If a baptized catholic marries a non-baptized person, is that a valid marriage??
By bb_gabs
@bb_gabs (205)
Philippines
November 15, 2011 5:29am CST
I am just wondering if there are two people who really wants to marry but have different religion, and any of them don't want to sacrifice their religion they are baptized with. Is it really possible that their marriage will be valid?
9 responses
@owlwings (43910)
• Cambridge, England
15 Nov 11
Marriage is a civil contract. It doesn't matter whether the ceremony is performed in a church or elsewhere, the legality and validity of the marriage is determined by whether it is performed by a person who is legally entitled to do so (and most ministers of religion are).
The solemnisation of a marriage or the blessing of it in a church or other place of worship is a completely different thing and does not affect the legality of the marriage, although the two parts of the ceremony may not be separable or possible to distinguish. It is up to the church concerned (and the minister) whether they will agree to conduct a marriage between people of different sects or religions (or no religion) and some ministers will not agree to do this. You should discuss this with the minister beforehand, of course.
It is possible to have a civil marriage (in a registry office) and then to arrange a separate ceremony in a place of worship to bless the union. Again, many ministers may not agree to do this and it very much depends on the personal beliefs of the couple (and, perhaps, their families) whether they consider it important or necessary. Nevertheless, the marriage is still valid in law with or without the religious ceremony.
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@iuliuxd (4453)
• Romania
16 Nov 11
Yeah sounds strange doesn`t it ? If you want to marry inside the church then both people should be members of the church what is so hard to understand ? No one is forcing you to marry on the church you can do the civil marriage and that`s it.But if for someone is so important to be married in front of God what is more important ? your "gang " or your love for the other ? If your "gang " is more important then you can dump your gf and find yourself another one from the same "gang " .If love for the other is more important then you will change your confession .I don`t think there are too many churches that will allow an inter confessional marriage.It has nothing to do with your freedom of worship or whatever you want to call it.You are free to worship anyone but you can`t force the catholic church to do a service for you if you`re not catholic.Or the baptist church if you`re not baptist etc.
@srjac0902 (1169)
• Italy
16 Nov 11
Anyone who wishes to answer this question or siscussion must reffer to this link and read the content for an authentic response. : http://www.catholicdoors.com/misc/marriage/canonlaw.htm
The validity of catholic marriage can be authentic by abiding to the Cannon Law of the Catholic Church alone. Any argument contrary to this Law can be an opinion. but the authenticity is in submission to the Code of Cannon Law of the Catholic Church which is binding to the Catholics.
@zralte (4178)
• India
15 Nov 11
I think it would depend on their church. If they find a church willing to marry them even though they are of different beliefs, I would think that would be valid. The problem would be finding a church that would allow that. To my knowledge, there is no church that would marry two people of different beliefs.
@chookie1971 (2271)
• Australia
15 Nov 11
I am a catholic married to a person from another religion but also is a non believer. I did want to have a church wedding. My partner was previously married, so for me to get married, my partner would have to get an anullment which could take years. The catholic church did not have a problem marrying my partner and I after the anullment. I opted for a garden wedding. So in my country, even though I am married to a non catholic, I am still legally married.
A family member of mine married a non catholic in a catholic church. But that marriage failed. The family member did remarry in a church but it wasn't a catholic church. It was anglican church. For the family member to remarry in a catholic church both family member and partner would both have to get anullments.
In the case of you what are talking about, neither of them would have to give up their own religion, Just a matter of finding a balance. You never know if you talk to ministers of both religions, you might be able to have both ministers from both religions present at the wedding.
@iuliuxd (4453)
• Romania
15 Nov 11
Don`t do it if he doesn`t want to change his
I think it`s different for different religions,some of them will ask one of you to be baptized first and to change his/her religion.If one of you have a problem with that then maybe you shouldn`t get married in the first place.Find yourself a good catholic and that`s it .
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
15 Nov 11
Over here marriage is only marriage if you are married by law. So church has nothing to do with being married for real.
I think it's common that one of the two will change it's religion if you want to get married for church as well. Although there are churches who don't care about that either and have special services for that.
So if it's a valid marriage depends on the church but also the way you look at it.