love lost

Hai friend Lijooos....As a friend, I can say you only that Don't worry...If she don't like you,Then why you remembers her always???Do you want to disturb her????? She shown her unlike by changing her number...So you just keep quite..wait and see... If she was in some problems,She will call you....There,a good and lovable woman will be waiting for you...So be happy about thinking that...She don't love you..Then why you tries to follow her???Leave and forget her...Enquire for a good partner... All the best.....

Welcome to mylot! Don't worry that was a girl just to get experience eve thought you don't see it like this, I tell you this because the same thing happened to me, everybody kept telling me that he was only my first boyfriend and that he was to get experience and learn what kind of person I want for my life,that we have (to drink diferrent juices to see which one feel good in your stomach.I thought that it was not true and didn't want to listen my family friends and even a csychiatry told me that, then I didn't want to listen and my relationship with that guy was so bad he always kept breaking with me and then coming back,he was jealous even to the air, he prohibited to have friends wear a kind of clothes and a lot of things more, but I didn't want to listen good advises then I got married and man, was the worst man,I was always alone he was always in the street, and if I asked him where was him he used to say that I don't have to know,he hit one time,didn't want that I work, I left the university,and lost evrything for him,and at the end he sent me the divorce and got married with another woman, I said got married because he was living in USA and I was in DR. So try to forget her God has better things for you.

Yes mate... it will be tough to forget her as she was your first, but dont worry, it may take you some time, but you will get over with your emotions for her. It will take a lot from you, but you will grow out of it to become a much stronger person. All the best

yes friend .. i understand you for that situation.. if you not trust her and that you said u don't want her more.. but good memory with her cannot deleted easier .. you can love her as your wish and be good friend to her.. if the time past you will be heal for that horrible pain.. take care friend..

You know what? That is completely normal. On how you are feeling right now. I had felt that before when my ex boyfrend left me. I tried everything to forget him but the feelings became stronger and i missed him everyday. I've started dating again but it was a complete messed. So I've said to myself that I won't search on it; then it came. You know, You lose someone because there is someone much better for you. Everybody deserved to love and to received the right love. And you are right love is really amazing because it will make you happy and sometimes very sad or makes you really go crazy. And I also afreethat love as much as you can because you might regret it if the person is already gone and you did not give the love that she or he truly deserves.

so my question,,why you can break up with her? if the answer is there an error is your hand, it should be you who should start the phone, do not wait on the phone. because the guilt will continue to hount you. so that you find hard to forget. thank you :-)

this may sound strange and cold but nothing happens without a reason what you consider a loss right now, you may find it a good thing later on a few times I had to let go love interests and found a new love I deserve you will love again, I guarantee it but you will need to move on from this pain, or you will miss new love

Hi Lijooos, Yours was such a young love and though it didn't last, it left you with good memories. It is important to learn from this experience and learn from it so that you can do better in your future relationships. Even if you say you don't wanna fall in love again, once love comes knocking at your door, you cannot resist it. Have a good day.

You are far too young to believe that your first love is your last love. You need to put it behind you and move one. The right one is out there...go find her.

yes .. love is amazing, you will never forgot her even pass month or year..never give up to fellow your heart..if she not have other guy she will back for you.. hope you will happy with your love or found some one that really love you.. :)

to lose when love hurts an awful lot. just so you know what. ponakoga love is pain sometimes happiness. is different every time. I hope now to chuvstavet better and enjoy life. success with new love. nice day!

since you don't know the reason behind that, your girl owe you an explanation..but, you have to move on..so divert your feeling to some activities that are productive..and never divert your feelings to other girl..misery loves company..you might end up hurting the other girl..

We will all have our hearts broken and we all will break hearts it is a painful but necessary part of life. I am glad that you got the chance to feel love and am sorry you felt the pain of losing it but know that when you find the one who will love you for a lifetime every hurt and heartache you have felt along the way will pale in comparison to the joy you will find in your true love. Never stop loving and never stop looking for new ways to love the ones who are in your life. Learn from the pain you feel now and remember it, it will make you appreciate the sunshine even more when it comes.

Love lost. I lost my wife of 20 yrs. Now divorced and I can tell you the pain is still there but there is hope. It takes time but you will move on. Who knows you might find someone better. Falling in love is never a finality...... meaning there are plenty more out there looking for you. :) Good Luck.

You are a natural, fully formed human being. Love penetrates deeper than feelings into the heart. You were rooted in love for that girl for many months, which became a part of your being itself. Now that she has left you for another, you need time to heal the wounds caused by uprooting her from your life. In this you need to understand DO NOT TRUST MEN, they are like you mere dust. Today it is there like a flower in the field, tomorrow the wind blows and its place doesn't know about it anymore. Only one can be trusted who is not a human being, that is GOD. God so loved YOU that HE gave HIS only SON to love (save) you forever. He will never break your heart like your friend. God is Love.

In life nothing is impossible if you like someone so much nokoga netryabva to quit should always fight for people who love.