugly is not the body/face but the personality of someone. It can be a nasty personality, a depressing personality, a pessimistic personality, etc. All these negative personalities show and take energy and you need to be very strong to neglect that and not feel sucked empty by all that negative energy. Look at the most populair people, they are surely not the most beautiful/handsome people but they are shining and brighten up the air/life if you are with them. They give you energy.
@Hazelme (647)
• United States
24 Oct 11
This is very common in every country. Although I don't go for looks but it's true. When people see you the first time you give them the first impression. People always go for looks first then what's inside. I think it's pretty sad when people always "fall in love" with someone who's good looking, but honestly that's Lust which many people confuse it with "love". I believe that a person can be good looking from the outside and almost seen perfect but if from the inside has a ugly personality- then that destroys everything.